#Autumn Life Punch Season#In this world, relying on anyone is not as good as relying on yourself, instead of expecting others not to fail you, it is better to try not to fail and wronged yourself
When a person's mind changes, virtue changes; When virtue changes, so does aura; When the aura changes, the feng shui changes; When feng shui changes, so does luck; When luck changes, so does fate.
Therefore, changing one's destiny really depends on one's own positive energy and virtuous goods.
The heart is kind, gentle, and generous, and it will be blessed, born from the heart, and the situation will be changed from the heart.
When a person has tasted it all,
The ruthlessness of society, the sinister of the human heart,
The pressure of the economy, the misery of marriage,
You will eventually realize,
Let go of obsessions and be kind to yourself.
Only by reading and making money,
is the best practice for a person,
The former makes people unconfused, the latter makes people unyielding.
- Kazuo Inamori
Material poverty can destroy your dignity throughout your life; Spiritual poverty can exhaust your reincarnation for several lifetimes. There is no road taken in vain in life, there are no books read in vain, and the words you have touched will quietly help you wipe away the superficiality and ignorance on your face, and will unconsciously help you understand the world.
If you are practicing, you must remember that you should not let anyone consume your energy, do not force others to wake up, not your loved ones, everyone has their own experience to experience, no matter who it is, if there is a chance to ask you, you can cross, if there is no chance, just watch it silently. Do not hurt people, do not hate people, be in awe, all sentient beings are equal, everyone is self-sufficient, the purpose of practice is to know the suffering of all sentient beings, not to let all sentient beings know that you are suffering, fingers have long and short, not to mention, cognition, wisdom and cultivation, allow yourself to be yourself, allow others to be others, do not practice yourself in the hearts of others, do not force others in your own heart
There are cracks in everything, and that is where the sun shines in, where the heart goes, it is the sun, and fearlessness is the distance. Not everyone can be what they want, but everyone can strive to be what they want. Believe in yourself, you can cocoon yourself, you can break the cocoon into a butterfly.
"Culture" can be expressed in four sentences:
cultivation rooted in the heart; Consciousness without reminders; freedom premised on constraints; Kindness for the sake of others.
- Liang Xiaosheng
One of the most obvious connotations of Dream of Red Mansions is:
Anyone's life ends up backfired!
The most despised thing is the drama,
In the end, he married the drama;
Qingwen most wants to be the most innocent daughter before marriage,
but was crowned with a fox spirit that had lost its body;
Welcoming spring does not seek great wealth and nobility,
Only seek peace of mind,
Quiet days every day,
but married the Zhongshan wolf, who made her the most unpeaceful;
Visiting spring is the most family-oriented,
but marry far away;
Baochi wants to help his family by marrying well,
Bitter before marriage,
But in the end, the husband's house collapsed;
Miaoyu loves cleanliness,
In the end, it fell into the dust;
Daiyu wants to be with Brother Bao the most,
In the end, it was separated from the yin and yang of brother Bao;
Baoyu most wants to stay with Sister Lin for the rest of her life,
but he worshiped Baochao;
The Jia family has high hopes for Baoyu,
Baoyu ended up being a beggar;
In short, the more persistent you think,
The heavier the fall,
There is no happiest in the world,
Only the outward looks happy.
So
Don't go and uncover people's disguise,
It was revealed that it was all the bright red blood of youth,
Gray and miserable tears in old age,
The difference between people is to die early and die late,
People who were once beautiful will also be disliked,
Of course, even if disliked,
Also find a corner,
With money or resources in your hands,
Better alive.
What does the dream of the Red Chamber want to tell the world,
The author should be an admonitor,
Don't be too attached to anything,
lest you end up hurting others and harming yourself.
/ Gossip
Kazuo Inamori said, "If you feel particularly comfortable talking to someone, it doesn't mean that the other person is your confidant. There's a good chance it's just backwards compatible with you.
Because the other party's emotional intelligence and IQ content far exceed yours, the memes you throw can be caught by the other party, and every word you say can hit your heart.
But the heart-wrenching thing is that it's just that the other party is very good, not that you are very compatible. ”
Kazuo Inamori said, "A woman who has been single for a long time cannot be chased by ordinary men. Because she is used to loneliness, can endure loneliness, and the most important thing is that she is not a casual person.
Kazuo Inamori said, "A woman who has been single for a long time cannot be chased by ordinary men. Because she is used to loneliness, can endure loneliness, and the most important thing is that she is not a casual person. She has a high self-discipline life, and generally worthless people cannot enter her eyes. That such a woman is not difficult, not complicated, but because she is simple. She likes simplicity, no scheming, no calculation. Her feelings are not only single-minded, but also mature and calm inside. What she wants is not the stars holding the moon, all she wants is someone who can understand her and will never let go of her hand. ”
Loneliness, for them, is not a burden, but a companionship. They are accustomed to spending time alone and know how to be with themselves and enjoy inner peace. In this solitude, they hone their tenacity to make themselves stronger and more independent. They are not afraid of loneliness, because loneliness is not the same as loneliness, but a state of freedom, which allows them to think more clearly about their lives.
Such a woman is difficult to be pursued by ordinary men. Because they will not be easily blinded by rhetoric and will not be attracted by the brilliance of the surface. What they need is someone who can understand their inner world, someone who can grow with them. Therefore, they have higher requirements for their feelings, and they will not invest easily, but once they are invested, they will give wholeheartedly.
