My name is Huang Yong and I am 55 years old. I am a divorced middle-aged man with a lovely daughter. Although I am over half a hundred years old, I still have expectations for love.
We quickly got a speculative conversation and got a good feeling for each other. I found her to be a very intelligent and independent woman, and she was attracted to my maturity and poisedness.
Huang Yong: "Liu Hong, I think the two of us are very compatible in many ways. I wonder what you think about marriage and family? ”。
Liu Hong: "Huang Yong, my ideal marriage is based on mutual respect and trust. I want to be able to grow with my partner and have a warm and happy family.
Huang Yong: "I agree with you. Also, I have some hard requirements that I hope you will accept. First of all, I hope that the financial situation of both families is stable and we can live a comfortable and stable life.
Finally, I hope that we can support each other, be inclusive, and understand each other.
Liu Hong: "Huang Yong, I can understand your expectations. I also hope that we can work together to create a happy and happy family.
As time went on, our feelings grew deeper. Liu Hong is a very assertive woman, and I have learned to be more flexible and tolerant when dealing with her.
We used to eat together, watch movies, and sometimes go on trips together. In the process, I gradually found that my feelings for her became deep and stable.
One day, I received a call from my daughter. My daughter told me that she had good news, and her childhood friend Xu Ming finally confessed to her.
My daughter's words made me think, and I also felt the growth of my children and the pain of parting. I realized that the bond between father and daughter would really be broken one day.
Huang Yong: "Liu Hong, I received a call from my daughter today, and she told me that she plans to get married. I'm glad she found her happiness, but at the same time I felt a sense of loss.
Liu Hong: "Huang Yong, as a father, you have been doing your duty and paying a lot. However, every child will have their own growth trajectory and path to happiness.
Huang Yong: "You're right. I want to bless my daughter well, and I will also work hard to create my own happiness. ”
As time went by, Liu Hong's relationship with me became more and more stable, and finally we decided to enter the palace of marriage.
We vowed to be together forever, to support each other, and to run our home together.
Now, we are husband and wife. We work hard together and fight for our dreams. Whenever I see Liu Hong's smiling face, I know that this is the right choice in my life.
Life after marriage has always been full of sweetness and happiness for me and Liu Hong. We support each other and care for each other.
Liu Hong: "Honey, do you have something to worry about?"
Huang Yong: "Hmm... Yes, I just received a missed call with a number that I am not familiar with. Still, maybe it was just a misunderstanding.
Liu Hong: "Do you want to go back and see what is going on?"
Huang Yong: "What you said makes sense, I'll call back immediately."
I dialed the number of the missed caller, and when the call came through, I heard a voice that was not unfamiliar to me.
Ex-wife: "Huang Yong, don't you know that as a father, you have the responsibility to take care of your children?"
Huang Yong: "I understand your concern, but I've started my life all over again. I hope you will also respect my decision and that of Liu Hong.
There was silence from my ex-wife on the other end of the phone, and I knew that the issue was not resolved. And the contradiction between me and Liu Hong also began to reveal itself on this topic.
Liu Hong: "Huang Yong, as a father, shouldn't you help your children?"
Huang Yong: "Liu Hong, I understand your thoughts. But we should also work hard for our own happiness, and our daughters should also have their own independent lives.
Liu Hong: "When you say this, does it mean that our happiness can make our daughter's happiness neglected?"
Huang Yong: "That's not the case, Liu Hong. But we can't always sacrifice our own happiness for the needs of others.
This quarrel made the atmosphere between us tense. We stopped talking and immersed ourselves in our own thoughts.
A few days later, I decided to talk to my daughter. I asked her out and we sat down in a quiet café.
Huang Yong: "Wen, I know you may feel disappointed and incomprehensible. But as a father, I hope you can understand me and Liu Hong, and we also need to pursue our own happiness.
Huang Wen: "Dad, it's not that I don't want you to be happy. But sometimes, I feel like you're a little cold to me. ”
Huang Yong: "I understand your feelings, but we can't always rely on each other. I hope you can understand, I love you, but I also want you to be able to grow independently.
Huang Wen: "Okay, Dad. I'll figure out how to solve my own problems. ”
The conversation with my daughter left me with mixed feelings. I hope she understands my choice, but also wants her to take responsibility for her own life.
Huang Yong: "Liu Hong, I talked to my daughter once, and she seemed to understand my thoughts."
Liu Hong: "That's good, our relationship may take time to adjust."
Huang Yong: "Yes, we have to work hard for our happiness, but we can't ignore the relationship between family and kinship.
We shook each other's hands tightly, knowing that even in the face of family disputes and conflicts, we still want to protect and cherish this relationship.
Our family life was always harmonious, until one day, Liu Hong's parents and I suddenly had a conflict.
One day, Liu Hong's parents and I agreed to have dinner together. As soon as I sat down, Liu Hong's parents began to make dishes, which didn't seem to be friendly to me.
I didn't understand why they said that, so I asked, "Are you not satisfied that I am with Liu Hong?" Liu Hong's mother replied impatiently: "Yes, your age gap is too big, and there will be many conflicts in the future."
When I got home, I told Liu Hong's parents about their remarks with a heavy heart. Liu Hong comforted me and said, "Don't pay too much attention to their words, the relationship between us is real."
A few days later, Liu Hong and I went to her cousin's wedding. At Liu Hong's cousin's wedding, I saw an unexpected scene.
I hurriedly stepped forward to persuade the quarrel, hoping to calm the quarrel.
Liu Hong's father couldn't control his emotions and kept blaming her cousin's father for forcing his son to get married.
Seeing that the quarrel was becoming more and more intense, I suddenly had an idea.
Liu Hong's father was silent for a moment, then smiled at me.
Liu Hong's father: "Huang Yong, I was wrong. You're right, happiness knows no age. I shouldn't doubt your relationship just because of the age difference.
Since then, Liu's parents have been more open and supportive of our relationship. They saw the genuine love and mutual support between us, and began to understand and accept our choices.
Time flies, our family continues to be warm and harmonious, and every day is filled with laughter and love. We face life's challenges together, support each other, and work together.
The married life is full of love and warmth for Liu Hong and me. We support each other and run a family together.
One day, I suddenly received a phone call from my daughter. She cried and told me that there had been some conflict between her and her fiancé and that the relationship had become strained.
Unable to ignore my daughter's request, I agreed to her. However, when Liu Hong heard about it, she objected.
Liu Hong: "Huang Yong, you are the father of your daughter, of course you have to care about her." But now that we're a family, you're too involved in your daughter's problems, and it will affect our marriage.
Huang Yong: "Liu Hong, she is my daughter, and I have always been by her side. As a father, I can't sit idly by.
Our argument escalated, and neither of us was willing to back down. This conflict has led us to re-examine each other's positions and values.
Huang Yong: "Liu Hong, I understand your concern, but my daughter is my concern, and I can't stand idly by." I'll admit that I can be overly involved at times, but I hope you can understand how I feel.
Liu Hong: "Huang Yong, I love you too, but we also need to make space for ourselves. I don't want to feel excluded in our marriage.
Huang Yong: "You're right, we really need to find a balance. I will try to find a solution to the problem that will neither make my daughter feel cold nor make you feel excluded.
With mutual understanding and hard work, we finally reached a consensus. I will try my best to take care of my daughter's emotions, but I will also give Liu Hong enough love and companionship.
This conflict reminds us that balance in marriage requires effort and understanding on both sides. We decided to cherish each other more, overcome difficulties together, and go through the ups and downs and changes of life together.
Our married life was once happy, but as time went on, some minor conflicts began to surface.
She thought I was too conservative and didn't want to try new things. So, we started arguing over trivial matters.
One night, Liu Hong and I had an argument over a small misunderstanding. I asked to go back to the simple life of the past, and she thought that life needed to be improved and changed.
During these cold days, I closed my door and silently pondered the contradictions between us. I realized that each of us has our own values and pursuits, but we should find a balanced way to resolve the contradictions, rather than blaming each other and snubbing each other.
Finally, I decided to take the initiative to communicate with Liu Hong. We sat down and poured out our confusion and dissatisfaction to each other, and gradually, we began to understand each other.
Together, we decided to find a common balance between being able to accommodate each other's needs without losing our individuality.
Through mutual understanding and compromise, our relationship was gradually repaired. We began to learn to respect each other's choices and find ways to collaborate with each other.
Slowly, we rediscovered our mutual enthusiasm and passion. We try new things together and push each other to grow.
We have become each other's most solid backing, supporting each other and growing together in life.
In retrospect, our quarrels and cold wars seem like they were just episodes in life. We realize that the strength of family comes not only from blood ties, but more importantly from the affection and tolerance we have for each other.