Don't worry, Jinsha is not a white rabbit
In 2020, Jin Sha decided to participate in the show because she watched the clip of Chen Qiaoen in "Daughters' Love", hoping to find true love in the show like Chen Qiaoen.
In order to find the ideal type in her heart, Jin Sha told the director team about her mate selection criteria, hoping that the other party could find the most suitable male guest.
The criteria for mate selection are as follows:
A little taller, more than one meter eight.
The nose is bigger, the eyes are bigger, the whole face is more three-dimensional and smiles beautifully.
It is better to be an outsider and at the same time enjoy sports or have a sporty atmosphere.
Such a concrete and strict standard made it difficult for the director team, and at the same time made netizens "ridicule":
"Jinsha's eyes are lowered!"
"People! The most important thing is to have self-knowledge!"
"It's so unrealistic!"
Even her father couldn't help but complain:
She doesn't have a clear understanding of herself, she wants to find a rich and career, and she is handsome, which is too idealistic.
Sure enough, even if the program team found her a high-quality man in the eyes of outsiders, she failed to match, let alone start a happy life like Chen Qiaoen.
was ridiculed for her age, her boyfriend hadn't been handed over yet, and Jinsha's "sweet dream" became a joke after all, but even if it became the talk of netizens, Jinsha still did not lower her standards for choosing a mate.
In "Love's Study Trip", she led her ideal type and walked in front of the audience.
Sun Chengxiao, born in 2000, is tall, with big eyes, a straight nose, and a good smile, the key is that it is refreshing and not greasy.
Jin Sha's hard standards for mate selection are reflected in Sun Chengxiao.
It's just that the love between sisters and brothers, who are 19 years apart, once again attracted ridicule.
Dad was worried that it was unrealistic for them to be too big an age difference.
Fans are worried that she will be deceived if she is too in love.
Netizens ridiculed her for not having a full understanding of her age and being too idealistic.
Jin Sha found the ideal type, but at the same time, she was questioned a lot, especially Sun Chengxiao's performance in the show, which made people sweat even more.
Emotional intelligence, no emotional intelligence.
To be intelligent, not to have an IQ.
When you see people, you are nervous, you speak incoherently, and you look innocent when you face the camera, revealing clear stupidity everywhere.
Together with Jinsha Station, there is a visual sense of "where is my mother going", and Jinsha's "maternal love" also overflows the screen.
The two people who are extremely incompatible just "show their mother's love" in front of the camera like this, which made many netizens blow up.
In just a few dozen minutes of the show, Jin Sha was hammered into a "love brain" and "silly white sweet", and Sun Chengxiao became a "soft rice man" and a "scheming man".
Indeed, a person who learns acting will be nervous in front of the camera, a person who mixes in the entertainment industry, who will speak incoherently in the face of people, and a person who dares to chase female stars, actually reveals innocence everywhere, a man in his twenties, he still has no assertiveness and aura at all, revealing immaturity everywhere.
Who believes?
So it is reasonable to be complained about pretending to be too much and not wanting to work hard.
It's just that Jin Sha is really "stupid"?
Not necessarily!
After watching the whole show, I have to say that Jinsha is not a "little white rabbit" at all, she knows what she wants too well.
is just like what she once posted on social platforms: I want to experience Xiao Yaxuan's happiness.
What is Xiao Yaxuan's happiness?
It doesn't matter how old my sister is, my boyfriend will always be twenty years old, and love will always come first.
This can afford to let go, the fierce love and the calm chic attitude of hatred make Jin Sha envious, and at the same time, he also regards himself as the second Xiao Yaxuan: I only want love, not marriage in the traditional sense.
So in her forties, she found a younger brother in his twenties to satisfy her pursuit of love and fill the loneliness in her heart.
I'd rather be single than marry casually, I'd rather bear the pressure of public opinion than lower my standards, I'd rather be ridiculed like a mother and son than loudly announce my love and show my happiness, Jinsha is not stupid and sweet, she knows her needs too well, and at the same time sticks too firmly to her inner standards.
Compared with some people who get married when they are old and marry casually when they can't withstand the pressure, Jinsha attaches more importance to her happiness index, how can this be defined as a "love brain"?
On the contrary, she is smart and discerns scum at a glance.
In "Daughters' Love", the dating male guest Geng Sihan showed favor in every way, and even wanted to abandon everything in his existing career to go to Beijing for her to develop, Jin Sha was not moved or shaken, and even described his heart as like an anesthetic, and also exposed on the spot that the other party was a threat and moral kidnapping with retreat.
watched the show and thought she was too picky and didn't give others a chance, but in fact, Geng Sihan was a big scumbag.
was publicly revealed by his ex-girlfriend, in order to be able to date Jin Sha on the show, he not only kicked his girlfriend who had suffered with him, but also threatened his girlfriend not to make trouble during the broadcast of the show.
Geng Sihan's true face was exposed, and Jin Sha's sentence "see through it but don't say it" also revealed that she is not a brainless person.
In the face of online remarks, Jin Sha knows better than anyone else, but even if she knows everything, she is willing to bet that love will come, even if the stakes are big, she is ready for everything.
She is like this, she would rather be single for a lifetime than settle for a lifetime, in her words, if she puts down her standards to cater to public opinion and family, she is not only ashamed of herself, but also ashamed of her persistence for so many years, she must be responsible for her own life, even if it all looks like an unrealistic joke to outsiders.
It's not so much that she's too confused, it's that she's too sober.
Instead of laughing at her for being unrealistic, imagine how cool it would be to put yourself in her shoes.
Born in Shanghai, her father is a civil servant, a typical only daughter in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai, with good family conditions and being spoiled as a little princess.
His hobby is singing, and he was fully supported by his family and became the "beautiful girl host" of Dragon TV all the way, and then entered the showbiz and became an instant hit, and signed a record company to be highly praised.
is young, has both TV series masterpieces and several well-known songs, and was once an object of envy.
experienced the taste of popularity and the pleasure brought by fame and fortune, and after reaching a certain age, she did not choose to marry herself in a hurry, but continued to be herself.
Not bound by age, not disturbed by public opinion, not kidnapped by family emotion, always put love, quality marriage, and pleasing yourself first, even if you feel guilty because you don't let your parents enjoy the joy of family, but they still don't force themselves to marry at will, and they are unwilling to lower their standards and wronged themselves.
This casualness is really chic.
Now 42 years old, she still has the capital to "dream", wouldn't it be cool to find a little boyfriend who fully meets her own mate selection criteria?
Since she was a child, she has always been clear about what she wants and works hard for it, she has achieved something in her career, and she has never compromised in love.
watched "Daughters' Love", and then watched "Love's School Trip", Jinsha is not a "little white rabbit" at all, let alone a "love brain", at most a little narcissistic: I like the feeling of being loved at first sight.
In "Daughters' Love", he took the initiative to ask the male guest if he fell in love with him at first sight.
In "Love's School Trip", he relishes the process of being loved at first sight.
It is enough to see that she is obsessed with love at first sight, and it also reflects two points.
First, he has a strong self-confidence in his appearance and attractiveness, which is narcissistic to say that it is ugly.
Second, he has a spiritual cleanliness habit and thinks that love at first sight is love.
But no matter which one it is, it is not a "love brain", and the "enthusiastic" netizens who look at people may not be as strong as her, after all, she has been in this circle for 21 years, from "Bloggate" to "Vixen Gate", she has also seen strong winds and waves, and has been in contact with all kinds of people, how can she be "silly and sweet"?
Judging from the fact that Jinsha was ridiculed for finding a little boyfriend on the hot search, it actually reflects a problem: another kind of discrimination against women by the public.
If an older woman finds a younger brother, she will be ridiculed for not knowing it.
When older women talk about love, they will be ridiculed as "love brains" who can't recognize reality.
Older single women live a free and chic life, and they will be ridiculed for why they haven't married and have children?
Older women don't deserve love, older women don't deserve to talk about feelings, and older women should be bound by age to enter marriage, isn't this a kind of discrimination against women?
Not only Jin Sha, but Jia Jingwen, Yi Nengjing, and Huo Siyan, which one has not been questioned? But they all survived.
With chic capital, the confidence to talk about love, the goal to chase, and its own standards, Jinsha is not a little white rabbit to be slaughtered.
On the contrary, she lives for herself, isn't she worthy of learning from every woman who marries in a daze?
For its low-quality marriage, it is not as good as high-quality singleness.