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Why don't many people recommend that people at the bottom have children?
Zhang Ailing once said the pain of the bottom family: "If the child is born to inherit his labor, panic, and poverty, then not giving birth is also a kind of kindness." ”
Netizens are deeply touched by this:
I am a college teacher in the system, and I have a salary of more than 6,000 a month, and the company where my husband works has delayed his salary several times, and he only dares to give birth to a daughter, and I feel sorry for my daughter, I am very disgusted that others persuade me to have a second child, and I am particularly disgusted [Think]
Don't approve of Dink, it's best for the poor to have fewer children and not to have children, so as not to offend adults and children, those who say that their children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren are irresponsible people, you look at it, which prosperous family is not the efforts of several generations, the family has no money and no power, and it is hard to push the children into society, this is an irresponsible performance of how capable the child can be, after all, there are very few like Liu Qiangdong, there is no one in hundreds of years, and there are still many ordinary people. This is just a personal opinion, don't spray if you don't like it.
My son spent nearly hundreds of thousands of dollars from elementary school to college graduation. Finding a job costs money. I found a girlfriend to buy a house and got engaged, and it cost nearly 200,000 yuan, and the bride price was I66,000 to buy a car. It cost me most of my life.
I will never forget the living expenses when I went to school, and my father told me, "Save some flowers, save some flowers!" Give me 50 yuan a month, and I don't eat anything but two steamed buns for a meal. At that time, steamed buns were cheap, and five cents were used to buy two. I spend five cents a day, and at the end of the month I have five dollars left, two dollars for sanitary napkins, one dollar for toilet paper, one dollar for soap, and one dollar for the car ride home.
When I was in college, my mother transferred me 400 yuan a month for living expenses, 20 years ago. Sometimes my mom forgets to turn around, and I'm embarrassed to ask her if she wants it, and when I call back, the words come to my lips, but I can't say it [pitiful]. My family is neither poor nor rich
I really can't understand the poor and patriarchal family [crying silently] There is a family in our village in order to give birth to a son (the father-in-law strongly requires that a boy must be born, otherwise they will not be allowed to come back for the New Year), the two of them work outside, the man is responsible for working to earn money, the woman is responsible for giving birth to children and taking children, four girls were born in a row, the fifth is a boy, in order not to affect them to have a boy, they brought back a baby girl a year, let the in-laws take it, and the fifth child (baby boy) was born not long ago, the father-in-law died of cancer, and the pressure could not stand it, so he gave one of the daughters to be raised [smile]
I deeply understand that my parents are very poor, and they have been instilling in me and my sister the idea that the family is poor, and this can't be bought, and that can't be bought, and when I earn money, I have been buying clothes for my sister. Parents always say that if you have something to wear, you can do it. Now that my sister is in college, her parents have always asked her to spend less, and my sister has spent very little, I said that people eat vegetables, can't just let him eat steamed buns, people buy clothes, she can't buy them. It's just been a few years, I buy whatever I want, and I don't have the money to give it.
I am also a girl from a poor family, I was in college that year, and my living expenses were 400 a month, and I had to be scolded every month for living expenses: a debtor. Every time, I endure telling myself that I must study hard and study hard. Later knowledge finally changed my fate, my child lives in a well-off family, he wants to go to whatever interest class, eat and drink can be satisfied. I think I'm amazing![Pray]
I am typical of the post-80s, since I was a child, I belong to the kind of waste of a nest head to be beaten, because I am too poor, when I grow up, I am forced by the family to have a second and third child, and now I am poor, and I only dare to drink a few pieces of wine to peanuts when I am the most tired, and I have not dared to buy more than 10 yuan for smoking After 00, I bought a 140-square-meter house at home just after graduation, bought a car of more than 200,000 yuan, ordered takeout at noon every day, went to the restaurant at night, and smoked no less than 20 yuan
When I went to school, from the fourth grade of primary school to the third year of high school, I didn't have a pillow, I especially wanted to buy one, the first year of high school and my mother said, she told me that it was not easy for them to make money along the way, I just wanted a pillow of more than ten yuan, when it came to me, I felt that I had done something heinous, and never mentioned it again, until the university, the bedding that I bought at the beginning of the semester, I had the first pillow in my life, before that, I slept on a pillow with a blanket folded up The size and thickness of the pillow are about the same, but the blanket of others is used to sleep on the mat, and then I can only pad the mat in spring, summer, autumn and winter
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