Author: Emotional Talent Country
introduction
Man's life is not determined by fate, but by his own wisdom.
Some disasters are not predestined, but because our wisdom is not enough to be discovered in time!
A lot of wisdom is summed up by previous people after taking detours. If we master this wisdom, we can avoid similar detours and make our lives safe and smooth.
Some things are known sooner the better, and I recommend you three pieces of advice that you will use for a lifetime on the road to life, so that you can protect yourself well and keep yourself safe forever.
1. Don't try to take shortcuts
Zhao Xin said:
There is no shortcut to success, safety is no luck!
Do anything, don't try to take shortcuts, especially things you are not sure of, being down-to-earth is king.
In ancient times, there was a man who wanted to go to a place to worship a teacher. After walking for a few days, he came across a fork in the road, so he stopped to ask where he was going. Many people told him to take the road, the road is safe, and a small number of people said take the small road, the small road is fast.
After walking for a few days, he met a man who ran over in a panic, telling him that there were bandits blocking the road in front of him.
Frightened, he returned to walk the main road. It took a lot of time to go back and forth, and the shortcut became the slowest path.
People in our time, especially after the popularization of the Internet, like to make quick money, take shortcuts, and rush to achieve quick results. But ignoring the truth of one minute on stage and ten years of work offstage.
Great oaks from little acorns grow.. If you don't have the ability to make quick money, you will take every step down-to-earth.
Don't try to take shortcuts, sowing and harvesting are never in the same season.
2. Don't be curious about right and wrong
Stay away from the land of right and wrong, away from the people of right and wrong, and don't be curious about bad things.
Don't be curious about things that could be bad, he could kill you.
The best state of life is to keep your ears out the window and read only the books of the sages. In life, only care about what you should do, in life, you can do your own things well, do your work well, take care of your family, and the average person can have a happy life.
Staying away from those who meet right and wrong, and staying away from things that meet right and wrong, this is the way to avoid evil.
A man was driving on the road and saw someone arguing in front of the hotel across the road, and many people gathered around to watch.
At this time, he became curious, and actually turned around from the front to look back, and just arrived at the door of the quarreling hotel, he was pulled down by several people and beaten violently, and he was stabbed in the leg.
Later, I learned that the party he was fighting with was mistaken for an accomplice called by the other party.
Don't be curious about bad things, and beware of getting caught up in right and wrong.
3. Don't rush into a decision
Don't make decisions when you're impulsive, because it's easy to be blinded by the illusion in front of you.
Don't make any decisions when you are impulsive, otherwise this decision may become a lifelong regret and regret.
When people are impulsive, their IQ is equal to zero, and they need to calm down for a minute before they can slowly recover.
Important events, it is best to wait overnight before making a decision.
In ancient times, a man went out to work, and before leaving, he made a pact with his wife that they would be loyal to each other and never let them down.
This man has been gone for twenty years, he has earned enough money, and he misses his wife, so he resigned to the boss and returned home with twenty years' wages.
When he got home and was about to knock on the door, he saw through the window that his wife was approving a man's shirt, and suddenly he took a knife and rushed in and killed the man.
At this time, he remembered a piece of advice given to him by his boss when he was leaving: "Don't make any decisions when you are impulsive." ”
So he calmed down and sat outside all night.
The next day he knocked on the door early, and his wife cried with joy when she saw that it was him. And he asked coldly: "Who is that man in the room?" ”
The wife said, "That's your son, I was pregnant when you left." ”
The man listened to the great joy that he had no impulse, and the family of three hugged happily together.
Don't make any decisions when impulsive, and deal with important matters overnight.
Written at the end:
Don't try to take shortcuts, the so-called shortcuts are actually unreliable roads, detours that make people go down.
Any success is not achieved overnight, but step by step, rising from the ground, and every step is taking root and laying the foundation.
Don't be curious about things that could be bad, stay away from people who are right and wrong, and stay away from right and wrong. In case you get into unnecessary trouble.
Impulsivity is the devil, and if you don't make any decisions when you are impulsive, you will be able to stay away from mistakes and regrets. Decisions made on impulsiveness may leave you with no retreat and regret for life.
Three pieces of advice that will last a lifetime:
Don't take shortcuts; Don't be curious about things that could be bad; Don't make any decisions when impulsive.
2023.10.17
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