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Nowadays, there is a flood of information, people have witnessed too many stories of betrayal, deception, and they have begun to have doubts about love. However, there are always some people who have faith that they will be lucky and have a pure love. They firmly believe that love can overcome everything, so for this faith, they bravely step into the palace of marriage, and then go through storms in it. Faith in love is beautiful, but marriage needs more support. Even true love has an unpredictable and fickle future. Some people are gentle and sweet in love, but once they step into marriage, they try to control their other half, and the protection of marriage makes them unscrupulous, and the ugliness that was originally hidden is revealed. Especially when the family is equally morally deficient and greedy, women will suffer greatly after marriage.
Wang Haili, with her belief in love, resolutely chose to marry far away. She firmly believes that as long as there is love, she can have a happy life. For Kim Jun-kyu, she firmly believes that he will not fail her and will give her warmth. At Wang Haili's insistence, parents no longer object, after all, it is difficult for parents to overcome their children's determination. Although they were reluctant and full of worry, they could only silently accept the marriage. In order to protect her daughter from grievances, Wang Haili's mother not only handed her all the bride price given by her in-laws, but also attached an additional dowry. She hopes that this money will give Wang Haili confidence and make her live more comfortably in her in-laws' house. The mother's original intentions were well-intentioned and deep, but she ignored the insatiable people in this world. After Wang Haili entered her in-laws' house, she could not taste the sweetness of the newlyweds, so she began to deal with her in-laws' calculations for her. The in-laws bullied her as a distant married daughter, and they have been calculating her money. At first, the mother-in-law's attitude was quite mild, but she only discussed with her in private, saying that they wanted to buy a car for her sister-in-law, which was financially insufficient, and hoped that Wang Haili could take out a dowry and help her sister-in-law. Although Wang Haili was uneasy in her heart, she did not think of this matter in a bad way, thinking that they were really short of money. Remembering her mother's advice, she decided to refuse cautiously. Her mother told her not to use the money unless she was forced to. There are too many places where money is needed to raise children in the future, and you can't consume it in advance because of trivial matters, and you will only be in a hurry when you lack money. Keeping her mother's advice in mind, she decided to keep the money and never use it unless she had to. Buying a car is not a priority, you can not buy it, there is no need to borrow money for it. Therefore, she politely declined. She thought that her refusal was enough for her in-laws to understand her attitude and would not mention it again. However, not long after, her mother-in-law approached her again and asked for a dowry for her sister-in-law, forcing her to hand over the dowry. She wondered, unbelievable that such a request would be made. She flatly refused. Although she expected that her mother-in-law and sister-in-law might be angry, she did not expect her husband Kim Junkyu to use cold violence on her. For a whole month, Kim Jun-kyu was silent to her like iron. During this time, she fell into confusion. The cold violence of her mother-in-law and sister-in-law towards her, she can still endure, after all, there is no emotional basis for each other. However, Kim Jun-kyu's indifference defeated her. He had vowed to treat her well, but in order to seize the wealth in her hands, he was so indifferent to her. Is this still the love she longs for? Reality slapped her hard. In the face of all this, Wang Haili fell into a helpless situation, and she almost collapsed. Fortunately, Wang Haili's mother's call came in time, and the moment she connected the phone, tears welled up, and all grievances and bitterness were poured out. After the call, she felt much more relaxed. Wang Haili's mother arrived overnight, she did not allow her daughter to be wronged, and she did not want her daughter to continue this life, she firmly believed that this marriage was wrong from the beginning, and the character of the family was undesirable. At her in-laws' house, she quarreled directly with Wang Haili's in-laws' family, and after the dispute, she took her daughter away, asserting that the marriage must end and was non-negotiable. Only at this time did Kim Junkyu's family begin to panic. If the marriage really breaks down, it will be difficult to find a bride with conditions like Wang Haili. However, their apology and remorse could not redeem Wang Haili's determination.
Through the story of Wang Haili and Jin Junkui, we can understand two important truths:
For one, smart women rarely believe that love can overcome everything. In today's materialistic society, there are still people who dedicate themselves to love and believe that love can overcome everything. However, these people often wake up after experiencing a series of injuries, realizing that the source of the harm that brought them is love. There is nothing wrong with believing in love, but you can't have illusions about its shelf life, let alone believe in the myth of love. Smart women know that it is unwise to believe such lies. Love is too fragile, and the slightest interference can distort its essence or even make it unrecognizable. Therefore, women should remain sane, stay smart, cherish love but not lose themselves for it.
Second, marriage is a lifelong affair, and love cannot be valued alone. Many young girls, especially innocent girls who lack social experience, often neglect the trials of marriage because they are in love. They believe that a lover will eventually become a dependent, and feel that as long as they can spend the rest of their lives with the loved one, everything else doesn't matter. The reason they think this way is because they haven't experienced it. Marriage is different from love, there are too many factors involved in it, and love alone cannot be sustained. There are too many variables in marriage that will dilute the original enthusiasm, but the marriage without love, only those trivial calculations remain, which is annoying. Such a marriage feels suffocating. Therefore, the most important thing in marriage is not love, although love is an essential ingredient, there are many other factors to consider in marriage. Character, values, mutual matching, etc., are all elements that need to be carefully considered in marriage. Only in this way can we have a happy and stable marriage.
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