The marriage background of Lin Chiling and Ryohei Kurosawa
Love or Deal?
On June 6, 2019, Lin Chiling's wedding announced her marriage to Japanese tycoon Ryohei Kurosawa, causing a sensation. After marriage, Lin Zhiling became unknown, wondering why she married a Japanese man 15 years older and with a different culture, giving up her high popularity and high income in China.
People speculate whether this is a love, or just a deal? Lin Chiling and Ryohei Kurosawa met at a charity event in 2011, experienced an 8-year relationship, and finally entered the marriage hall. Some believe that they are partners who share common values and ideals, but others believe that it is a cooperation for the benefit and status of both families. Whether in love or trading, their marriage is full of difficulties and challenges.
Age and cultural differences
There is a huge age gap between Lin Chi-ling and Ryohei Kurosawa, who is over 63, divorced twice and has three children, while the former is married for the first time and has no children. These physical and psychological differences cannot be ignored. In addition, the cultural differences between them are also obvious. Ryohei Kurosawa is a typical traditional Japanese man, focusing on family, loyalty, and heirship, while Lin Chi-ling represents the modern woman, emphasizing individual freedom, equality, and family sharing.
Lin Chiling made great sacrifices and compromises in order to maintain her marriage. She gave up her career and fame to transform from a high-profile star to an obscure housewife. In order to give birth to her husband's child, she spared no effort to try IVF, experiencing more than a dozen failures and pains. In order to adapt to her husband's culture and habits, she even changed her image and behavior, becoming delicate and contrived, and flattering and humble.
Multiple motivations for marriage
Some people think that Lin Zhiling married Ryohei Kurosawa to fulfill her mother's last wish. Lin Chiling's mother passed away in 2018 and has always hoped that her daughter will start a family as soon as possible and have a happy family. In order to fulfill her mother's wishes, Lin Zhiling chose Ryohei Kurosawa, a rich and powerful man, to give her mother an explanation.
Another view is that Lin may have married in order to obtain Japanese citizenship. In Japan, she has numerous business collaborations and investments, and she aspires to expand her influence and wealth there. Ryohei Kurosawa, on the other hand, is a person with a strong background and resources that can provide her with convenience and opportunities.
It has also been suggested that Lin Zhiling may have married to escape the pressure of public opinion in China. While she has been accused of multiple scandals, controversies and involvement in Japanese activities, Ryohei Kurosawa is a low-key, private man who provides her with a relatively peaceful environment.
Give and pay
Lin Chi-ling's marriage price and reward
No matter what the motive was after marriage, Lin Chiling paid a huge price. She lost her fans in the Chinese market, lost her family and friends in Taiwan, and lost her status and honor in the entertainment industry. She got a husband, a husband who did not love her or respect her; What she got was a child she needed to bear and care for; What she had was a life that made her feel depressed and lost. Whether her happiness is real or not, we can't be sure.
Lin Zhiling's changes
Emaciation and emaciation in life
However, we can see that Lin Zhiling became thinner and haggard after marriage. In public, she has become increasingly silent and low-key, and less and less and cold on social media. Despite her beauty, intelligence, talent, and charisma, she is also a woman who deserves respect, sympathy, and concern. Whether in career or personality, she is a woman with independent choice, both before and after marriage.
Social and family pressures after marriage
Society's expectations and pressures on women
After Lin Zhiling married to Japan, she not only had to adapt to the unfamiliar environment and culture, but also had to bear the heavy responsibility of childbirth. In order to give birth, she did not hesitate to give up her career and reputation, and endured her husband's demanding and ruthlessness. But was the price she paid to have children worth it? Is the reward she receives enough for procreation?
These questions apply not only to Lin Zhiling personally, but to all women. In today's society, women not only face competition and discrimination in the workplace, but also deal with family expectations and responsibilities. Women need to strike a balance between personal development and family stability. Therefore, we should reflect on whether society's expectations and pressures on women are too high and too demanding.
We should also reflect on whether the family's support and respect for women is sufficient and fair. We should accompany women's growth and change with understanding and support, and look forward to their happiness and joy.