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Liu Hegang, a young tenor and first-class actor, appeared on the CCTV stage very early. In his thirties, he married a lovely wife ten years younger than him, which can be said to be prosperous and wealthy.
However, even so, he could not avoid the trivial matters after marriage. In order to take care of his father-in-law and mother-in-law, he decided to take them to live in his own home. However, subsequent conflicts with his parents occurred repeatedly.
Liu Hegang felt that he had tried his best, but he still couldn't express the pain in his heart. One of the problems they face is that four elderly people with completely different living habits live under one roof, which is their biggest problem.
The singing dreams of poor families have come true.
Liu He was just born in an unpretentious peasant family, and his parents were honest farmers. In this rural area, the beautiful natural scenery provided Liu Hegang with the opportunity to show off their talents and make them fall in love with singing.
At first, he was just immersed in his own world of music. Over time, many villagers gradually became captivated by his loud singing. He has a musical dream buried in his heart, eager to get on the bright stage as soon as possible.
As a father, it is of course very satisfying to see that his son has the desire to pursue his ambitions. Therefore, despite the difficulties faced by the Liu family, the Liu family's parents never considered letting Liu Hegang drop out of school.
As time went on, my mom's lumbar spondylosis got worse. Lacking funds, she relied on cheap painkillers for pain relief. In such a harsh environment, many students may choose to give up.
Given the nature of art, it often requires huge financial support. Therefore, it seems unrealistic for a child of an ordinary family to have such a dream. But Liu Hegang is determined to make a difference in the field of art, and he is confident that he can stand out.
1992 was an unforgettable year for Liu Hegang. He entered art school with excellent grades and received a memorable acceptance letter, which filled them with joy.
However, what he will always remember is his father's distressed expression when he heard the amount of tuition. The tuition fee of the art school is as high as 7,000 yuan, which is more than the Liu family's living expenses for a year, which is unbearable.
My father tried his best to raise funds, but in the end, he could only scrape together more than 2,000 yuan.
In desperation, my father had to borrow money from neighbors and finally managed to make up enough for school fees.
Liu Hegang often recalled these scenes. He was deeply sorry for his parents and realized that his actions were too selfish. However, chasing dreams means making sacrifices that others dare not make. Victory is possible only if sacrifices are made.
Liu Hegang is studying harder than before in the art school, and they are eager to absorb every knowledge point. They hoped to ensure they learned something valuable by paying high tuition fees, but fate once again disrupted their minds.
While he was at school, he received disturbing news: his father was in trouble.
My father went to town to work as a tractor driver, but unfortunately accidentally injured his little finger at work.
Liu Hegang's mother heard from the doctor that surgery was needed to preserve the finger, and the cost of the operation was 3,000 yuan. However, since his father could no longer afford to borrow money, he decided to decisively amputate the broken little finger.
Liu Hegang was not informed by his father, who later discovered that his father's finger had been injured in an accident. After the pain, Liu Hegang became proactive and tried to find different opportunities to make money.
Liu He just graduated, and finally had the opportunity to earn money by singing. This made their parents very happy and the family's financial situation improved a lot. What used to be only 7,000 yuan now seems insignificant.
The symbol of marriage: marrying a wife, family integrity.
Liu Hegang showed amazing talent, and even ventured onto the stage of the youth singing competition, successfully winning gold and silver awards. In 2002, he held his father's hand tightly and sang the song "Father" on stage affectionately.
In 2006, Liu Hegang rose to prominence in the music scene and became a widely acclaimed singer. With a grateful heart, he installed brand new street lamps for his hometown to repay the villagers who raised him to school.
He not only brought his parents to live in Beijing, but also let them enjoy a leisurely old age. However, this comfortable life weakened the physical resistance of his parents, which bothered Liu Hegang.
In order to ease his parents' homesickness, Liu Hegang decided to rent a plot of land nearby for his parents to farm. This strategy worked wonders, and the mother's mental state returned to its previous vitality. At the same time, Liu Hegang's love also came quietly.
Liu Hegang met Zhan Yang, a beautiful 22-year-old girl, in 2009, and her appearance made 32-year-old Liu Hegang immediately excited. He knew that the opportunity to fall in love with Zhanyang was rare, so he cherished it very much.
They quickly determined each other's intentions and future plans, and then decided to visit each other's parents. Zhanyang's parents had already heard about Liu Hegang. After 12 hours of chatting with his future son-in-law, they became deeply interested in him.
With the consent of both parents, the two families immediately agreed on a date for the wedding. Soon after, at the height of popularity, Zhan Yang won the runner-up in the Miss World regional competition.
Zhan Yang is a well-educated person both inside and out. After marriage, her main energy was to take care of the family. She refused the opportunity to compete for fame and fortune in the entertainment industry and chose to be a music teacher steadily.
Soon after, they welcomed their son and daughter. Although Liu Hegang was still busy with his career at this time and could not spare much time to take care of his family, Zhanyang's mother came to take care of their grandchildren and granddaughters.
Zhanyang felt quite sorry because his father was alone in the abandoned house and felt deeply lonely. In order to alleviate this guilt, Zhanyang's father decided to go to his daughter's house.
In this way, the two elders can get together in a warm family atmosphere and spend quality time together, which is the envy of many people. Since they are relatives, they can go out together, exchange cooking skills, and enjoy tea together.
But over time, some problems that need to be adapted to gradually emerge. The first is the difference in philosophy. Liu Hegang's parents have lived in the countryside all their lives, and the habit of thrift is difficult to change.
Resolve conflicts in a tactful way
Every time Liu and Gang's parents ate leftover meals, they would put them in the refrigerator and save them for the next time. This behavior attracted the attention of their father-in-law, who reminded them that leftover food should not be left away for a long time and should be thrown away.
However, Liu's parents don't think there's anything wrong with that. They have always eaten this way in their hometown and have never had any health problems in their lives. Dad Liu likes to smoke, even in the house.
The in-laws are very disgusted by Liu's mother's secondhand smoke problem because they know the dangers of secondhand smoke. As a result, Zhanyang's parents will complain to Liu Hegang, hoping that they can persuade Liu's mother to change her bad habits. Although Liu's mother is used to it, this behavior is still difficult to accept in the eyes of her in-laws.
Liu Hegang thought at first that these problems were trivial. They believe that whether a family is harmonious depends mainly on the relationship between husband and wife. However, they did not expect that a larger conflict was quietly brewing.
Liu Hegang's mother once invited the child to dinner, but the child rudely pushed the grandmother away. The next words are quite harsh. He expressed that he did not like his grandmother's behavior of feeding him and said that he preferred his grandmother to take care of him.
Although the children often say naïve things, this sentence divides grandpa and grandma into two opposing camps. Since then, the communication between the elderly on both sides has become more sparse, and they have avoided contact with each other as much as possible.
Liu Hegang felt very distressed and unable to alleviate the conflict between the four old men. He felt powerless, because the old man's thoughts and strange behavior were completely beyond his ability.
The father-in-law finally decided to leave and quietly took away clothes and daily necessities while Liu He had just gone to work. After returning home, Liu He just received a call from his father-in-law to calm them.
After the in-laws left, Liu Hegang's parents were even more embarrassed and didn't know how to deal with it. Finally, Liu Hegang had an in-depth conversation with his parents. After analyzing the contradictions, they believe that the parents' mistakes are more serious.
Liu Hegang decided to take his parents to apologize to his father-in-law, and even took full responsibility. After Liu Hegang's patient persuasion, the four old men finally resolved the previous contradiction.
Since then, they can eat at the same table again, and have the opportunity to play and laugh with their two children. The previous "I don't like grandma" was just a sentence that the child said unintentionally.
Liu Hegang proved with practical actions that although most young people now pursue freedom and do not want to live with the elderly, their filial piety can overcome all obstacles.
Liu Hegang often sings songs such as "Father", "Mother", "Filial Piety", and "Traveling with Parents" on stage, aiming to spread filial piety. Each song touches people's hearts deeply, because this is exactly what Liu Hegang does and feels every day.
Liu Hegang and Zhan Yang sang the song "Family with Parents" together in the classic music program, which made them feel very honored. They deeply cherish the time they spend with their parents, and deeply understand and remember the hard work their parents have put into them.
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