preface
This encounter was unfortunate for Huang Yuanxin and her family, and it should have been a pleasant trip, but it turned out to be a parting of life and death for loved ones. This year's 4-year-old little girl happily went to the beach with her parents to play during the National Day, but was swept away by the waves because of the carelessness of adults, although after many volunteers searched and rescued, but in the end we still did not wait for good news, recently the body of the girl who was revealed has been found, which makes all those who are expecting a miracle extremely sad.
Although the dust settled, in the end, her family and netizens must also accept this fact, but in this matter, everyone has targeted the father who took the child to the beach and left the child alone on the beach, and afterwards the father frequently updated his dynamics on the online social account, so that netizens expressed incomprehensibility, and as a result, in the case that the girl was revealed to be dead, the already controversial father Huang once again posted a farewell to his daughter, which made netizens feel even more uncomfortable, Because his words between the lines make netizens feel no trace of sadness, so what is the specific situation, let's take a look together.
A brief review of what happened
At the end of the National Day holiday, that is, on October 6th, the child Huang Yuanxin and his father went to the beach to play, because he wanted to take pictures, his father chose to go outside to find his wife to get a mobile phone, put the 4-year-old girl alone on the beach, and when he went back in ten minutes, he couldn't find the little girl.
Later, the police also reported the incident, after investigation has ruled out that someone took the little girl away, then the biggest possibility is that the little girl was swept into the sea, in fact, many netizens would rather this little girl was abducted by traffickers, after all, there is still a way to live, if it is really involved in the sea, then the consequences are unimaginable.
Finally, on October 19, 2023, the official announcement was heartbreaking that the body of the missing little girl was found on the beach in Ningbo, and the girl's clothing characteristics were similar to those of the girl who had disappeared on Pujiang Beach before. DNA sampling and comparison confirmed the identity of the little girl.
Shanghai police had received a report from Ningbo police the morning that the body of a girl had been found on a tidal flat, in Ningbo's Zhenhai district, similar in clothing and other features to that of a girl who disappeared on the beach in Shanghai's Nanhui New Town. In response, the Shanghai police acted quickly and organized a working group to go to Ningbo to conduct biometric tests and identify family members. In the end, it was confirmed that the body belonged to the missing girl Huang Moumou.
Such news is undoubtedly sad, although everyone may have had a premonition of this before, but they dare not think in this aspect, they are expecting a miracle, and when they hear such news, they feel very heartache as outsiders, let alone their families.
But when this matter first came out, people were full of doubts about this family, including some of their subsequent behaviors that netizens said they could not understand.
Netizens believe that the behavior of this family is constantly controversial
First of all, after the accident, everyone questioned that the child's mother was still in the mood to brush TikTok.
Then netizens questioned that they lost their children that day, and they did not cry on the beach, but calmly went to the police, and did not see them tearing their hearts to find the child.
Then it was found that on October 7th, their child was not found, but the mother was still in the mood to update her social account, posting the scene of her son participating in the event, everyone questioned what this family thought, is it that the daughter is not in a hurry if she loses it?
The mother later explained that the feed was posted before, but it was modified on October 7th.
Such an explanation netizens are obviously unacceptable, whether you are modified or newly issued, if normal people and children are lost, it must be tea and rice without thinking, how can you still be in the mood to do so many things?
This time, after the little girl was found on the beach in Ningbo, netizens also sighed one after another, the little girl is only 4 years old, and she left the world at such a young age.
A father leaves his child behind and spends more than ten minutes on the beach, which no one can understand. Did he think about the consequences?
Huang's father and mother both posted farewell to their daughter, and both caused controversy
After their daughter was found, both their mother and father posted text on their social accounts to say goodbye to their daughter.
The following post is from Father Huang:
Although the father posted this article to say goodbye to his daughter, it seems to be a routine in the eyes of netizens, and there is no sadness at all, and it seems to be just a simple goodbye to his daughter's eternal departure, without that heart-wrenching feeling.
In the whole paragraph, there was no apology or a trace of guilt, as if telling him, "You go well, we live well." ”
"The life you didn't enjoy, we'll help you finish."
Therefore, in response to such a situation, many people question whether their family is because of the preference for sons and now has a little brother, so it is like this. However, this is also the speculation of netizens themselves.
There are also people who think that this father lost the child, not only the father himself is not in a hurry, the mother does not seem to have any meaning to blame, if it is a normal person, the mother must have fallen out, and even divorced for this, as a result, the mother seems to understand the husband especially and defend her husband. In addition to these, this family seems to be calm and terrible, and they do things very rationally, so that people feel incredible.
If a netizen feels this way, forget it, after all, people are different, but everyone thinks so, I think it is still necessary to consider whether it is really a problem with their attitude towards girls.
Mother Huang also sent out her farewell article.
After the father posted, the child's mother also sent a farewell text to her daughter.
The same operation, in the eyes of netizens is also without any trace of guilt, this pair of parents for their own loss of their children without a word of self-blame and apology, without a word of sorry.
There are also many netizens who say their feelings, anyway, it is different from what we usually imagine.
Some netizens defended him
However, there are many critics on the Internet, and many netizens have expressed understanding and defended them.
For example, this netizen claims to know this family and knows their family very well, in his opinion, this child is a very smart and obedient child, in addition to the child is very good, their parents are also intellectuals, knowledgeable, respect the elderly, and get along well with the surrounding neighbors.
If there is any flaw in them, it is that this man is a bit of a horse, so he made the decision to leave his four-year-old daughter alone at the beach, and we can understand it.
Although this suspected good friend spoke up for their family, many netizens simply couldn't listen to it, feeling that we couldn't understand what you explained.
Among them, some netizens said that Father Huang's words to brothers and friends are still very suitable.
Conclusion
In fact, in my opinion, although I also feel that my father's behavior is not normal, I can understand:
1. In real life, it is true that some people's thinking is different from our ordinary people, so this father does not consider that it is dangerous to leave a 4-year-old child on the beach, and there may indeed be such a person;
2, their family frequently voices on the Internet, it is indeed quite incomprehensible, we often say that the more we say the more wrong, the more people can catch the handle, then this family also frequently voices on the Internet, I think it may be that they are more simple, just want to express their true thoughts.
3, I think there is no need for netizens to conspiracy theories, after all, tiger poison does not eat, no one wants their children to have trouble, for this family is already troublesome enough, now they should also be the saddest people, so we should give them more encouragement.
Netizens, what do you think?