Yesterday my sister came home with her children, and there was a lot of joy in the deserted home. After eating, the child was playing in the yard and accidentally fell.
"Wow" and cried, and my sister hurried out to see if the child was hurt. I saw my father frowning, and was about to speak when I stretched out my hand to stop me: "You are grandpa"
Seeing this, the father sighed and silently returned to the house. My sister's personality has changed a lot since she got married, and my father and I have also talked about her way of educating our children, but I have more complaints.
I understand my father very well, in this day and age: for those who have power, wealth is distributed; But for the masses, wealth is grabbed.
And I, like my father, see that the children of the moment are a little more squeamish and less beaten; Look at the young people of the moment are a little more sour and a little less masculine.
My friends always complain to me that I haven't caught up with the reform and opening up, and it is a golden time everywhere. Although I was born in the 90s, because I left society too early, I also went through ups and downs, but I just smiled and didn't speak.
They only saw that the reform and opening up was full of gold, but they didn't see that the people at that time were making money, and the businessmen at that time were trying to play with their lives at every turn.
Tell me a story from almost 30 years ago, and you will experience for yourself: one of my uncles drove a large truck to haul coal, and it was true that he made a lot of money with a single order, but he had to run to the hospital twice a month.
Once, I drove from Beijing, passing through Hebei, and wanted to stop on the side of the road to rest for a while. But before I fell asleep, I saw a few young men walking towards the cart.
A day later, my father returned to Beijing with the uncle and was admitted to the hospital. Shoulders, ribs, and legs are not good, and the cart is gone.
Half a year later, the uncle borrowed money from everywhere, took out loans to buy a car, and embarked on the road of pulling coal again.
If this uncle is lucky, my father came back from driving a tractor and ran into him, or I would have lost an uncle. When my father told me these stories, they were all light, but what I experienced at the time could be understood behind the scenes.
My friends complained to me that I was annoyed, and I sometimes said to them: "Today's Africa is also full of gold, do you dare to go?" ”
I know quite a few old men in their fifties and sixties, who have played chess with them for three years old during the epidemic and listened to their stories about the past. The heart behind is terrifying, and I don't dare to write it in the headlines, and I will block you every minute.
I often come into contact with these old men and see them amiable, but in their bones, they all have a momentum that dares to fight. When I listen to them brag, I often say: "I'm afraid of hair, it's a big deal to start all over again"
And you will find that the older generation will have a brighter heart and a bigger belly. My father often said to me: "It is difficult for a sensible child to become a talent, if he does not make mistakes, how can he know what is wrong, and how to exercise his mind without being beaten." ”
"Not only do you have to make mistakes, but most of the time, you have to let him bear the consequences of making mistakes", such a child can only dare to do things when he grows up, dare to speak, have an independent personality, and think twice before acting, mature and steady.
It wasn't until my father finished saying this to me that I understood. When I was six years old, I was playful, and my calf was cut 30 centimeters and a half inches deep by a bluestone slab, and my father laughed when he saw this.
Fortunately, I didn't cry at the time, or my father would have had to hurt me with a gun and a stick.
When I was nine years old in 19, I met an old man and became friends with him. Once I asked him how to read people, and the next day he gave me a thick pile of information.
"This is the resume of one of our employees, and I'm preparing to train him, you see"
The bastard in the eyes of the elementary school teacher, giving the teacher a bicycle to vent; Give it to the girl at the same table and sew it on the live snake in her mouth.
The thorn in junior high school often works with the teacher and disobeys discipline. But he is very good at uniting his classmates, everyone obeys him, and never bullies those who are weaker than him.
There was a classmate in the class who was bullied by the gangsters outside the school, and after he found out, he took everyone to have a friendly exchange with the gangsters. Since then, he has become the big brother of the school.
High school was based on my father's money to beg for help, because of the summer vacation of the second year of high school, I went to work at my sister's restaurant, which touched me, and I began to study hard after I came back. But it was too late, and I mixed up a pheasant university.
The freshman likes to go to bars and nightclubs, and because of the lack of expenses, he opened a commissary in the dormitory. After sophomores, he took his classmates to start a business in college.
Due to personal problems, I entered the bureau twice, but fortunately, the problem was not big and I was not expelled.
In his junior year, his father passed away and his mother was seriously ill, so he resolutely dropped out of school and took care of his mother while doing odd jobs.
Unfortunately, less than a year later, my mother passed away, and I was cheated for starting my own business again, owing 17W. It takes less than two years to pay off.
Later, he joined the company as a salesman and is now a sales manager. It is understood that when he repaid his debts, he ate boiled noodles in white water for more than a year, and then added some salt. Occasionally pick up some rotten vegetable leaves at the vegetable market and eat them together.
I finished reading the information, and just as I was about to put it down, a sentence came from my ear: "The information is sent to you, don't pass it on, when you understand why I trained him, the art of knowing people will be introduced." Come, play chess, and let me see if you grow. ”
After more than ten years of ups and downs, I have seen many successful people, and there are many legendary stories. really responded to my father's words, if the little people want to succeed, they have to rob it.
Grab resources, orders, and business from others; It is necessary to be bold and careful, but also dare to fight, and have a heart that can withstand beatings.
How can you become an extraordinary person in the world without going through many hardships in the world? can look at those extraordinary strong women, there is always a little more sadness on their bodies.
A woman is a strange animal, she needs to rely on and wants to be self-reliant, she has seen the size of the world and is extremely strong. Returning to an ordinary working family, the heart is like a pin, and breaking a bowl is a big deal (most).
I had afternoon tea with a 36-year-old female boss before, and talked about my future life, and I saw that she sighed a little helpless: "Women want to rely on their partners, and men want to worship when they find partners." ”
"But as a strong woman, it's hard for me to worship those who are stronger than me, let alone those who are weaker than me."
"Now I just want to find someone who is sincere to me, but the one next to me is not the Seven Tricks Exquisite Heart. True temperament belongs to the market, and I dare not set foot easily. In the future, make do with it. ”
Looking at her with some envy of the couples in the market, I fell into memories.
When I was a child, my two chopsticks were accidentally broken, and my mother told me for half an hour, forcing me to prevaricate with my homework.
Since I was a child, I have listened to my mother tell me what happened to my child, whose family quarreled, and whose family had a funeral. The car talked back and forth, either because of trivial matters and quarrels with his father, or because of the shortcomings of the parents.
Since I was a child, I have been thinking that if I want to marry such a daughter-in-law in the future, forget it! Fear of marriage comes from the mother's grinding.
Later, I met a forty-year-old uncle who gave me the answer:
You see, my daughter-in-law, the HR director of a small company, doesn't read books, doesn't read the news. In addition to being busy in the company, he is busy at home, and he has nothing to do to watch dramas and go shopping.
You must know that normal people have a desire to share, and she has this thing in her heart, and she doesn't say anything about it. A good man pretends to be the world in his heart, and the dishes and bowls at home are not a thing.
It's like if you have a million, it's nothing to spend a few thousand dollars, but if you have 100 yuan, you will feel distressed to spend one dollar.
If she sees less, her heart is small, and it is a matter if the plate is broken and the toilet is dirty, because she is busy with this every day.
And when the man sees this problem, he thinks in his heart, buy it again if he falls, and deal with it when it is dirty, because he feels that it is not a problem.
If you haven't seen a big scene, you will be stumped by small things, so that there are little things in your heart, and your heart will seem small.
The family always needs someone to take care of it, just bear the nagging, they nag and lose themselves and annoy, could it be that you pointed to the fairy in the sky and came back to serve you as a mortal wife?
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