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As the saying goes: there can only be one hostess in a family, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also difficult to handle
When your child is sick and your daughter-in-law thinks that she should send the child to the hospital for medical treatment, but your mother does not approve of going to the hospital, thinking that it will be better to heal herself, what will you do? #文章首发挑战赛#
Recently, a similar thing happened, the woman said that her child had a high fever and was going to go to the hospital for medical treatment, but her mother-in-law has been preventing her child from going to the hospital, thinking that it would be better for the child to heal himself.
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Event recap
On December 25, the woman took care of her child at home, and found that the child had always had a high fever, and now her lips were chapped, which made the woman very anxious, so she wanted to take the child to the hospital for medical treatment
But I didn't think that my mother-in-law would not let her live or die, she thought that taking medicine was useless, and it was not good for the body, so it would be good for the child to heal himself, and the woman heard it, so she quarreled with her mother-in-law, and her husband was also persuading her mother-in-law on the side
But it didn't play a role, and the child was not allowed to go to the hospital for medical treatment, which made the woman very angry, but helpless
This is very incomprehensible, if the common cold allows the child to heal himself, it can still be said in the past, the common cold sometimes sweats well, but the high fever does not go away, and the severe lips are chapped, then it is not so simple
If you don't seek medical attention in time, you may burn the child's head and may have a lung infection, and then you need to go to a serious illness, which is impossible to heal by yourself, and the process of self-healing has not thought about how much pain the child has to bear?
Netizens' views on this matter
Some netizens said: "If you can't even be the master of your own children, then don't have children, think that high fever is already a very serious symptom, and you should be sent to the hospital for medical treatment as soon as possible, there is no need to listen to your mother-in-law"
Some netizens also said: "Where is the child's father? At this time, isn't it more important for the father to come out and make a decision and take the child to the hospital for medical treatment?
Some netizens also said: "I also have a similar experience, when my nephew had a fever for several days in five months, my sister's mother-in-law prevented her from going to the hospital, secretly called me, I went to hold the child and left, went to the hospital for a checkup, and it was pneumonia"
A few years ago, we rented a house in Shanghai, the landlord had a child with cerebral palsy, the landlord said that it was because the child had a fever when he was young, and his grandmother was superstitious and did not go to the hospital to see it, so that he burned incense and worshiped the Buddha at home, and then the child burned into cerebral palsy, and the child was 20 years old when we rented his house that year, more than 180 pounds, eating, drinking, and Lazar were in bed!
My daughter has a cold for a few months has not been good, my parents-in-law have been buying their own medicine to eat, for a few days is not good, I said to go to the hospital, they said that the doctors are to earn your money to prescribe medicine, I was so angry that I carried the child and walked a long way to the hospital by car, and I couldn't hold it, and I cried while resting halfway away, and no one could stop me from taking my girl to the hospital
I took my baby to the hospital by myself. The mother-in-law followed. When the child was 6 months old, at 12 o'clock on the third day of the Lunar New Year, there was no taxi, and he walked for half an hour. My husband and my husband are sleeping at home. My mother-in-law also didn't let me go to the hospital, saying that there was no way to go to the hospital, it was useless, and it was a waste of money
At the end of the article
This incident has taught us how to weigh the pros and cons and follow the doctor's advice when facing similar problems to ensure the health and safety of your child.
The child's own resistance is not strong, can not be because of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law between the different ways of treatment, and delay the child's medical treatment, minor diseases such as the common cold can be healed by self-healing, but serious rescue needs to go to the hospital for medical treatment, not to mention let the child rely on self-healing, even let the adult he can not survive.
At the same time, it also tells us that sometimes what the elderly say is not necessarily right, but when they know what to do right, they need to be firm in their choices.
Do you agree with your mother-in-law's approach or with the child's mother's way of doing this?