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"I fell in love when I was 17."
Her private life is chaotic, and she relies on "sleeping" to get to the top, which simply makes people love and hate her.
Song Jia used her body in exchange for fame and fortune and was known as "Sister Zhenlang".
On the surface, low-key and debauched, what kind of person is she?
Her road to success is full of ambiguity and transactions.
A good acting road does not go, but the shortcut is taken without any vainness, what does Song Jia want to do?
Love is a pawn
Song Jia, a master who is comfortable in the game of love chess.
In 2000, Song Jia was admitted to the acting department of Shanghai Theater Academy with excellent results.
With her beautiful appearance, she gained the attention of many suitors as soon as she entered school.
However, she already knows love well, she is not easily moved, in her opinion, love is a pawn to achieve goals, not the purpose of life.
In 2001, with her keen grasp of the role, Song Jia successfully starred in the TV series "Actually, I Don't Want to Go" through the audition of director Ma Jin, and officially opened her acting career.
In order to obtain more resources, she maintained close cooperation with Director Ma, who did not live up to her expectations and provided many performance opportunities.
During the filming of the TV series "Actually", Song Jia meticulously controlled the performance of every shot, perfectly shaping the character traits of the characters in the play.
Director Ma was full of praise for her professional ability, and the two worked happily together.
During the filming of the TV series "The More Alive, the More Exciting", Song Jia partnered with the actor Bao Jianfeng.
She deliberately gave her arms to Bao Jianfeng, and the relationship between the two became increasingly ambiguous.
This brought more scenes and exposure to Song Jia, making her famous in the circle.
In order to gain the favor of Bao Jianfeng, Song Jia would ask him out to play outside of work, often inviting him to dinner and watching movies.
Bao Jianfeng is also very useful to Song Jia's courtesy and always responds to requests.
The scandal between the two was widely circulated in the crew, although neither side responded positively.
In 2003, during the cooperation with Tong Dawei in the TV series "Very Romantic", Song Jia pursued this male god-level senior.
Her coquettish affection brought great satisfaction to Tong Dawei, and the relationship between the two was once ambiguous. Just when Tong Dawei wanted to further develop this relationship, Song Jia had already shifted his goal to Xinhuan Chen Long.
In the filming of "Hibiscus Out of Water", Song Jia interacted frequently with the male protagonist Chen Long, and the relationship became increasingly close. Both are from Shanghai Theatre Academy and share many languages.
The gentle and considerate Chen Long cared for Song Jia, and the two quickly fell in love.
Chen Long even proposed to Song Jia, wanting to sublimate this relationship into marriage.
However, Song Jia's ambitions are far more than that, she wants to achieve greater achievements in the entertainment industry, rejected Chen Long's marriage proposal, and chose the path of development in Beijing.
Song Jia is a master of love, she knows her goals, and is good at using the chess game of love to get more performance opportunities.
Her comfortable love skills have made her beautiful debut in the entertainment industry.
Although she left a string of lovelorn men, Song Jia does not regret it, because she firmly believes that only by moving forward can she reach the other side of success.
Ambiguous with many male stars
In 2006, Song Jia "drifted north" in Beijing for three years, although he received some plays, but they were only supporting roles, and his life was not going well.
At this time, her good buddy Tong Dawei appeared and introduced Song Jia to the director, so she got the opportunity to play the heroine in "Curiosity Kills Cats".
During the filming of the film, Song Jia developed feelings with the male protagonist Hu Jun, and the two were once found dating at night and became the talk of the crew.
In 2007, on the recommendation of Hu Jun, Song Jia met director John Woo, and through his own efforts, he finally won the role of Li Ji in "Red Cliff".
In order to win John Woo's favor, Song Jia praised him a lot, and John Woo also promised to cooperate with her again in the future.
Song Jia understood that it was difficult to achieve stable development by relying on the commitment of one person alone, so she approached the famous director Zhang Li.
The two fell in love at first sight and soon moved in together.
With Zhang Li as a backer, Song Jia has access to many good resources, such as playing one of the main roles in the new film he directed.
For this reason, Song Jia often blows the wind on Zhang Li's pillow and asks for more drama.
This triggered discussion among netizens because Zhang Li already had a girlfriend and was engaged.
Faced with doubts, Song Jia calmly responded that the two were only friends.
But then the two lived together and exposed, Zhang Li also divorced the original partner and publicly had a relationship with Song Jia.
Five years later, the two broke up.
In 2008, Song Jia starred in the TV series "Daming Dynasty 1566", and had many rivalry scenes with the male protagonist Chen Daoming in the play.
The two also developed a delicate relationship and often chatted and had fun on the set.
Although Chen Daoming is married, Song Jia still takes the initiative to show love, causing a rift in his marriage.
The relationship didn't last long, because Song Jia was attracted to a new target again.
In 2010, Song Jia met Taiwanese singer Guo Fucheng at a drinking party.
Kwok Fucheng was on the rise of his career at that time, and Song Jia was also eager to use his influence in the entertainment industry.
The two quickly became acquainted, and Song Jia frequently appeared in Kwok Fucheng's social activities.
It is rumored that the two have stayed up at night many times, causing dissatisfaction with Kwok Fucheng's girlfriend. Finally, under the persuasion of relatives and friends, Kwok Fucheng chose to return to his girlfriend.
In 2012, Song Jia met young idol Xie Nan in a show.
Xie Nan pursues Song Jia, but Song Jia pretends to be reserved at first.
Later, Xie Nan repeatedly showed favor, and Song Jia also accepted the pursuit.
After the two made their relationship public, Song Jia became the commanding height of Xie Nan's popularity. But the good times did not last long, and the relationship between the two ended a year later.
Although Song Jia has obtained job opportunities and popularity, her feelings are difficult.
Whether she can find a true love partner remains to be tested by time.
Focus on your career
In 2012, Song Jia was criticized by netizens for having a spat with Haiqing at the Shanghai Youth Ceremony.
This quarrel inadvertently revealed Song Jia's emotional encounter.
For years, she has been hiding her singleness, but she has been repeatedly exposed to have an affair with married men.
This made her a lot of criticism, and even had the notoriety of "eating a husband".
However, it was this turmoil that made Song Jia reflect deeply.
She realized that as a public figure, she needed to be more cautious in her words and actions and focus on her work.
So, Song Jia chose to be silent for three years and go all out for every role. During this period, she has starred in many high-quality movies, such as "Cliff" and "Xiao Hong".
With her superb performance, Song Jia won many film awards such as "Golden Rooster Award Queen Film" and "Magnolia Award Queen of Vision".
From 2012 to 2016, Song Jia proved herself with strength and convinced the skeptical public again.
She did not choose to shy away, but focused more on acting.
It is precisely by adhering to the principle that Song Jia has regained her glory and become the "award harvester" of the Chinese film industry.
This unsuccessful encounter pushed her to a higher level in her career.
However, Song Jia has always been bumpy on the emotional road. She has always remained single and secretive about her feelings.
Even when asked in interviews, he was only vague and said that he did not want to disclose his private life.
This low-key way of dealing with the world may be the lesson she learned after that public opinion storm.
Song Jia once said that what actors should most remember the audience is the role, not their private life. She wants viewers to focus on her work rather than gossip.
To this end, Song Jia went all out for every role after three years of silence, constantly handed over the transcript of her acting skills, and proved herself with strength.
Song Jia's choice
The scandal between Song Jia and several male stars has caused a lot of turmoil in the entertainment industry.
The public defined her as a "third party" and pointed fingers at her emotional choices.
But do we really know what Song Jia really thinks?
Is her desire for feelings the pursuit of passion or the yearning for a stable life?
The answers to these questions are clear only to Song Jia.
Perhaps, Song Jia is a romantic, eager to experience excitement and excitement in feelings.
She will not be easily bound by worldly vision, and has the courage to chase the happiness and freedom that love brings her.
But perhaps, she needs a stable relationship, a reliance that can give her a sense of belonging and security.
We all have our own emotional needs, and Song Jia is no exception.
Her choice is her truest call to her heart.
She is also a flesh-and-blood woman who will have the weakness and emotional needs of an ordinary woman.
We should not look at her with revealing eyes, let alone deprive her of the right to judge feelings.
There is no standard answer to love, and everyone will have confusion on the road to feelings.
Song Jia's emotional journey may be embarrassing, but it also shows a woman's autonomy over feelings.
What we give her should not be a moral judge-like criticism, but an understanding and kindness to her choices.
Because depriving a woman of her emotional autonomy is tantamount to depriving her of her human dignity.
Maybe Song Jia is looking for her own happy home. What we can give her is not harshness, but understanding and blessing.
I sincerely hope that she can find true love, bravely face her choices, and take her due responsibility.
Because on the road of affection, we are all looking for warmth and reunion.
Understanding a woman's emotional choices with kindness requires our empathy, not criticism.
summary
Love does not need to be proven and recognized by others, as long as they have a common heart.
Is that a marriage document really needed, or is it just a formality?
Over the years, is the tacit and warm life of the two enough?
What does marriage mean, and does it matter to them? These questions may only be clear to the parties themselves.
We can only sincerely wish that their road to love will be full of laughter and return with a full load.
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