I am a post-90s girl, with an independent personality since I was a child, and I will have a sense of security when I do things by myself. The management of parents will not interfere too much, so the relationship and work are relatively smooth.
A chance encounter made me acquainted with him. During an outing, I accidentally broke my phone, and when I was worried about how to solve it, a voice suddenly appeared next to me.
"Need help?" a slightly immature voice, but it revealed a warmth.
It was him, a boy who was not outstanding, but who gave a special sense of closeness. With his help, I quickly solved the problem with my phone.
But his sincerity gave me a special feeling. Although we only had a brief conversation, I felt very comfortable.
In the days that followed, he appeared in my life. We talked very speculatively and had a lot in common.
Gradually, I developed a special feeling for him.
Originally, I thought that everything in love needs to be cautious, especially things related to family. But with him, I felt a change of attitude.
I gradually opened my heart to him, and I felt very happy and happy when I was with him.
I started a relationship three years ago, but I didn't expect that in these three years, I unknowingly saved 1 million assets.
I have to say that I was moved by this feeling. I gave it, but I also really felt the love of the other party.
I want him to accept my family, but it's not easy. The rejection and non-acceptance again and again made me feel very sad and made him feel depressed.
It was really hard for me to watch them stalemate and unnatural with each other. I know that there are many things that I can't do alone when it comes to family.
I need to give him a future.
But to my shock, my parents called me and said they had met his parents and felt that everything was fine. The stone in my heart was finally put down.
His family is very approachable. They showed a lot of understanding and accommodating to my family and me.
One day, I went to his house and unexpectedly witnessed a quarrel. It turned out that because of some business problems, his family had a big dispute with his father.
I always thought that his family was a harmonious family, but I didn't expect that they would also have conflicts and unhappiness.
I tried to persuade him, tried to get him to figure out a way to solve the problem. He's not as strong as he seems, it's just that he doesn't want me to worry and always smiles.
My relationship with him has also encountered twists and turns. These contradictions and troubles strain our relationship.
There are also more and more contradictions between us.
Until one day, he said something to me that shocked me. He told me that his family situation was not as peaceful as it had been for me.
He'd spent countless nights worrying about business, but he didn't want me to worry and always showed a strong side.
Hearing this, I felt as if I was being kept in the dark. In my eyes, he is always the one who gives strength, but in fact, he also has his weak side.
We started trying to share more of our family and work problems with each other, trying to make each other's lives better.
However, I know deep down that family and work problems cannot be solved simply by our love.
I was willing to go down with him, but I didn't know how bumpy the road would be.
We've been trying, but the road ahead is full of uncertainties. We feel a little helpless in the face of life's challenges, but I am willing to take his hand and face everything bravely.
After that, I always felt that something was wrong with my family. Parents always act a little worried and anxious, and they talk less and less.
Until one day, an unexpected event made me know everything thoroughly.
I happened to meet an older woman on the street, and she smiled at me and looked at me with a complicated look.
I questioned them and finally found out what had happened.
It turned out that the woman was my father's ex-wife. Years ago, they separated due to some contradictions, and later lost contact.
I was shocked by this sudden news. I never thought there would be such a secret in the family.
And what makes it even more unbearable for me is that the man I love so much has never mentioned this past. He had to apologize, while also expressing his willingness to accept any punishment.
Over the years, his sincerity and selflessness to me have made me feel that he is the most trustworthy person. But now, I found out about his concealment and deception.
The conflicts and problems in my family made me feel like I couldn't breathe. I was in a state of helplessness and confusion.
Now, I need time to calm down and find a way to solve the problem.
But I still love him dearly. At the same time, I love my family deeply. This kind of entanglement and contradiction makes me feel extremely tired.
My heart became extremely heavy and my life became extremely difficult.
I'm very happy to see that they finally accepted each other. But the joy of this victory did not last long.
Gradually, discordant voices reappeared.
They seem very reserved every time they meet, and there is almost zero interaction. I can't understand why they can't be as honest with each other as we are.
Until one time, I overheard an argument between them. It turned out that soon after the meeting, there was a disagreement between the two parties, which led to the inability to let go of the knot.
This bothers me and I don't know how to deal with this contradiction. I felt powerless, and at the same time blamed myself for not finding out about the problem in time.
Looking at the quarrels and contradictions between them, I felt anxious. I know this is not something I can easily solve, but I don't want to give up either.
This question will continue to haunt me for a long time. But I believe that as long as both sides are willing, there will be a light of reconciliation one day.