The story of family affection and an only child
Recently, a blogger posted on social media expressing his concern for his daughter. The blogger's daughter is almost 30 years old, but she has never reached out to him when there is nothing to do. Even in a few short phone calls, his daughter blocked him indifferently. Only when she needs help or money will she reach out to him. The mother was very confused, why did the affection she expected not seem to exist in her daughter?
This issue sparked a heated discussion among netizens. Some believe that the general lack of care and empathy for only children today may be related to their status in the family. Only daughters often have no siblings in the family to share their parents' love and attention, which can lead to a lack of understanding and respect for others as they grow up. At the same time, because they have been Xi to being the core of the family since childhood, they tend to pay more attention to their own needs and ignore the emotional needs of other family members.
However, some netizens believe that the root of the problem lies in the parent's education style. They believe that parents should take responsibility for their children's actions rather than simply blaming the children themselves. In the process of educating their children, parents should guide them to learn to care for others and understand their emotions. At the same time, they should provide enough love and support to help children build a confident and independent personality.
In the case of this blogger, it was suggested that he should try to communicate deeply with his daughter to understand her inner thoughts and feelings. Perhaps the daughter is experiencing some emotional distress or stress and needs the care and support of her parents. Through in-depth communication, they can get to the root of the problem and find a solution together.
In conclusion, family affection is a complex emotional relationship, which requires the dedication and understanding of both parties. For only children, they may need more guidance and love from their parents to learn to respect and understand others. At the same time, parents should also provide adequate support and attention to help them build an independent and confident personality. Only in this way can we truly realize the mutual concern and care between our relatives.