#头条发文坚持了多久#
About two years and four months.
The reason why I persevered was because Toutiao gave me a great gift: in Toutiao's half a year, I used the article to harvest three sisters, one brother and my deceased parents. It also harvested another hometown in addition to Xi'an, Shaanxi Province - Zanhuang County, Hebei.
[Rose] [Rose] [Rose] [Rose] [Rose] [Rose]
Yesterday was the Winter Clothes Festival, which is the day to make winter clothes for relatives and send winter clothes.
Originally, the ancient customs of giving clothes and sacrificing were to remind people that the cold winter was coming, and the women should make cotton clothes and give them to their relatives who were serving in the border and serving in the distant countryside to help them survive the harsh winter. Later, under the domination of the traditional belief of "the soul is immortal", it was pushed from the yang world to the underworld, and it was believed that the deceased relatives who were far away under the Yellow Spring also needed to add clothes to spend the winter in October, and this day gradually developed into a festival dedicated to sending winter clothes to the dead, and Shangyuan and Zhongyuan were called the three major ghost festivals.
[Fireworks] [Fireworks] [Fireworks] [Fireworks] [Fireworks] [Fireworks]
Yesterday, I took out the photos of my parents again, looked at them carefully, and talked to them. The process of getting to know them without any foreshadowing, suddenly appeared. Luckily I'm old, unlike young people, who might be shocked, I just shook for a while. When my third sister and I went for a paternity test and confirmed that the approximate value of our blood relationship was 99.95%, I didn't know how to describe my feelings, and if I used the most appropriate word, it was nervous, and I didn't know why. I think there is no way to change my history, because history has been formed, and what I need to change is my re-understanding and exploration of history. But alas, apart from those two epoch-making photographs, I don't have any words or memories hidden in the depths of my mind.
The third sister asked me, aren't you curious about how you got to the Wang family?
I said, "Curious, but who can tell me? Can you travel back in time to more than 60 years ago? Can you see the whole process clearly and clearly like a movie? No, no.
[Breeze] [Breeze] [Breeze] [Breeze] [Breeze] [Breeze]
I always remember that my eldest sister and second sister talked to me, and my mother kept looking for me until she got sick. She never gave up on me.
I remember my sisters saying they even wanted to try it on TV, but they couldn't provide anything but the two photos, the one my adoptive parents took with me in their arms and the one I took alone. Therefore, it is difficult for the family search program to complete such a family search in the vast sea of people.
I looked at my parents and my parents, and I couldn't see how much they resembled them, my brother was very similar to my mother, and my three sisters were very similar to me, but we didn't particularly look like my father or mother. My brother and I went to Zanhuang's hometown to recognize our relatives, but the people in my hometown thought that I was the girl in the Zhu family, and there was no suspense.
Mom and Dad, the Zhu family and the Wang family, are you all right? Please tell me in your dream how I changed from the fifth child of the Zhu family to the eldest of the Wang family? Did I leave as soon as I was born? Otherwise, why didn't I take a photo with my own parents and parents? If so, isn't that another step forward in the relationship?
The first picture below is a family portrait of the Zhu family made by the second sister with a physiognomy animation. The second photo is a group photo of my little cousin's son at the wedding, which includes my husband and wife, my eldest brother-in-law, my second sister and my brother. The third photo is that I took my husband to the cemetery to visit my parents.
May we be healthy and happy in heaven and on earth, and think about each other!
