Reveal the little secret behind your baby's temper!
Today, let's discuss a topic that has caused countless parents a headache -- the tantrums of the babies! Do you think this is a common problem? Yes, the tantrums of the babies are actually a way of expression in their upbringing, sometimes because their needs are not met, sometimes because they feel frustrated or unfair. As parents, it is our responsibility to understand and guide our babies and help them learn to better express their emotions and needs.
Draw inspiration from community college wisdom Xi scenarios
Entering a 160-square-meter smart Xi scene classroom, which is divided into four experience areas: smart home, smart health, smart life, VR learning Xi entertainment, more than 20 elderly students have tried the convenience brought by various digital technologies under the guidance of the teacher. This feast of digital technology has also given us some inspiration, and perhaps in the experience of the elderly students, we can find new ideas for dealing with baby tantrums.
Wisdom Xi, always have fun!
In the wisdom Xi scenario, the elderly students are eager to participate in the experience of various wisdom application scenarios. 70-year-old Ye Peihong used the multi-functional cooking machine for the first time, and said with amazement: "This pot is very good, the ingredients are washed and put in, follow the prompts, press the button with a click, and the dish will be automatically cooked, and there is no trouble with soot." Fei Jinrong tried the self-service cash register for the first time: "Although this is a simulator, the operation method is the same as the self-service cash register in the supermarket. ”
VR entertainment, old dreams!
What's even more exciting is the VR experience area, where the elderly put on VR equipment, enter the virtual world, and experience various fitness and entertainment projects. Looking at the originally restrained old man kayaking with his bare hands, turning his body to control the direction, it seems to return to the bloody years of his youth. The plot on the screen is tense and exciting, and the old people watching are also excited. This is not only the popularization of digital technology, but also the tempering of the courage of the elderly students and the courage to try new things.
Seniors learn to bridge the "digital divide"
In the past six months since the smart learning Xi scene was put into use, the teachers have seen obvious changes in the elderly students from the initial dare not to encounter the current scramble to experience. This small venue has received more than 1,000 experience students, students from various towns and towns for the elderly, as well as elderly people from other districts. "Grasp the new opportunities for the development of urban digital transformation, focus on the urgent needs of the elderly group Xi in the Internet era of intelligent learning, effectively solve the difficulties encountered by the elderly in the use of intelligent technology, and create a new space for digital learning Xi education for the elderly. This is exactly what Wang Zhengyong, vice president of Songjiang District Community College, expects for the Smart Learning Xi project.
Learn from the experience of the elderly students and decipher the little secrets in the hearts of children
This change in the elderly students made me think deeply: life is always a process of learning Xi, and the experience we have learned from the elderly students is also applicable to dealing with the baby's small emotions. Like the elderly, children need our patience and understanding, and we need us to guide them to find the right way to express their emotions.
Revealing the "raw materials" of baby tantrums
When the baby has a tantrum, we can listen to them first, just like the elderly students. Perhaps, their needs are not being met, or they have encountered some setbacks along the way. This is just like the elderly students discovering the self-service cash register, which may be unfamiliar at first, but through learning Xi and experience, they become handy.
Calm and coping, wise parents have won countless victories
When dealing with a baby's tantrums, parents need to be as calm as an elderly student using a smart device. Not being swayed by the baby's emotions and guiding rationally is the first step to success.
Verbal guidance to cultivate baby's "IQ"
Encourage your baby to use words to express their emotions and needs, just as older learners learn to use a self-service cash register. Through guidance, let them understand that tantrums will not solve the problem, and that communicating in words is a more efficient way.
The rules limit the behavior of the baby at the traffic light
Like the older students, set clear rules and limits for your baby so that they know what is acceptable and what is not. Just as older learners learn the rules in a wisdom Xi scenario, set clear rules and limits for children to know what is acceptable and what is not.
Positive motivation makes children more confident
When children are able to control their emotions and behaviors, giving them positive encouragement and praise, just like the recognition that older learners receive when using smart devices, can boost their self-confidence and self-esteem.
The parent-child relationship is better than all education
Most importantly, when dealing with your child's tantrums, it is important to pay attention to establishing a good parent-child relationship. Participate in interesting activities with the elderly students, share each other's feelings and needs, and shorten the distance between parents and children.
Avoid over-spoiling and let your baby grow up healthy
Like the older students, we need to avoid over-spoiling our children and let them know what is reasonable and what is unreasonable. Moderate care is better than excessive spoiling.
♂️ Refuse corporal punishment and intimidation, and treat the baby with care
In the same way that older students experience VR entertainment, we reject the use of corporal punishment and intimidation. Such an approach will only make the child more rebellious and distrustful of parents.
To sum up, the achievement of "little angels"
In this process full of love, we can break the digital divide like the wisdom of learning Xi scene, give babies more Xi resources and opportunities, and help them cross the "growth gap". It is not difficult to deal with a child's tantrums, the key lies in our attitude and approach. Patiently understand, guide with heart, and believe that every baby can become a little angel in our hearts!
Hey, dear friends, do you have any experience and stories about dealing with baby tantrums? Welcome to share in the comment area, let's work together to create a more harmonious and happy parent-child relationship! Remember to like, follow my account, and we'll see you next time!