A piece of news I saw recently:
A Chongqing man got a daughter because of a child, and he made a lot of nonsense in the circle of friends:
"I don't even bother to pick a name"
"I've done evil in the past few years"
"I'm too lazy to do a paternity test......
As soon as this remark came out, it was no surprise that he was scolded from the circle of friends to the hot search on the whole network.
Ignoring his wife's hard work in childbirth, and making a new life snub and disliked at the beginning of the arrival, of course he should be scolded.
But as this netizen said, we should also reflect on "When will the feudal idea of preference for sons over women be eradicated?"
A reality that has to be admitted is that this phenomenon is still common, and from childhood to adulthood, the living environment of girls is still not optimistic.
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How worthless can a girl's life be?
Do you still remember a news story that happened in Shandong 3 years ago?
Just because she couldn't get pregnant, Fang Mouyang, a 23-year-old Texas girl, was abused by her husband and in-laws for 2 years.
What's so scary about ghosts, let's show you people's hearts!
The father-in-law's confession in court restored the details of what happened on the day Fang Mouyang was beaten to death many times:
The first time was around 8:30 in the morning, when her mother-in-law asked her to brush the pot, but she didn't do it, and her mother-in-law took a wooden stick 50 centimeters long and about 3 centimeters wide and whipped her.
The second time was when the father-in-law heard the sound, jumped out and dragged her to the ground roughly, and beat her legs and buttocks with the same wooden stick.
The third time was after the beating, her in-laws asked her to stand in the yard and freeze, it was the cold winter of Layue.
The fourth time was at about half past ten, when her father-in-law asked her to slaughter a fish, but when she didn't do it, her father-in-law drove her out into the yard again and beat her with a stick.
The fifth time was around 11:30, when the family was ready to eat, but they didn't let her eat it, and only threw away two steamed buns.
The sixth time was around 3:30 p.m., my father-in-law asked her to bring something over, but she didn't take it, and my father-in-law took scissors and cut her hair.
The seventh time was around 4:30 p.m., when my father-in-law heard her mother-in-law shouting for her to wash her clothes, but she hadn't moved, he immediately took out a stick and whipped her a few times.
This tragic day is just a reflection of her daily life.
After the last beating, she was cold and collapsed on the bed. At 6 p.m., she developed a breathing disorder, and 40 minutes later, when the "120" emergency personnel arrived, she was no longer breathing of life.
In the end, the young woman surnamed Fang was abused to death on the basis of chronic malnutrition.
Under violence and mental torture, a tall girl of 176 years before marriage and more than 160 pounds died of less than 60 pounds, equivalent to the weight of a primary school student.
Even when questioned later, the mother-in-law's family kept emphasizing: "The daughter-in-law we spent 130,000 bride price to marry back couldn't pass on the lineage, we were deceived so hard!"
Some netizens in the comment area left a sharp message: Women in Shandong are so worthless?
It's not that Shandong women are worthless, but in the eyes of their in-laws: women are fertility machines that they bought back for 130,000 yuan;
Who said that "patriarchy" has disappeared, this tragedy and verdict are starkly proof that this stinking old idea still exists, and even intensifies.
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"I spent 200 yuan and killed my son with my own hands"
A while ago, Xiaosieve swiped a social news on Weibo that should not appear in 2022.
Xiao Chen and his wife gave birth to daughters in their first two children, and they were pregnant with a third child, and they stuffed money for gender identification. The results of the identification are written on the girl.
For financial reasons, the couple decided to have an abortion when the fetus was 5 months old.
But after the induction of labor, it was found that it was a boy.
Mr. Chen angrily approached the media to ask for an explanation.
He didn't get an explanation, Xiao Sieve didn't care, but the news was too ironic: he was bent on seeking a son, but he killed his own son with his own hands!
In this small sieve, we should seriously remind that it is illegal to determine the sex of the fetus for non-medical reasons!
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"Pick up the male treasure in the womb and be born smoothly!"
For many people, patriarchy is already a very old word.
But if you've seen many post-95s "pick up male treasures" in an almost pious way, this impression will soon change.
Looking at platforms such as Xiaohongshu and Babytree, tens of thousands of mothers "kneel to pick up male treasures" online.
I have to say, this kind of swiping prayer is really magical!
What's even more magical is the "female-turn-male", thinking that as long as you pray sincerely, or cast some spells, the female treasure in the stomach can become a male treasure??
But anyone who has finished junior high school biology will understand that the sex of the fetus is already destined after the combination of sperm and egg.
Of course, these are actually quite good.
There is also this: a woman in Huaihua, Hunan Province, was found by security personnel to carry bullets when she was riding in a car.
The truth of the matter is laughable:
The police remind: the bullet may explode when it encounters high temperature or knocking, which is very dangerous.
I have to say that this operation is no longer "magic" but "magic".
If the above spiritual prayers are harmless, then the following "Dafa of Giving Birth to a Male", which is still popular, is a bit crazy.
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"After taking the reincarnation pill, my child became intersex"
What are reincarnation pills?
The reincarnation pill is a pill used to change the sex of the fetus, that is, the sex of the fetus changes from female to male. But in fact, the pill contains a large dose of androgens, which is a poison for pregnant women.
How many family tragedies and how many deformed yin and yang children were born originated from this reincarnation pill.
In March 2012, when a woman in Zhumadian, Henan Province was 5 months pregnant, she ate the reincarnation pill given by her mother-in-law, but the baby she gave birth to could not distinguish between male and female.
In August 2017, a pregnant woman in Lianyungang, Jiangsu Province, took a reincarnation pill when she was pregnant, but when the baby was 4 years old, she found out that the child was a bisexual child.
In 2019, a 15-year-old girl in Huai'an, Jiangsu Province, had never had a period, and went to the hospital for examination only to find that one of her kidneys was missing, she had no uterus, and she had no fertility for life. The reason for this is that the mother has taken "reincarnation drugs" during pregnancy.
Isn't this bloody case worth being wary of?
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At this point, Xiao Sieve has been out of anger, and at the same time feels deeply powerless:
We've obviously advertised that boys and girls are the same for so many years.
But the reality is that in the vast land of China, especially in the small cities with relatively traditional concepts, the idea of preference for sons over women is still very, very common.
It is true that weak individuals cannot completely change stereotyped thinking.
But what we can do is to stop being silent about patriarchy, no longer tolerating the harm of women, and no longer turning a blind eye to sexism.
As long as there are enough people who speak up, change will come one day.
I like a sentence very much: If there is really a throne to inherit in the family, I can also become Wu Zetian.
Remember, every girl's birth should be expected.