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In January 2021, when Lin Chiling happily announced on Weibo that she was pregnant with a child, she must not have imagined that this was just a brief moment of joy.
Because what follows will be more challenges in life.
Looking back on Lin Chiling's marriage process, it was magnificent, full of twists and turns and helplessness. In 2019, she held a warm and touching wedding in Taiwan, tying the knot with the well-known Japanese dancer Ryohei Kurosawa.
Dressed in a beautiful white wedding dress, witnessed by relatives and friends, Lin Chiling solemnly made a vow to spend the rest of her life with her beloved. That day, her face was filled with a happy smile, as if the road ahead was open.
However, the good times did not last long, and soon the news of Lin Chiling's domestic violence came out. According to reports, her whole body was covered with bruises, which looked heart-wrenching.
As soon as this news was exposed, it immediately aroused widespread attention and controversy.
Some people speculate that this may be because Lin Chiling failed to meet the Japanese family's expectations for inheriting the heir, resulting in a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which eventually turned into a tragedy of domestic violence.
Some people speculate that Lin Chiling was over forty-five years old when she entered the marriage hall, and it may not be easy to get pregnant naturally, which may also be the fuse of the conflict.
However, Lin Chiling has repeatedly denied these negative rumors. She insisted that she and her husband were in harmony and that there had never been any arguments or conflicts. However, the majority of netizens did not believe in this explanation, but became more and more convinced that the former Taiwanese goddess had suffered many setbacks in her transnational marriage.
Even though Lin Chiling made a firm denial, the troubles in her heart were still difficult to hide. It is reported that in order to be able to get pregnant smoothly, Lin Chiling froze nine precious eggs as early as before getting married.
However, even so, during the time she lived in Japan, she still failed to conceive her own child.
This undoubtedly cast a haze over Lin Chiling's life. At the same time, her husband Kurosawa was also slandered for neglecting family life for a long time and indulging in bars and nightclubs.
In the face of such challenges, Lin Chiling, who has always been alone, also felt unprecedented loneliness and helplessness.
Under the rainbow of marriage, what should have been a happy life is now shrouded in a haze. Lin Chiling's experience undoubtedly proves once again that transnational married life is not all smooth sailing, and it requires great effort and wisdom from both parties to maintain.
To say that Lin Chiling's marriage suffered a setback, in fact, it was foreshadowed many years ago. She once had a vigorous relationship with the well-known Taiwanese artist Yan Chengxu, but because of the differences in their personalities and environments, they inevitably parted ways in the end.
Back then, Yan Chengxu quickly became a popular idol in Taiwan with his outstanding performance strength and handsome appearance. And Lin Chiling also relied on her naturally tall figure and unique temperament to gradually enter the entertainment industry.
The two met unexpectedly on the road to a take-off career, and an affectionate relationship also came into being.
However, the relationship was not all smooth sailing. As Lin Chiling's career continues to rise, her social circle has become more and more extensive. As far as Chengxu is concerned, he has always maintained a restrained personality and cannot give Lin Chiling the care and care she deserves.
When Lin Chiling was injured in an accident, Yan Chengxu's panicked reaction instead caused a conflict between the two sides.
In the end, this vigorous relationship could not escape the end of the breakup. Yan Chengxu also admitted frankly in an interview later that his behavior back then was indeed too immature to give Lin Chiling the sense of security and reliance she needed.
This undoubtedly laid hidden dangers for Lin Chiling's later marriage.
After experiencing the emotional rift with Yan Chengxu, Lin Chiling did not give up the pursuit of love. Instead, she met her fiancé, Ryohei Kurosawa, during a stage play performance in 2011.
At that time, Kurosawa was in love and had a close relationship with his girlfriend. However, as time went on, the contact between the two became more frequent. Especially when Lin Chiling suffered the great pain of the death of a loved one, Kurosawa gave her great comfort with warm care and thoughtful words.
This kind of meticulous care made Lin Chiling involuntarily yearning.
Perhaps it is this kind of listening and understanding from a foreign country that makes up for the lack between her and Yan Chengxu before. Slowly, a new emotion quietly grew in the hearts of the two, and finally pushed them towards the palace of marriage.
The road of transnational love is indeed bumpy, and Lin Chiling's experience once again confirms this. From Yan Chengxu to Ryohei Kurosawa, she has experienced the ups and downs of her relationship again and again, paying an irreparable price.
However, it is these twists and turns that have taught Lin Chiling how to approach married life more maturely. She understands that it takes a lot of effort and wisdom on both sides to maintain a transnational relationship.
Perhaps it was based on this perception that she finally chose to enter the marriage hall with Ryohei Kurosawa.
After experiencing an emotional rift with Yan Chengxu, Lin Chiling finally entered the palace of marriage hand in hand with Ryohei Kurosawa in 2019. On the wedding day, Lin Chiling wore a beautiful white wedding dress and made solemn vows to her husband Kurosawa.
During the time she lived in Japan, she still failed to conceive her own child.
This undoubtedly cast a haze over Lin Chiling's life. At the same time, her husband Kurosawa was also slandered for neglecting family life for a long time and indulging in bars and nightclubs.
In the face of such challenges, Lin Chiling also felt unprecedented loneliness and helplessness.
Even though she and her husband tried their best to maintain this transnational marriage, they still couldn't completely get rid of the troubles in the end. Under the marriage hall, what should have been a happy and happy life is now shrouded in gloom.
Lin Chiling's experience undoubtedly proves once again that transnational married life is not all smooth sailing. To maintain such a transnational relationship, it takes a lot of wisdom and courage from both parties.
For Lin Chiling, who has always been in charge, this is undoubtedly a huge test.
In the face of layers of obstacles, she has also experienced vacillation and hesitation. But in the end, she chose to remain rational and determined, and firmly faced the challenges of life with her husband.
This kind of peaceful and restrained way of coping is undoubtedly admirable.
It is this perseverance that allows Lin Chiling to maintain a positive and optimistic attitude in the haze under the marriage hall. She believes that as long as she and her husband understand each other and work together, they will eventually find their own happy home.
When Lin Chiling sends a message on social platforms, it may be difficult for people to fully understand her decision. But if you think about it carefully, it is this firm determination and wisdom that enabled her to find a breakthrough in the dilemma of transnational marriage.
After all, Lin Chiling did not blindly choose to escape from reality, but took the initiative to find her own development opportunities. She understands that in order to reinvent herself in the entertainment industry, she needs to rely not only on the resources accumulated by transnational marriages, but also on her own strength and talent.
This rational and resolute choice is undoubtedly impressive. In this increasingly materialistic age, there are not many women who can make difficult decisions so wisely.
We have reason to believe that Lin Chiling will be able to rely on her own strength to once again fight for a sky of her own in the entertainment industry. After all, she once became a well-known host with her outstanding performance, which is enough to prove that she has outstanding talent and potential.
As long as Lin Chiling maintains unremitting efforts and firm determination, she will be able to create her own brilliant achievements again. This perseverance deserves to be learned and admired by all of us.
In this increasingly materialistic age, there are fewer and fewer people who can always maintain rational thinking and integrity. But it is these people with independent thinking and insight who can find the way forward in the face of adversity and finally start a new chapter in their lives.
I believe that through Lin Chiling's experience, we can also draw some valuable inspiration from it. On the road of life, no matter how difficult it is, as long as we can keep a clear mind and firm determination, we will be able to finally find our own happy home.