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Liu Hegang, a famous tenor singer, has touched countless listeners with his famous song "Father".
It is precisely because he has a strong father's love that he can express the feelings in the song to the fullest.
Many years ago, in order to fulfill his dream of singing, my father got up early and greedily went to work.
Accidentally injured my finger, which could have been connected for 3,000 yuan.
But for his own tuition, his father actually sawed off his fingers ruthlessly.
After achieving fame, he never forgot his original intention, and the first thing he did was to take his parents who were far away in the countryside to live with him.
His parents couldn't adapt to city life, so he rented a field on the outskirts of Beijing for his parents to farm.
After getting married, he knew that his wife could not rest assured of his father-in-law and mother-in-law, and took the initiative to take care of the two elderly people as well.
Two children, four old people, two children, living under the same roof, everything makes him have words of suffering.
Is his family a little happier or is there constant conflict?
How exactly did he arrange the old age of the four old men?
He has been very talented in music since he was a child, and he is famous throughout the township.
In order to provide for his education, his parents also worked day after day, and his mother suffered from lumbar spondylosis.
To save money, she has insisted on conservative treatment.
Later, he was admitted to a local key art school.
When he received the notice, the family was happy, but the 7,000 yuan tuition made it difficult for his parents.
There are only two or three thousand people in the family, but fortunately the villagers have lent a helping hand.
The money that originally built the house, as well as the coffin book of the old man, all paid him up for tuition.
He is grateful for all this funding.
He went to art school as he wished, and he was eager to study at school.
My father, who was farming far away in his hometown, also had an accident in order to make more money.
My father contracted a tractor and was working with a broken thumb.
The doctor said that with just one surgery, you can save your fingers.
But considering the cost of more than 3,000 operations, my father gritted his teeth and amputated half of his finger.
Afraid of affecting their son's studies, the couple chose to hide it.
But the year he graduated, his father was once again crushed with a finger off.
Watching his father pay for himself, his heart was very sad.
Holding his father and crying, he secretly vowed in his heart that he must not live up to his father's blood and sweat.
In the years that followed, his career was in full bloom.
Participating in the Youth Song Contest, he took home silver and gold awards one after another.
In 2002, one of his songs "Father" rubbed his father's deep love for him into the song, touching countless listeners.
In 2006, he became a well-known singer.
In order to thank the villagers for their financial support, he made a lot of contributions to the construction of his hometown out of his own pocket.
He also brought his elderly parents to live with him in Beijing, and his parents, who had worked hard for most of their lives, should also enjoy the blessing.
Unexpectedly, after arriving in the big city, my mother's health became worse and worse.
Not only did he suffer from chronic diseases, but even the quality of sleep was declining, which made him very distressed.
After some examination in the hospital, I learned that my mother had long been accustomed to farming.
The symptoms caused by the leisure life in the city cannot be adapted to the body.
But when he returned to his hometown, he was not at ease, so he rented a piece of land directly to his parents.
When he wasn't working, he would work with his parents and grow vegetables, and after a few months, his mother's symptoms improved a lot.
In 2009, through the introduction of a friend, he met Zhan Yang, who was 10 years younger than himself.
With her outstanding temperament, she was quickly attracted to Liu Hegang.
She also felt Liu Hegang's sincerity and love, and naturally became lovers.
When he first visited his future mother-in-law, they talked for 12 hours and explained everything in detail.
His steadfastness and honesty have also been affirmed by his future father-in-law and mother-in-law.
When they had known each other for 103 days, the two entered the marriage hall hand in hand.
At the same time, Zhan Yang also won the runner-up in the Chinese division of the draft competition.
She pays more attention to marriage and family than glamorous names.
So after marriage, she voluntarily gave up the next competition and became an ordinary music teacher.
After marriage, their children were born.
His mother-in-law traveled thousands of miles from her hometown to take care of her grandson and daughter.
But at this time, her wife and children who were at home alone were also sick, and both sides were relatives, and she was reluctant.
Looking at his sad mother, Zhan Yang was also very uncomfortable.
Therefore, Liu Hegang proposed to take his father-in-law from his hometown.
The couple arranged the bedroom according to their parents' preferences.
Initially, the old people drank tea and chatted together, discussed recipes, and traveled together.
The family seems to be happy, and many neighbors are also envious.
But over time, contradictions appeared.
The living habits and consumption concepts of the two pairs of elderly people are very different, and contradictions naturally appear.
Liu Hegang's parents have been thrifty all their lives, and they are always reluctant to throw away unfinished meals, waiting for the next cooking to mix the leftovers.
But in the eyes of his parents-in-law, this is very unhealthy.
And his parents used to smoke at home, and over time, his mother-in-law often complained of being forced to smoke secondhand smoke at home.
At first, the little couple did not care about their parents' complaints.
Finally, the contradictions of the four old men accumulated, and finally broke out in a child's unintentional words.
At one point, his mother was breastfeeding her grandson.
The little grandson's words made her explode on the spot, "I want my grandmother to feed, I don't like my grandma to feed."
At that time, the two old people had a pimple in their hearts, the atmosphere at home became very depressing, and the communication between the two mothers was much less.
Before the end of the year, his father-in-law and mother-in-law also quietly packed their bags and returned to their hometown, and only called to report safety when they arrived home.
After the couple learned about it, they didn't know how to solve it, and slowly Liu Hegang also had words of suffering.
Every day is distraught, and for several days in a row, insomnia is a state of absence, and work and life are affected.
The couple decided to unite the front and ease the conflict between them.
Liu Hegang first talked with his parents for a long time, and put all the fault on himself.
Hoping that they could get along well in the future, he personally took his parents to his parents-in-law's hometown to take the initiative to apologize.
"Everything the elderly do is for the good of the children, and the children can work with peace of mind if we are all good."
In the end, they also shook hands and made peace.
After experiencing this conflict, their relationship has also become much more harmonious.
Whether it is biological parents or parents-in-law, Liu Hegang treats them as biological parents!
Only with one heart of the family can the career go more smoothly and life will be happier!
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