Nowadays, when it comes to the topic of the poor, it is always so excluded or disapproved!
Because there are too many people from the countryside, especially those who are 60.70.80.90, many of them are from rural to urban, and they can't stand to uncover the hidden scars, which makes everyone feel uncomfortable, and they feel like they are crowding out themselves
But there are some problems that have to be admitted! Have you found a very obscure phenomenon! That is, the children of the poor mature later?
Isn't the old saying good? The children of the poor are in charge of the family early, but many people understand it in a partial way. It is not early to be in charge: behavior, thought, work, three aspects
But this is often not the case, and 70 percent of the children of the poor are only able to work, helping the family with the farm work
And in terms of behavior and thought, he is a guinea pig, because his parents will not teach him! The classic sentence that has not changed for thousands of years: "You are born in society, you must suffer more, so that everyone likes you"
On the contrary, the three rules of social survival are not taught at all, first, human feelings are sophisticated, second, express oneself at the appropriate time, and third, steal and play tricks
What's more, when I was born in society, I constantly hit a wall and was constantly frustrated, to put it bluntly, I relied on myself for everything, and my parents would only farm and work hard
1: It will only tell you to get up early in the morning and go to the mountains to cut pigweed and go home to feed the pigs
2: But you know more housework than others, even if you don't have money, you can't starve, haha
3: Parents have been educated by complaining since childhood, complaining all day long about how difficult it is for yourself, how difficult it is to raise you, you have to help the family share more
4: Yes, what else? Parents live like this, leaving the only rules of survival to you
5: Especially for the work, when you finish it, you will see that others are not doing it, and you will selflessly help to do it
6: It will also tell you to do more things, it doesn't matter if you work overtime, the most important thing is to please the leader
7: Immerse yourself in hard work, be a cow and a horse, eat your food and do your business
8: It's also a mistake not to tell kindness, kindness makes people suffer endless losses
9: If you take too many detours, you will go straight, and it is better to complain to your parents than to hit the south wall a few more times
Summary: Even if the parents only have such a big bowl, and the one that serves you food is only so big, the thoughts are all about doing such farm work tomorrow and doing that kind of farm work tomorrow, and the growth of the child is just one more labor force in the family