This morning, a piece of news on the hot search made many netizens angry.
A woman sued her parents in court because her parents did not give her money to study abroad.
It is alleged that the woman had conflicts with her parents over issues such as studying abroad and choosing a job.
Later, due to problems such as study abroad funds, the woman asked to divide the house shared with her parents to obtain a discount, and sued her parents to the court.
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During the trial, the defendants, Mr. Tian and his wife, argued that in recent years, they have been helping their daughter repay various loans and pay various expenses totaling more than 50 yuan.
They also actively contacted the study abroad school for their daughter, but the daughter refused because she was not satisfied with the school's ranking and other issues, and the couple could not afford to pay the discount price after acquiring the house, so they did not agree to their daughter's appeal.
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Niu, I thought that this woman was so justifiable to ask her parents to help her go abroad.
As a result, her reason is only: studying abroad has been her dream for many years.
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Because studying abroad is my dream, and I am the daughter of my parents, it is a crime for my parents not to let me study abroad.
Although the court finally rejected the woman's claim.
But the woman was still not satisfied, appealed, and then the claim was rejected again.
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I remember that since the beginning of this year, there have been controversies on the Internet one after another.
After the child goes to college, is it necessary for parents to give the child living expenses?
Many netizens have reached an agreement on this matter.
Although college students are already adults in age, it is reasonable that they need to provide living expenses from their families because they still have to go to school.
Parents can continue to give their children living expenses and school fees, but children should also understand that this is not something that parents "deserve" to give you.
Parents continue to give you living expenses and let you go to college just because they love you.
I didn't expect the old controversy to fall behind, and the new controversy to emerge so quickly.
This time it's outrageous.
"My parents have money, why don't they let me go abroad?"
This reminds me of the beginning of the year, when an up cried online about his family's patriarchy.
But the truth is that after her parents provided for her to go abroad and gave her all the best, she felt that the family had not given her enough.
His younger brother was scolded by his mother for buying a sweater for 60 yuan.
As an older sister, she was already a 10,000 yuan household at that time.
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In the end, some netizens summed it up.
Up's family has actually given her everything he can give her.
But she still feels that her parents haven't given her anything, they are just partial.
"Although my parents paid for me to study abroad, I felt that they gave me too little, so they were unqualified parents. ”
To tell the truth, after reading this up's self-report, I feel like the whole person is going to explode.
I thought that such white-eyed wolves were only a few.
But after turning around the Internet, I found that there are quite a few such people.
A 29-year-old engineer posted online.
I am a moonlight clan, and now I plan to study abroad, and I have made efforts, but my parents are unwilling to pay for me to go abroad.
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"I put in the effort, but my parents weren't willing to pay"
"It's too time-consuming to save money on your own"
"As an only child, I don't think I'm asking too much"
I didn't think that almost every sentence in this short paragraph of text could make my blood pressure soar.
No, you're 29 years old, and you still reach out and ask your parents for tuition???
If your parents don't give it to you, you're still not happy???
After reading the netizen's post, someone was still accusing his parents in the comment area.
"His parents are not short of money, why are they unwilling to raise their children?"
"His parents are just stubborn and only value the house!"
There are also people who accuse the netizen.
"Why do you have to be independent at 29? Are you creating age anxiety?"
Indeed, having no money at the age of 29 is really nothing.
But don't ask your parents for money to go to school!
Studying abroad is millions and tens of millions at every turn, you are 29 years old, how embarrassed are you to open your mouth!
What an adult, the opening is a set of logic of "why don't parents spend it on me if they have money", and I am not ashamed to post it on the Internet.
What do you mean, do you want netizens to support you?
At first, I just swiped through some similar help-seeking posts.
What should I do if my parents don't give me money to study abroad.
Some people just ask, if the parents really don't agree and the family is in difficulty, forget it.
Unexpectedly, immediately after, I saw a tutorial that taught everyone how to learn how to Xi PUA parents and let parents provide for themselves to go abroad.
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Just rush to this sentence, saying that you are a "great filial son" is to promote you.
Maybe there are too many people asking, and there is even a question on the Internet:
Is it legal for parents not to allow their children to study abroad?
What shocked me the most was not that this problem actually existed.
Instead, when I typed the words "parents don't want their children to study abroad" on the Internet, the search engine had automatically associated me with the relevant problem......
I don't know how these parents would feel when they see their children's true thoughts.
They worked hard to raise their children to be adults, but the children turned around and complained on the Internet that their parents did not give them money to study abroad.
Some children feel guilty just by asking their parents for living expenses, because it is not easy for parents to earn money.
And some children take their parents' efforts for granted.
Why is that?