On July 23, the gymnasium of the No. 34 Middle School in Qiqihar City suddenly collapsed, taking away 11 female volleyball players and one coach, including 13-year-old Wei Yuxin.
However, after learning the news of her daughter's accident, Wei Yuxin's mother almost collapsed. She cried until she fainted at the scene, unable to accept this cruel truth. She washed her face with tears every day, broke down several times, and sometimes even fainted. How she wished it was all a nightmare, and when she woke up, her Yuxin was still by her side. Unfortunately, there is no going back.
At this sad moment, Wei Yuxin's mother made a confusing move: she attended the live broadcast room dressed up, smiling and communicating with netizens.
After this scene was seen by netizens, it immediately aroused strong disgust and condemnation. Some say she is a mother without conscience, some say she is a brainless fool, and some say she is an Internet celebrity without discipline.
They believe that she started a new life shortly after her daughter's death, did not express any condolences and thoughts for her daughter at all, and even wanted to take this opportunity to earn attention and benefits. They felt that she was irresponsible, disrespectful of life, and shameless.
However, I don't think so. I think she is a pathetic, pathetic, respectable mother.
First of all, I would like to say that she is not a mother without a conscience. On the contrary, she is a mother who loves her daughter very much.
Judging from the photos and videos posted online, she and her daughter have a deep relationship. She often buys her daughter all kinds of delicacies and cosmetics, and also prepares birthday cakes and gifts for her daughter.
At one time, she was a sunny and positive person,
But since her daughter's accident, she has become eclipsed and mentally weak.
She washed her face with tears every day, broke down several times, and sometimes even fainted.
When she finally saw her daughter's body, she could no longer recognize the once familiar face.
The daughter's head was bleeding profusely and her face was swollen badly. Looking at those familiar scars on the child's legs and hands, the mother had to accept this cruel truth, and her heart was completely desperate!
How she wished it was all just a nightmare, and when she woke up, her Yuxin was still by her side, but unfortunately, everything could not go back.
Every day, she would look at her daughter's photo and mutter: "Yuxin, your birthday is coming, do you remember the conversation with your mother that night?" I asked you what gift you wanted, and you said that just a bouquet of flowers, Mom had already planned it, and when she returned to the team, she would send you flowers and a huge cake..."
Such a scene makes people cry! How much she loved her children!
Secondly, I would like to say that she is not a brainless fool. On the contrary, she is a very intelligent mother.
She knew that in this world, no one could take her daughter's place in her heart. She also knew that no one in this society could truly understand her pain.
She knew that if she kept immersed in grief, not only would it not be good for herself, not only would she let her body collapse, but it would also make her daughter worry in heaven.
So, she chose a way she thought was best to face reality: dress up beautifully and start a live broadcast.
It's not that she forgot her daughter, or that she doesn't love her. It just means that she wants to give herself a fresh start, a new opportunity.
When it just happened, there was a touching scene, Wei Yuxin's mother wrote several letters to Wei Yuxin because she was too sad, which made people cry.
At that time, there were many warm-hearted netizens, turning into daughters, replying to Wei Yuxin's mother, comforting her, encouraging her, and telling her that her daughter was also fine in heaven.
I believe that these messages are like letters from heaven, a ray of light in her suddenly bleak life, which makes her feel a trace of comfort and hope.
Now, she has finally decided to come out, and she wants to express her emotions through live broadcasts to find her value. She wants to communicate with the outside world through live broadcasts to seek outside support. She wants to change her state through live broadcasting, to find her own happiness.
This is not an easy task. It takes a lot of courage and perseverance.
Wei Yuxin's mother is pitiful, she lost the most important person in her life, and she endured unimaginable pain for ordinary people. She needs more love and understanding, not indifference and accusation. She needs more help and support instead of being isolated and abandoned. She has the right to choose any lifestyle and get out of the grief of losing her daughter.
Remember the mother in Wuhan who was hit and killed by the Internet after being hit and killed by the Internet, I hope everyone can look at Wei Yuxin's mother with a kind and tolerant heart and give her the greatest sympathy and support.
Let us no longer be a fish with only 7 seconds of memory, pay attention to everything that happens in this world, and warm everyone who has experienced suffering in this world with love.