Supervise the children without being careless

Polar News commentator Wu Shuangjian

The 4-year-old girl's disappearance on the beach has made heart-wrenching progress. According to the Shanghai Pudong police, the possibility of the girl being taken off the beach by others has been preliminarily ruled out. On the evening of the day after the girl went missing, her father finally pointed out the exact location of himself and the girl when they were separated from the surveillance method, and the police found the suspected girl among the nearly 100 people in the image, and after waiting in place for about 10 minutes, she walked to the water's edge, fell at the water's edge and disappeared into the waves. (According to The Paper on October 6)

Police report

The 4-year-old girl's disappearance worries everyone, and under the in-depth investigation of the police, some details emerged. The police initially ruled out the possibility that the girl was abducted, but the suspected claim that she was swept away by the waves led some netizens to point the finger at the child's father and criticize him for not taking good care of the child. In addition, some netizens have made a lot of associations and speculations that are not conducive to the child's father.

You can't be careless in supervising a child, let alone a child who is only 4 years old. It is not difficult to understand the anxious and anxious mentality of netizens, and the child's father should take the child with him when he returns to get the mobile phone, so that accidents can be avoided. Keeping children in the sight of parents and ensuring their health and safety is common sense repeatedly emphasized by all parties in society. Guardians should fulfill their responsibilities as guardians, so that there will be laughter in the family.

At present, there is no specific authoritative account on why the girl's father has to return to pick up the mobile phone and why he does not return with the child. However, some netizens cited many "free-range" experiences of their own experience as examples, thinking that the girl's father was too careless and thought that nothing would happen for a while. It has also been suggested that the father of a girl may normally take his children less and lack careful experience. In addition, some netizens said that this may be their way of raising children.

In any case, now that the child has not been found, various statements are unclear, some irrational attacks and unfounded negative speculations about the child's father are really unnecessary, so as not to trigger secondary negative effects.

Just before the holiday, another news also attracted great attention from netizens, and even rushed to the top of the hot search for a while. According to polar news reports, on September 23, some tourists climbed Mount Tai, but left the three-year-old child alone in the car for about 4 hours, witnesses and rescuers responded to the extreme news reporter that the child kept crying in the car, and then the car door was opened by the police and enthusiastic tourists, the police took the child to the police office, and after the tourists went down the mountain, the child was returned to them.

Fortunately, although this child has a family with a big heart, he has a warm ending because of the help of enthusiastic people. After all, many children are left alone in the car, and there are not many tragic incidents.

Lost girl (according to the girl's family social account)

Some parents lack experience with their children, and if they are careless, they are often prone to accidents. You know, there is no regret medicine in the world, some things are irreparable after they happen, and they should be avoided. In the case of Shanghai, it is also extremely dangerous to leave the child unsupervised and leave the child near the water. Every summer, society repeatedly emphasizes the prevention of children's drowning risks, and not letting children play near the water is one of the important ones. This cannot be overemphasized.

On the one hand, we pray for a miracle and hope that the child will be safe and sound, and at the same time, we hope that all walks of life will increase their search efforts and provide more clues, so that we will pay more attention when we see a child alone at the water's edge in the future. On the other hand, parents should learn from this warning and lesson, and fulfill the responsibility of guardians to ensure the safety of their children. After all, the safety of children comes first, and without this, nothing else can be discussed.

(Source: Polar Eye News)