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A few days ago, I suddenly received a letter from my mother-in-law, saying that her health was not as good as before, and it was very hard to live alone, and she wanted to come to my house for a while and let us take care of our husband and wife. I immediately fell into hesitation because I was not close to my mother-in-law, she had a stodgy and mean personality, and I was afraid that her arrival would affect my life and that of my wife.
I told my wife Su Su about this, and she also seemed very embarrassed: "Mom's body is a little wrong, I am worried that she lives alone, but you also know that she has a bad temper, and coming may restrict us a lot." ”
I said, "Yes, you also have her temper, I won't mind if I listen to you, but I'm just worried that she will make things difficult for you and me." ”
Su Su sighed: "I understand your concerns, give me two days to think about it." She is my mother after all, and I can't bear to refuse her like this. ”
Two days later, Su Su told me that after thinking about it for a long time, she decided to let her mother-in-law come to live in our house for a while. She said: "I know my mother has a bad temper, but after all, it is a relative. Let's bear with her and give her more love. ”
I looked at Su Su's firm eyes, and I couldn't bear to say anything more, but just told her to take care of her body. So in this way, the matter of my mother-in-law coming to my house to retire was finalized.
A few days later, my mother-in-law came to my house with a large box in tow. She is more than 70 years old, her hair is gray, her steps are faltering, and when she saw Su Su, she touched her head and sighed: "Su Su has grown up, and even her mother can't recognize it!" Su Su quickly helped her to sit down and poured her another cup of hot water.
I stepped forward and greeted my mother-in-law politely. She looked me up and down and didn't say anything. I knew in my heart that she must not be very satisfied with my son-in-law.
After my mother-in-law came, Su Su and I had to carefully watch her living. She has many troublesome habits, often walking back and forth around the house, putting things everywhere and making a mess.
Once I accidentally knocked over her cup on the table, she immediately reproached me. I can only endure it, but I am glad that Su Su usually does not have to bear this.
After my mother-in-law lived for a month, there was a gradual gap between me and Su Su. My mother-in-law often made unreasonable troubles and asked Su Su to serve her to eat and drink, Su Su's body could not eat, and I advised her not to listen.
Once I saw that Su Su was really tired, and I couldn't help but say: "Mom, Su Su is also tired, don't keep letting her serve." ”
The mother-in-law immediately glared angrily: "I am here to rely on, she should serve me!" You take care of yourself! ”
I was extremely angry, but I still endured Su Su's tired appearance.
After my mother-in-law moved in, she was always vexatious and made things difficult for us. She always said that our family was too small and things were too old, and she didn't care about her.
A few days ago, she pulled the new sofa we bought, and I couldn't help but say: "Mom, this sofa was just bought, can you use it carefully?" ”
She immediately said angrily: "I just use it as I want, and it's not your turn to teach me a lesson!" ”
Su Su quickly persuaded me and went to make my mother-in-law happy. I saw her so tired, and my heart was both distressed and angry.
Later, my mother-in-law deliberately dropped a few bowls and blamed our family for the poor quality of things. Su Su could only sweep the pieces one by one, I couldn't stand it, I wanted to help, and my mother-in-law scolded me loudly.
Faced with all kinds of difficulties from his mother-in-law, Su Su was in a dilemma. She couldn't bear to drive away her mother, and she couldn't stand my hard work.
Once, the mother-in-law accused Su Su of cooking something unpalatable, and Su Su ran to the bedroom with red eyes. I hugged her distressedly, and she choked and said, "I'm like this, mom is still not satisfied, what do you say I should do?" ”
I comforted her softly, but Su Su said: "I'm sorry, it's all my bad, I didn't take good care of my mother." ”
I looked at her haggard face, and my heart was like a knife. I can't wait to throw my mother-in-law out immediately, but Susu is a filial child, and I can't break her heart.
Faced with my mother-in-law's difficulties, I also began to endure it unbearably. Once she deliberately spilled soup on the ground, blaming me for not being steady, and I finally couldn't help arguing. Su Su hurriedly grabbed me and went to apologize to my mother-in-law.
I looked at Su Su's aggrieved look and thought, I can't make Su Su embarrassed because of my mother-in-law's vexatiousness. So I could only endure my anger again and decided to continue tolerating my mother-in-law.
It's just that my mother-in-law's pickiness and difficulty have not diminished in the slightest, and Su Su and I have been exhausted by her. I couldn't bear to see Su Su so haggard, and I always wanted to persuade her to send her mother-in-law away, but as soon as I saw her helpless and painful eyes, I couldn't bear to speak.
We have endured such days for more than two months, and my relationship with Su Su has become more and more rigid, and we often quarrel over my mother-in-law's affairs. I was really worried that if this continued, our marriage would collapse.
Last night, Su Su and I had a particularly fierce argument about my mother-in-law. Su Su said that he wanted me to be more considerate of my mother-in-law, but I couldn't bear it anymore and offered to let my mother-in-law leave.
"How can you be like this, my mother is already so old, can you endure it for a few years?" Su Su said with red eyes.
"I'm also for us! So our relationship will be over! "I couldn't help but raise my volume.
"I don't care! She was so cruel to me when she was gone! Su Su cried.
We were arguing so fiercely that we couldn't listen to each other. It was one of our worst quarrels since marriage, and we suddenly felt like strangers.
After the quarrel, Su Su ran into the room alone and cried bitterly. I was so distressed that I knocked on her door, but she was alone sobbing and refused to open the door.
"I'm sorry... It's me who is wrong... Don't cry, okay... I begged softly.
After a long time, Su Su opened the door, and her eyes were red with tears: "Do you not love me anymore, so you want to drive away my mother..." ”
I hurriedly explained, but she was so sad that I couldn't bear to persuade her to send her away from my mother-in-law for a while.
After that day of fierce arguments, I figured it out. I can't break Su Su's heart anymore for my mother-in-law's affairs. She is so filial that I have no right to force her to do something contrary to her heart.
Since she was reluctant to send her mother-in-law away, I would endure it again and tolerate them with all my love. I made up my mind that no matter how difficult my mother-in-law was, I would protect Su Su's feelings.
The next day, I solemnly said to Su Su, "My mother-in-law can continue to live, and I will learn to accept her." We will not divorce because of this and I will always love you. ”
Su Su cried bitterly when she heard this, and said sorry repeatedly, and we hugged tightly.
Something unexpected happened. On the day we reconciled, my mother-in-law suddenly said she was leaving.
She told Su Su that she had found her son's family to live in and did not want to stay any longer. We were all surprised, and Su Su quickly asked her if she was dissatisfied.
The mother-in-law didn't say anything, just dragged the box and said goodbye coldly and left.
Su Su chased out the door to keep it, but was closed by his mother-in-law. Su Su stood in place, tears flowing uncontrollably.
After her mother-in-law left, Su Su's whole person was in self-blame and sadness. She repeatedly thought about what she had done wrong before her mother-in-law suddenly left.
I saw her haggard appearance all day, and my heart was very distressed. I knew she needed time to heal.
After a while, I finally plucked up the courage to say to Su Su: "Maybe it's really not your problem, but my mother-in-law's own reason." She has a weird temper and we've tried our best. ”
Su Su nodded, and tears welled up again: "I'm just too sad, I really don't know what I did wrong..." ”
I quickly hugged her and whispered comfort.
After this incident, Su Su became much calmer and more restrained. One day, she suddenly said to me, "I'm sorry for this time causing you so much stress. It's me who is too blind. ”
I held her hand and listened patiently.
"I wanted to make my mom happy so much that I ignored your feelings. And often blame you for not being considerate of her. I was wrong. Su Su's eyes were full of apologies.
"I understand your guilt for your mother. We are all at fault. I said softly.
"No matter what happens later, we can't suffer alone because of anyone. It has to be united. Su Su said firmly.
I nodded, we looked at each other and smiled, the warmth of a long absence warmed people's hearts.
"Actually, I've always felt sorry for you." I said to Su Su suddenly.
Su Su looked at me in surprise.
"I shouldn't let you face your mother-in-law alone, I shouldn't get angry at every turn. I'm so selfish. My tone was full of remorse.
"You've been protecting me, but I just want to get rid of the problem. I'm really sorry. ”
Su Su held my face, her eyes shining with tears: "Don't say I'm sorry, it's that I didn't understand your difficulties." We all have mistakes, but love can melt everything. ”
I nodded, and we hugged, dissolving all the mustard.
After experiencing this turmoil, my relationship with Su Su has become more determined. We learn to be tolerant and understand each other and stop being reckless and angry.
Once I worked overtime late, Su Su did not complain at all, and came to the company to bring me a late-night snack. I was very impressed.
I also learned to take the initiative to help Su Su share the housework and often massage her to relax. We regained the sweetness of our newlyweds.
"If we encounter any difficulties in the future, we will face them together." One day I solemnly said to Su Su.
She smiled and nodded, her eyes shining with love.
I know that through the storm, our love will be more indestructible. This is also a valuable lesson left to us by my mother-in-law.
Six months later, my mother-in-law suddenly wrote to us apologizing. She said she regretted what she had done and knew that her temper was really difficult to get along with.
"I'm getting older, my personality is getting weirder and I do a lot of excessive things. I shouldn't hurt you like that. The mother-in-law wrote in the letter.
She said she had been blaming herself and always wanted to come to us to apologize and express her remorse.
Su Su and I were very moved when we read the letter, and Su Su said with red eyes: "Mom still loves us." ”
Su Su replied to her mother-in-law, saying that she had forgiven her a long time ago.
"After you came, I learned the power of tolerance. I am also aware of many responsibilities as a wife and daughter. Susu wrote.
"I have to thank you for giving us this opportunity to grow. You are still my dearest mother. ”
After writing the letter, Su Su had tears in her eyes and said to me: "Mom's visit has made our relationship stronger. That's the best lesson she taught me. ”
I also nodded heartily. We decided to visit our mother-in-law more often for a long time.
My mother-in-law's apology touched us and healed us. We are determined to start a new life.
Now that I am concentrating on my work, Su Su has also found a career that he likes. We would find time to play together and often get emotional.
Even if there is a conflict, we will discuss it peacefully. After each reconciliation, our relationship sublimates.
Life is not as good as it should be, but with love, everything will be beautiful. This is also the final inspiration for me by my mother-in-law's visit.
I know that there will be more challenges waiting in life, but with Susu by my side, I have nothing to fear.