When the little girl has just grown up, standing tall and slim, the boys will whisper when they see her.
It's just that she doesn't understand what it means to be like a boy, and she doesn't take it seriously. She would come home after school and ignore anyone.
Her hobby is just dancing.
She is an excellent talent and the artistic backbone of the class. She specializes in choreography and lead dance. She took her classmates to the school art festival and won many awards.
Later, the Hangzhou Yue Opera Troupe came to the school to look for talents, and she was very excited about this opportunity.
In fact, she doesn't like Yue Opera. She thinks that only grandma, grandma likes to listen to this kind of slow art.
But she really wanted to leave this home that didn't give her a sense of security, so she insisted on going to Hangzhou, which is more than 60 kilometers away from her hometown Tongxiang, to study.
Although her parents were worried, they had no choice but to agree when they saw her so insistence.
Before leaving, she heard some relatives and friends talking about her behind her back, and they all thought she was not expected.
She was only 14 years old at the time, and she thought she had to learn Yue Opera well to silence these people.
Yao Di came to the Yue Opera Troupe and got up very early every day to practice singing. Where there's a will, there's a way, and he finally developed a skill.
Participated in "Nanjing! >> After Nanjing! She played Tang Xiaomei, and sang "Shanghai Pingdan" twice, once to give people hope, once to make people desperate.
Her solid acting skills made many viewers take over the role in the play and shed tears for the tragic fate of the girl in the play.
Film critic Vlad said of her performance:
Yao Di is the highlight of the actors, and he vividly interprets Tang Xiaomei's misfortune. She is a big star when she enters the film industry, and if she seizes the opportunity, she will definitely deepen her stardom career. ”
If nothing else, she should become a professional Yue Opera actor. Although the audience is not large, it is definitely enough to play steadily in the Yue Opera circle.
However, her competitive personality changed her fate once again.
When her teachers and classmates were not optimistic that she could qualify as an actor, she resolutely applied for the Beijing Film Academy.
Soon, she received an admission letter from Beijing Film Academy.
When she came to Beiying, her character made her embarrassed.
She doesn't know how to get along with people, especially men.
When playing against the male protagonist, a girl of such an age actually blushed when she saw the male protagonist.
The director shouted "card" many times, and he was almost angry. He said to her earnestly:
"You're here to play this role, not yourself!"
This sentence woke up the dreamer. Since then, Yao Di has not only practiced his acting skills, but also began to learn how to communicate with others.
Yao Di is 24 years old and finally has a chance to counterattack in life.
In 2006, Beijing TV wanted to shoot "Dream of Red Mansions" and held a talent show for the characters of "Dream of Red Mansions".
Of course, Yao Di didn't expect that participating in the talent show would become the biggest footnote in her life - becoming a very controversial figure.
She was originally given the role of Xue Baochai, but was later replaced by Lin Daiyu for some reason.
On the third day before the start of filming, the role changed again and became Wang Xifeng.
Is it because her superb acting skills make her suitable for any role, or is it because there are people behind her, the crew is her family, and she can play whoever she wants?
Changing roles in a drama is an incredible thing for ordinary people, not to mention Yao Di's change of role three times. Could it be that she has some powerful relationship?
At that time, Yang Mi also said in an interview that if there were no relatives in the whole show, I would feel abnormal. Since there is a relationship, this drama will definitely be popular.
Therefore, everyone regards Yao Di as a close relative.
In fact, she is not to blame. Just imagine, who can seamlessly switch lines between different characters?
This role change incident also illustrates Yao Di's solid acting skills. Even if the roles are temporarily changed, there are not many actors who can still perform normally.
In order to play Wang Xifeng well, she took great pains to make a lot of line cheat sheets and pasted them all over the hotel room.
Even when brushing your teeth, look at the lines in the mirror and read silently.
"Dream of Red Mansions" is a stepping stone for Yao Di's acting career. Although some have commented that she is not as aggressive as the 1987 version of Wang Xifeng, her performance has a sweet and spicy feel that actually adds spirituality and vitality to the character.
Since then, Yao Di has continued to make movie appointments, until "The Age of Naked Marriage" made her completely withdraw from the industry.
This year marks the 10th anniversary of the broadcast of "The Age of Naked Marriage".
Because this TV series has a huge social topic, it has attracted the attention of the post-80s and post-90s.
At that time, various voices in society were discussing: Is love or bread important in marriage?
The article and Yao Di, as the CP in the play, each represent a type of character at that time.
The article represents the struggling youth who has no money and no love, and Yao Di represents the little princess who grows up to be rich and loving and well-fed.
Yao Di's personality is different from his own background, but their view of love is the same: for the sake of love, you can take any risks.
With such a view of love, if you find the right person, you will live an enviable life, but if you find the wrong person, your life may end in ruin.
Yao Di was only 28 years old at the time. Of course, she didn't expect that there would be stumbling blocks on her path to love.
How sweet the two are in "The Age of Naked Marriage", how bitter the ending is in reality.
Although they are just a screen couple, their sense of affection is so strong that many people said at the time that they were a real couple, and this article is not suitable for Ma Yili, who has a strong personality.
Wenwen's career is thriving, and he has a daughter. He was delighted. Although he fell in love because of the play, he could only keep this idea in his heart.
Yao Di is also very sober. No matter how he felt about the article, he could only hide it and respectfully call him a teacher outside.
After the broadcast of "The Age of Naked Marriage", Yao Di became a "national girlfriend" and won many awards. He and Yang Mi are called the "Four Little Flowers".
In 2013, Yao Di became the most popular actress of the year with "New Love Era". At the awards ceremony, she came across the article by chance. Of course, the host would not let go of this opportunity, and directly asked Yao Di what he wanted to say to Wenwen.
Yao Di smiled: "Teacher Article is my idol. ”
Not long after, Yao Di posted on his personal account: Our love, if you are. At this time, Ren Zhong, who was acting with her, forwarded the message and said: No matter where you go, I will follow you!
Judging from this situation, the fate of Yao Di and the article ended with the end of the cooperation, but a dramatic scene still happened.
Just as the people who ate melons sent their blessings, Yao Di and Ren Zhong denied the relationship in person, saying that they were just good friends.
In fact, there is another person who really talks about marriage with Yao Di, that is, Chi Shuai, who has been in love for 7 years, yes, it is Takafu Mihiko Motohiko.
The young couple is passionately in love and ready to get married. But at this time, Yao Di's family put forward hard conditions to Chi Shuai:
Buy a house for Yao Di, otherwise I won't get married!
Of course, Chi Shuai's ability is not bad, but he lacks luck, his career has not improved, and naturally he does not have so much money.
He knew that his mother-in-law was embarrassing him, so he could only wait to see if Yao Di could help intercede.
But Yao Di listened to his family's advice and forced him to take out the money.
Chi Shuai really couldn't afford the money, so he could only endure the pain and give up his love. To do this, he lost 20 pounds.
Yao Di also suffered because of this. Isn't my lover who has been with me for seven years worthy of marrying me home and having a gold and silver house?
It turns out that the same plot happened in reality, and the ending was not romantic at all.
At this time, there is another person who also feels the pain, and that is the article.
Wenwen is a small man, but there is a big woman in the family.
In an episode of "Happy Camp", the program team gave the article a difficult problem, asking him to contact Ma Yili on the spot and persuade Ma Yili to allow him to raise a puppy.
After Ma Yili answered the phone, she whispered to the article. He said solemnly:
"So many people look at it, give me face."
In the end, Ma Yili not only did not give face, but also constantly criticized her. She is like a stern mother criticizing her children.
Later, as the article's fame skyrocketed, he became more and more intolerant of Ma Yili's strong character. He needed a little woman to adore him, and a rift in their marriage arose at this time.
Once, the article drank heavily due to career worries. When he got home, he was bumped into by Ma Yili, who said a few words to him, asking him to find a direction and stop borrowing wine to drown his sorrows.
He felt ashamed and cursed Ma Yili:
"You're just a second-hand!"
This scolding almost broke Ma Yili's heart. She did not answer and left the house in silence.
In the same timeline, the article is in a panic due to a rift in the marriage, and Yao Di is confused because of the failure of the relationship.
Once again, fate has intertwined the lifelines of this sad man and the resentful woman.
What happened next is known.
It was an internet event that went down in history, and "See You on Monday" became the best example of Internet entertainment news storytelling.
In late March 2014, a big drama took place.
"China's No. 1 Paparazzi" Zhuo Wei guarded for several days in a row and captured the true story behind Yao Di's article.
When Yao Di saw the items wrapped around his body, he was like a lover who had been reunited after a long absence, hugging her wholeheartedly.
This hug almost ruined the acting careers of the two of them.
The carelessness and caution of the article contrasted sharply with Yao Di's disregard for his own safety.
At that time, Ma Yili was pregnant with her second child. This derailment of luck is really unforgivable.
Wenwen knows that she is doing immoral things, but Yao Di has been carried away by love, and the dopamine she secretes is enough to reduce her IQ to 0.
Their luck was eventually ruthlessly exposed.
When the article was caught, I was first very angry and even made a comment that "I will save my life".
Later public opinion hit him like a bucket of cold water poured on his head. That's when he woke up. He then deleted it and issued an apology. But from beginning to end, she didn't say a word to Yao Di.
What is Yao Di doing at this time?
In the past few days, she has done nothing but scrolling Weibo.
She finally understands that sometimes silence is golden.
She remained silent despite tens of thousands of angry messages on her Weibo. She no longer updates Weibo, but the ambiguity has never been deleted.
No matter how the article deceived her and said that her marriage with Ma Yili had come to an end, she should never interfere in other people's marriages at this time.
At the time, hundreds of thousands of angry fans stormed the article and Yao Di's Weibo account, using words as a weapon to attack the man and woman.
At the same time, a large number of fans supported Ma Yili and cursed the article and Yao Di on her Weibo.
However, Ma Yili's response was beyond everyone's expectations. She generously left the golden words of "cherish it when you do it" and chose to forgive her unfaithful husband.
This response once became a hot word on the Internet, and it is still widely circulated today.
Although the marital conflict between the article and Ma Yili is the internal cause of the rift in the marriage, Yao Di is only the external cause of the breakdown of the marriage between the article and Ma Yili.
But for making such a mistake, she is at least 50% responsible.
This 50% responsibility is to carry the label of "little three" for the rest of his life, and be despised by others in a place of right and wrong like the entertainment industry.
After Yao Di's romance, he rarely talked about it.
Afterwards, she responded to the third-party incident and said: "I, Yao Di, have never done anything against my conscience. ”
Later, when she participated in "The King of Crossover Singers" in 2016, she sang "So You Are Here", and the lyrics seem to contain clues about the relationship between the two:
Ah, that man
Does it only exist in dreams?
Why should I do my best
But in exchange for half a lifetime of memories
If you haven't longed for a pair of eyes
If it weren't for my redemptive mood
Meet thousands of rivers and mountains
Oh, so you're here, too
At the end of the song, she couldn't hold back her tears.
This immoral love experience, which was originally honey for her, turned into arsenic.
This incident turned her from a national girlfriend to a street rat that everyone shouted at.
Time will dilute everything, but not the label of "little three".
Yao Di's Weibo comment area was quickly occupied by the melon-eating masses who stood on the moral high ground behind the cheating scandal.
In order to avoid attracting public attention, she stopped updating Weibo for 14 months.
In July 2015, when she posted on Weibo to promote the new film "My Baby", she was scolded by netizens in the comment area.
During the Mid-Autumn Festival, she wished netizens good health, and some people shouted in the comment area "You don't deserve to bless others!" ”
A friend's dog was lost, and she posted a Weibo message asking for help. Netizens ridiculed her for "falling in love with someone else's dog".
When Yang Jiang died, she lit a candle, and someone actually replied: "Don't insult Yang Jiang." ”
In addition to frequent quarrels, netizens did not plan to let her take off her junior hat.
Just to make soup, the comment area was scolded. Anyone who supports Yao Di will be scolded as Xiao San's accomplice.
After the filming of the new film "Panman Qingluo" in which she participated, she was criticized as "a shameless person who robbed the role and was embarrassed to post on Weibo".
Every year on my birthday, the comment section is filled with strange messages, "Happy birthday to my Sanah." ”
In 2018, the travel frog game became popular. She tweeted and asked what the game was fun about. Netizens told her, "When a frog steals people, you will be in a high mood..."
On Children's Day, I posted my certificate of honor, and some netizens mentioned Ma Yili's divorce in the article.
During the epidemic, she just posted on Weibo asking everyone to wear masks, and someone replied coldly:
"If you live, you will do the greatest harm to society."
Whenever there is an improvement in her career or life, these comments hit her hard.
For many netizens, Yao Di has become the object of venting when their lives are not going well.
These people will not let Yao Di go, because they have left a place for the "bad guys" in their hearts. When they're upset, a few scolds can make them feel better.
In 2016, Yao Di played a supporting role in "Choose Heaven". Netizens left messages: I originally wanted to watch this drama, but because of you, I gave up.
No one can afford such an emotional trash can.
But she couldn't shut people up. All she could say was, "What I said was mine, and what you shouted was yours." ”
Fortunately, Yao Di already has a stable girlfriend and is a wealthy businessman.
Although many people scolded her on the day she announced her marriage in 2018, no matter what, entering married life was the best choice for her.
She needs a safe harbor to store her disappointment in love and resist the madness of public opinion.
In 2019, Yao Di announced her marriage with a happy smile on her face. Unexpectedly, Ma Yili also announced her divorce from the article on the same day. I don't know if it's a coincidence or intentional.
Nowadays, it seems that the article is difficult to turn around. Ma Yili, whose career has always been smooth, was depressed for a while after it was revealed that there was a problem with the endorsed product.
As for Yao Di, he has been on the verge of being scolded since the "See You on Monday" scandal was exposed. But anyway, she started a new life, began to take on some roles, became the heroine, and her career slowly began to take off.
This time, Yao Di's husband was exposed to a late-night tryst with a woman, which is really ironic in the eyes of the melon-eating masses. But back to the root of the problem, it was actually Yao Di who was most affected by the "see you on Monday" incident. Over the years, she seemed to have been unable to clean herself up.
No one knows if she felt aggrieved or aggrieved because she was a "little three", whether she regretted it when she dreamed about this incident in the middle of the night and at the beginning of the article.
The only thing we know for sure is:
She would never covet what didn't belong to her like she did back then.
There is a saying that the price of a gift given by fate has long been secretly marked.
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[Article | Mo Yan]
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