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Li Youbin, whose name is a household name, became famous with the anti-Japanese drama "Bright Sword". His phrase "Lao Tzu's Italian cannon" is still a classic meme to this day. When he filmed "Bright Sword", he was 46 years old, and now he is 64 years old, still struggling on the front line of the entertainment industry, and he also appeared in the recent hit criminal investigation drama "Punishment", playing Political Commissar Yan, who has been secretly assisting the protagonist to solve the case. Although there are not many scenes and the emotions are not intense, Li Youbin performs that steadiness and calmness. He is undoubtedly a successful actor.
However, in terms of family roles, he seems unsatisfactory. Li Youbin has two sons, but their treatment is very different. He left the hurt to his own son, and the stepson was treated as his own and pampered.
Li Youbin's early life was not rich, born in a well-off family in Changchun, Jilin, after his parents divorced, he and his sister lived with their father and experienced the ridicule of his classmates. Li Youbin joined the drama troupe at school and began to be exposed to acting, which became the starting point of his acting career. At the age of 16, he joined the Changchun Repertory Theater and officially embarked on the road of acting.
However, his acting career was not all smooth sailing, and after the divorce, he moved to Beijing, and he had to work hard for the sake of his family's life. After marriage, he did not perform well in family roles, and had limited care and companionship for his son, which led to the breakdown of family relationships.
Later, Li Youbin remarried, and his wife Shi Langya brought a son into his life. The relationship between Shi Langya and Li Youbin developed naturally, he showed meticulous care for Shi Langya's son, and his stepson Hanhan gradually accepted him. Although the marriage was questioned by the outside world, their happiness was not affected.
However, Li Youbin's biological son Li Xiaoke has never been able to marry, and he has developed a strong resistance to marriage and is afraid of repeating his father's mistakes. Li Youbin tried hard to introduce his son to a partner, but unfortunately, Li Xiaoke is still single.
The relationship between Li Youbin and Li Xiaoke deteriorated due to his father's neglect, and Li Xiaoke was full of disgust for marriage. Li Youbin realized the problem, but failed to take measures in time, resulting in his son remaining lonely.
Finally, Li Youbin needs to realize that in order for his son to accept marriage, he first needs to repair the father-son relationship. He should apologize to his son and do more to make up for the lack of fatherly love in childhood. Only in this way can he expect his son to go on the path of marriage and no longer be afraid.
Li Xiaoke, now close to 40 years old, is still single, which makes Li Youbin feel heartache and anxiety. He longed for the day to hold his grandson sooner, but his son's refusal to marry him was painful. Li Youbin has tried many times to introduce a suitable partner for his son, promising that the wedding fee includes a house and a car, but Li Xiaoke's dislike of marriage has never diminished. He is afraid that when he enters marriage, he will neglect the family like his father and become a hated person.
Li Youbin realized that it was not enough to persuade his son to get married. He should lead by example and be a truly responsible father and husband to show his son a proper example of marriage. However, his negligence in his family at a young age has already caused deep damage and it may take more time and effort to make amends now.
Li Xiaoke's resentment towards Li Youbin is not without reason, he lacked his father's care and companionship when he grew up, which caused his distrust of marriage. Li Youbin should stand in his son's perspective, understand his emotions, and strive to repair the damaged father-son relationship. Only when the son rebuilds trust can he be willing to consider the possibility of marriage.
While pursuing a happy marriage, Li Youbin should also remember that family is the most important thing outside of his acting career. He has worked hard in his acting career, but the maintenance of family relationships also requires the same firm determination and dedication. It is only by establishing a closer bond with his son that he can enjoy the warmth and happiness of his family in his later years, not just career success.
In short, Li Youbin's story reminds us that successful actors may not achieve the same in family life. It is important to understand the importance of family and make efforts to establish good paternity and marital relationships. Only in this way can we achieve fulfillment and happiness in both career and family. I hope that Li Youbin can realize this and create a better future for himself and his son.
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