Author: An Qing
Pioneer Valley
This is what Dou Wei looks like now.
How could a sloppy middle-aged man with a "Mediterranean" be the "Dou Xian'er" of the year?
In 1999, he abandoned his wife Faye Wong, and dared to admit his relationship with Gao Yuan in a high-profile manner during marriage.
It is said that the two were also seen by Faye Wong and Na Ying with their own eyes.
But he grabbed Dou Wei's plateau as he wished, but he was only "happy" for 2 years.
After the divorce, the two had a very unpleasant quarrel.
She didn't let Dou Wei see her daughter.
How is Takahara, who is now 53 years old?
01 "Love triangle" becomes "four-cornered love"
In 1988, Gao Yuan met Dou Wei in an aerobics training class.
The two just nodded their heads at each other.
Perhaps neither of them expected that they would be entangled for more than ten years in the future.
At this time, Dou Wei began to walk the acupuncture ground.
And Gao Cheng was sent by his father to learn Xi English.
But Gao Yuan, who went to the School of Foreign Languages to study Xi, never forgot his dream of photography.
Gao Fei had to arrange for his daughter to go to Central Beauty to Xi photography.
I also arranged the best teacher for my daughter.
In 1993, Takahara finally completed his studies.
Goofy waved his hand and bought him an expensive camera.
Takahara also lived up to his father's expectations, and took a lot of wonderful works with this camera.
and gradually opened up fame in the photography circle.
At this time, Dou Wei has become the pillar of the Black Panthers.
He did almost all the lyrics and composition.
became a rising superstar in the rock world.
In 1994, the head of the band also heard about Takahara's daimyo.
She was directly appointed as the band's full-time photographer to record the lives of each member.
At this time, Gao Yuan noticed Dou Wei.
It seems that he has a special preference for this man.
In her shots, Dou Wei is always exceptionally good-looking, with an indescribable sense of story.
And it is this kind of indisputable appearance that Gao Yuan values and appreciates.
Also, I had a lot of contact with the people in the band.
Takahara slowly fell in love with rock music.
And Dou Wei also noticed this bold and honest girl.
Later, when the new record was released, he made Gao Gao a photographer.
Later, "Sunny Day" achieved good results.
At the celebration banquet, Dou Wei watched the enthusiastic plateau also fall.
One thing to say, Dou Wei at that time was very good-looking and talented, and Gao Yuan couldn't resist it.
It's a pity that Dou Wei already has a girlfriend who has been in love for 5 years, Jiang Xin.
Both are singers, and they are very compatible.
Dou Wei's mother also likes this daughter-in-law very much.
With the support of their parents, the relationship between the two has become closer and closer.
But Dou Wei didn't care about this, at first he had a secret relationship with Gao Yuan, and later wore a couple's outfit directly in public.
It was already a love triangle, but I didn't expect that Faye Wong also intervened.
02 Take advantage of the situation
At that time, Faye Wong already had a certain status in the music scene.
She also has a legitimate boyfriend, Luan Shu.
Unexpectedly, in the days of working with the band, the diva directly changed a boyfriend.
It is said that one day she and Dou only got up and went out.
Under the pretext of buying a late-night snack, the two never returned.
At this time, Luan Shu knew the difficulty and retreated.
Even Lu Yu was still gossiping about this matter in future interviews.
There is also Jiang Xin here, and she can't accept it after knowing about it.
But one day, when she went to find her boyfriend, she was told that Dou Wei had left with the diva.
In the end, this love triangle ended with Jiang Xin withdrawing.
The two love very high-profile.
Concert confessions seem very romantic now.
And after the "heroine" Gao Yuan heard about Faye Wong and her "boyfriend", she also gave up.
During this period, she and Dou Wei briefly broke up for a while.
In order to get out of it quickly, she also got a boyfriend.
At this point, everyone is happy.
But the calm days did not last long.
We all know that the combination of Faye Wong and Dou Wei is not glorious.
The two already had Dou Jingtong before marriage.
The two who can marry their son mean the breakdown of this relationship from the beginning of their marriage.
At first, Dou Wei's mother didn't like Faye Wong either.
She still thought of Jiang Xin in her heart.
Fortunately, Dou Wei is reconciled in it, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is quite harmonious.
Especially after Dou Jingtong was born, she was also relieved for the sake of her granddaughter's face.
But Faye Wong was still developing in Hong Kong at that time, so she took her daughter there.
Dou Wei stayed in Beijing alone.
According to Dou Wei, she often can't contact her wife.
Even if the phone is connected, Faye Wong is still playing mahjong.
He thinks he's been deceived.
In this way, he and Takahara came together again.
The two were also bumped into living together by Dou Wei's mother.
Dou Mu ordered the two to separate, but with little effect.
This matter was discovered by Faye Wong.
One day, Faye Wong brought her friend Na Ying to her house as a guest.
But as soon as I entered the door, I saw Dou Wei and Gao Yuan together.
The sister preemptively questioned this "third party".
But Gao Yuan, who has Dou Wei's support, does not show weakness: you first figure out the facts.
Maybe even that sister has never seen such a woman who destroys other people's families and is so arrogant.
But the root of all this is Dou Wei.
Even if the diva is extremely sad.
For the sake of the boy she once loved, and for the sake of her daughter, she did not have a seizure.
At this time, Dou Wei also realized that his behavior was inappropriate,
He began to feel guilty about Faye Wong.
Of course, this is also just lip service.
03 Soul mate
When Faye Wong left Beijing first, he went to find the plateau again.
In March 1999, the two were photographed abroad by sharp-eyed reporters.
It was also directly blocked.
Dou Wei also knew that he had to give an explanation to the reporters, otherwise they would not leave.
He directly admitted that Gao Yuan was his lover.
Gao Yuan next to him smiled, while Faye Wong cried.
The two also officially divorced in August of that year.
Perhaps even Dou Wei himself underestimated Faye Wong's influence.
This marital betrayal greatly affected his career.
Even though he is talented, many record companies are reluctant to work with him anymore.
This is especially true of Takahara, with whom several photography companies she regularly works with have terminated their contracts.
Of course, the two also underestimated the influence of public opinion.
Everywhere the two go, they will attract a lot of abuse.
Some people will directly scold in front of the two of them: shameless.
Even Dou Wei felt that such a voice was harsh.
Gao Yuan has been smiling all the time.
At this time, although the two have no bond, they are still just boyfriend and girlfriend.
Looking at his depressed girlfriend, Dou Wei promised to give her a name.
In the interview, it was very angry and said: The marriage with the diva is a conspiracy.
also talked a lot about Faye Wong's lack of home.
The reporter asked him what love is?
Dou Wei didn't answer, but said that the two did communicate, and he often couldn't see his wife.
Not only that, but he also said that Faye Wong is a person who thinks she is superior, and everything she does is like asking her.
Later, when talking about the plateau, there was no longer such an indifferent attitude
He said: There are no moral issues involved, love each other is together.
Later, the two rarely appeared in public.
But it is often found that Dou Wei takes the plateau to drink tea and go on a date.
He doesn't care if his wife is accomplished or not, he just wants to find someone who can accompany him at all times.
The same goes for the plateau.
She also said that she didn't care about fame and fortune, she just liked this person.
Dou Wei has that feeling of independence in the world, that is, "immortal".
And Gao Yuan is also a person who yearns for freedom.
To put it simply, two similar, people of the same frequency have come together.
But the union of souls cannot be eaten.
The biggest problem facing the two is financial.
During that time, Dou Wei basically had no income.
Both of them relied on the meager wages of the plateau.
At this time, Dou Wei is no longer "immortal", of course, this refers to the appearance.
After all, he was smoothed out by life.
Turned into an ordinary man with a fat hair and a bald head.
In June 2002, the two finally got married.
But it is said that Gao Yuan was in the third stage of pregnancy, and he was forced to marry her.
04 Defeat to reality
Maybe Dou Wei is not suitable for marriage.
As soon as he got married, he thought he was not free.
Especially after Dou Jiayan was born, the pressure on him to support his family was even greater.
Gao Yuan has just given birth to a child and will definitely not be able to work anymore.
At this time, Dou Wei was still full of confidence and promised his wife that he would definitely earn money.
He also wants Takahara not to go out to work until his daughter is five years old.
At first, Gao Yuan thought that her husband was very considerate.
But at this time, he is no longer the lead singer of the Black Panthers.
Whether he is performing or commercial, few people cheer him on.
Even releasing new songs can't achieve the previous effect.
After a long time, Dou Wei's self-confidence was greatly hit.
Later, for Dou Jiayan's milk powder money, she had no choice but to sing in the bar.
A former superstar can now only get a salary of 5,000 yuan a month.
I can't afford to pay for a family of three.
He rented out the courtyard house where he was living at the time.
The family had no choice but to live in the room assigned to the unit.
And Gao Yuan, who is watching the children at home, also thinks that her husband is busy.
I watched my children at home all day, but I didn't have my husband by my side.
As long as Dou Wei goes home, she will pick thorns.
The two often broke up unhappily.
One day, a friend of Takahara came to see her.
Look at each other's glamorous appearance.
Think about Faye Wong becoming a diva and having a boyfriend like Nicholas Tse.
She regretted it.
Gao Yuan is not willing to live such a poor life for the rest of his life.
I started working early and got back to my old profession of photography.
At that time, she was hired as a photographer for the band Flowers.
During those days, she seemed to have found a new direction, and briefly forgot about the life of firewood, rice, oil and salt.
The plateau is not going home either.
Dou Wei was very dissatisfied with this.
Seeing his wife who drank too much and returned late, the two had another big quarrel.
This time, Dou Wei decided to endure it, and he began to devote himself to music.
The two began to separate.
In 2004, Dou Wei filed for divorce.
In order to save the marriage, Gao Yuan said: You have to give your daughter child support, 5,000 a month, and a total of 1.08 million when you are 18 years old.
She knew that Dou Wei couldn't take it out.
But I didn't expect the other party to agree.
Therefore, the two directly turned against each other.
She has always been reluctant to let Dou Wei see her daughter.
In order to see his daughter, Dou Wei even posted a message on social platforms asking for help.
It wasn't until Dou Jiayan grew up that she clamored to see her father, and Dou Wei saw her daughter.
Over the years, the life of the mother and daughter has not been easy.
Both of them have been renting a house.
Fortunately, her daughter has a high artistic talent, which makes Gao Yuan very pleased.
05 is not suitable for marriage
Later, under the influence of her father, Dou Jiayan embarked on the road of music.
In this regard, Gao Yuan is very opposed.
But her daughter kept crying, and she could only support it.
After all, her daughter is her only support.
She once regretted marrying Dou Wei, but never regretted giving birth to Dou Jiayan.
In 2016, Dou Jiayan officially entered the entertainment industry and became a singer.
But it has been tepid for years.
Others' evaluation of her is: Dou Wei's daughter.
Similarly, Dou Jingtong also became a singer.
The two are often compared side by side.
Compared with her sister, she is a lot more rebellious, and her behavior and dress are unacceptable to many people.
And following Faye Wong, she also had three fathers at once.
But fortunately, Nicholas Tse and Li Yapeng are very reasonable.
didn't stop her from going to Dou Wei.
She and Dou Jiayan are both Dou Wei's daughters, but they live different lives.
This point is inseparable from Faye Wong and the education of the plateau.
The former is loose and the latter is tight.
Dou Wei is right, he is not suitable for marriage.
He yearns for freedom and does not want to be bound.
Maybe no one can take him.
And after the divorce, Gao Zheng put all his energy on raising his daughter.
Her life gradually stabilized.
For her, Dou Jiayan is good.