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There are many parents who ask about their children's future, and each family has its own situation.
But in the midst of all the changes, there is one commonality.
This commonality is what I think, or how I would answer if my wife came to me and my son came to ask me about it.
My answer is very simple, if you are a family and do not have any industry accumulation, then let him break in.
For example, you are a migrant worker, a small worker, not an electrician, not a painter, or a simple small worker, 300 yuan a day, and there is no order.
Then let him break in, whatever industry is hot, let him do anything, provided that he can reach it.
Is the computer hot? hot.
Do you want to Xi poor?
You know what I mean? hot, and he can handle it.
So on the other hand, if it's all enough, how to choose?
Choose according to your personal interests and wishes, and do whatever your child wants to do.
It is easier for people to produce results by doing what they like than by doing things they hate.
It's all enough, and I don't have an obvious preference, so what is hot?
The so-called heat is actually the rate of return.
The same overtime, the yard farmer earns more than the doctor.
I mean just as good, you know?
The first place in the code farmer is compared with the first place among doctors, and the first hundred place in code farmers is compared with the first hundred among doctors.
You don't stagger the ratio, staggering that is not called decision-making, that is called nonsense.
If your child can go to Tsinghua University to study computer science, and can also go to Peking Union to study medicine, then go to Tsinghua University, if your child is between Wuhan University computer science and Peking Union Medical College, it may not be.
Because it doesn't make sense, the scores are different, it's the same as two children.
Your decision must have fallen on you.
For a fixed person like you, the same excellence, the same diligence, anyway, it's all overtime, and in the case of the same level, what you get for overtime in the computer industry is more than the mathematical expectation of the money you get for overtime in the hospital.
Attention is mathematical expectations, do not understand the recollection of mathematics in the student days, what is mathematical expectations.
If the level is different, there is no meaning of comparison, and if people are different, there is no meaning of comparison.
In the same way, it is easier to be a teacher and a teacher in a university than to be a teacher in middle school, and the money earned is about the same.
In the case of the same overtime, whoever gives more money will do it, and in the case of the same money, whoever will do it easily.
It's very easy to understand, right? I'm talking about basic human nature.
You said that your child is very conscious, he just likes to work more and take less money, which is not within the scope of our discussion.
Because this shows that the child already has his own ideas, people don't need to ask.
I must be answering confused people, why bother to ask if you have opinions.
This is a family that has no accumulation at all, what if your family has a little accumulation?
Quite simply, as long as your child doesn't show genius, continue to be in the same industry as you.
You have been a code farmer for half your life, and you are not angry about working overtime, thinking to yourself, breaking the child's legs, you can't let him be a code farmer anymore.
You've been a teacher all your life, waking up earlier than chickens, sleeping later than dogs, and thinking to yourself, you can't let your children be teachers anymore.
You're thinking wrong.
Maintain the same industry as you, no matter what, even if you don't have the ability to help him directly, you can help him from an information perspective.
He can avoid a lot of detours.
To go to an unfamiliar industry, that is, to completely grope from scratch, just like a farmer going to the city.
Even if you are a plumber, as long as your son is not a top student, it is much better to mix with you than for him to re-explore and work as a waiter in a restaurant.
In particular, what did I talk about yesterday? I will talk about the great changes that have not been seen in a century, and this is not one industry, but almost all industries.
Under the same circumstances, being familiar with an industry as a parent is still of great help to future generations, and in the case of changes and changes that have not been seen in a century, the impact is too great.
That's why I said, as long as you're not too bad and your child isn't too strong, then his best choice is to stay on the same frequency as you.
Even if you are a contractor of a construction team, you will have hundreds of thousands of dollars a year, pouring reinforced concrete for people everywhere, and often the project money will not come back. I don't think there's a future in this job.
So what is your son doing to be promising? To go to someone else's industry and be deceived by others?
The wisest way is to let him be at the same frequency as you, as long as he is not a top student, as long as he has no talent, then be at the same frequency as you, he does not have to do this in China.
He has studied, maybe he will go abroad to get a local permit, or do watering reinforced concrete, and your son can earn millions a year.
Because the price of labor in different countries is different, the labor cost is different, the relationship between supply and demand is different, and the degree of scarcity is different.
This means that your son took advantage of your years of accumulation, after all, you know a lot of technology, and then he changed the market and made money.
Blue is better than blue.
So further, if you have a certain small business, for example, you are the owner of a small and medium-sized company, and your children are not geniuses, what is the best way?
Is it a succession? It is to let children enter big companies, big enterprises.
Unless you're the boss of an industry giant yourself, and your son happens to be in a position to take over, don't think about it that way.
I just talked about what is the real big change unseen in a century, and there is a sentence in it, I tell you, it is time to shuffle the cards.
If you're just the owner of an SME, be prepared for a shuffle.
Don't understand the shuffle as either losing or winning, in fact, there is a third option, which is a win-win situation.
Similar to Liu Xiu back then, there were many small teams that started businesses in various places, and the early stage of the melee was about grabbing territory, and what was the comparison in the later stage?
It is a standing line.
When we are one of the small leaders in various places, we have realized that Liu Xiu will inevitably rise and dominate the industry, and the best way is to take refuge with his cavalry or infantry as soon as possible.
If you take refuge early, you will be one of the interest groups under Liu Xiu in the future, and you will have more shares in this last super company in the industry.
If you know your future well and know that you will be adopted sooner or later, you will let your children inherit a yarn.
There is no point in confrontation, once the trend is clear, you have to join if you can't beat it.
He doesn't need to be involved in the operation anymore, his father is all taken in, and he can get a place in the industry supercompany that won in the end.
From the end of the Qin Dynasty to the beginning of the Western Han Dynasty, it was such a process, and from the end of the Western Han Dynasty to the beginning of the Eastern Han Dynasty, it was also such a process.
In the early days of the late Western Han Dynasty, you jumped up and pulled a team, which was called entrepreneurship.
When Liu Xiu is about to change the market pattern, and you still do this, then you are a thief.
That's how everybody starts a business, and I've been through a few rounds in my own industry.
In the first round, when all kinds of wild smartphones were blooming everywhere, my former colleagues started their own businesses and did just that.
After Apple and Huawei enter the smartphone market, will they still do it?
No, it would have been sold a long time ago.
Sell your body quickly, you have the skill of being a dragon, sell yourself slowly, and don't even open your eyes, if you have to try to do this like Luo Yonghao in this period, you are a thief.
You are not Luo Yonghao, he can still sing the truth after being a thief, you can't afford it, and you can't even run away like Jia Yueting.
In the second round, I went to start my own business to engage in cloud computing, and my former colleagues started their own businesses to engage in smart home.
When the Internet giants go to cloud computing, and Xiaomi goes to engage in smart homes, how do we choose?
They all sold themselves and retreated.
If you don't sell yourself, then you won't have to sell in the end. Do you still remember ofo's Dai Wei? If you don't sell it, you won't have to sell it in the end, and you can't even refund the user's recharge.
What's more, the actual situation at the moment is not the same as the examples I have given.
Yesterday, I talked about the great changes unseen in a century, and the impact is comprehensive, affecting all industries, even outside the industry.
This is far from the same example of cycles within the same large industry that I gave today.
So in such a big game background, even if it is my own son, I will teach him the choice that is suitable for the current way of dealing with life.
In this life, choice is greater than hard work, and people are more important than knowing current affairs.
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