It was a special trip memory. I went with my family to a beautiful place with blue skies and white clouds, rippling blue waters, lush woods and flowers.
After returning home, I went to the blind date's house non-stop to harvest 10 acres of corn. It's hard work, but I'm happy.
But at this moment, my mother-in-law-to-be came over, looked at me and sneered, "You two are not suitable." ”
I was stunned, and my heart swelled with endless doubts and uneasiness. Although I already knew her family, I was caught off guard by such a direct denial.
"Mom, why do you say that?" I asked, a little surprised.
"You two are not suitable, no matter how you look at it. The mother-in-law's tone was firm and did not hesitate at all.
"But......" I was about to say something, but she interrupted.
"Needless to say, I think you'd better leave early. When she had finished speaking, she turned around and left, leaving me alone in the field, full of chagrin and incomprehension.
When I got home, my heart was heavy. As I kept replaying the words of my mother-in-law-to-be, I began to wonder what went wrong.
I began to blame myself for my shortcomings in the blind date process, and my heart was extremely anxious and anxious.
After hearing what my mother-in-law said, I began to think about how we could communicate and get along with each other. Maybe it's because the image I show at home is a little thin, and I don't let the other person see more of my strengths and characteristics.
I decided to take the initiative to address this issue. So the next day, I went to her house early, hoping to have a kind exchange and learn about their daily life.
When the mother-in-law saw me coming, she still had a hint of seriousness on her face, but she still let me into the house. She sat with me and talked a lot.
In the course of the conversation, I also observed her more closely, and found that she has high requirements and expectations for her family, and her attitude towards life is also serious and responsible.
At that moment, it suddenly began to rain heavily, and the rain became heavier and heavier, and the rain poured down on the eaves. I hurriedly stood up and went to help her put away the clothes that were drying outside.
Seeing this, the mother-in-law hurriedly stepped forward to help me up, and the seriousness on her face finally melted. She worriedly asked me if I had broken my fall, and I shook my head and said it was fine, just a little painful.
"Don't be so impulsive, you kid, be careful if you fall. Her tone softened a lot.
I watched her move in that moment, and there was a trace of resonance in my heart. Maybe she is a little harsh because she cares too much about her family, but in fact, her heart is also soft.
Although there is still some friction and running-in, we have slowly come together with each other's efforts.
I decided to reach out to her mom to talk to her. I think that through communication, we may be able to solve some misunderstandings.
My mom received me warmly and we sat down over tea and chatted. I tried to be as honest and sincere as I could and try to get her to know more about me.
I was stunned, I didn't expect her to pick out the problem. I was a little embarrassed and said, "I am still actively working and Xi, and I will definitely work harder to support my family in the future."
I felt a little aggrieved, but I knew that the concept of family was very important in Chinese culture.
But we haven't made much progress in our dialogue.
On the way home, I was caught up in deep thoughts and contradictions. I tried hard to seek the approval of the other family, but every step seemed to be full of challenges.
After thinking about everything at home, I decided to go to the blind date's house again. This time, I'm going to show my inner world and let her know that I really like her.
At this time, her sister came over from the side, looked at me and said gently, "Young man, how much sincerity do you have to my sister?"
I looked at her with some surprise, wondering why she would suddenly say such a thing to me. But, under her gentle gaze, I felt the need to be honest with each other.
"I really like your sister and I am willing to give a lot for her, including her and her family. I know that may sound a bit hollow, but I can prove to you that I mean it.
Her words frustrated me a little, and it seemed to me that I had tried my best to show that I was sincere. But her sister's words also made me understand that the other party's worries are not without reason.
Perhaps, I need more time to win her heart.
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