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Preface:
From the Golden Horse Shadow to the "Little Mistress", in her heart, how important is lust?
However, just when people thought that this actress would be dominated by "lust", her next transformation was shocking. She became a mother, a mother who could fight for her seriously ill son.
Although Qin Hailu, who is a "junior", has a very bad image in the hearts of netizens, her maternal love is moving.
The "junior superior" referred to by Qianfu
The marriage between Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing was originally as sweet and happy as a fairy couple. The two in the early days of marriage were very affectionate and had a very good relationship. However, as time went by, due to busy work, there were fewer gatherings and more separations, and some contradictions and differences gradually emerged between the two.
Tang Jing is a strong woman with a successful career, with a strong personality, sometimes with a bit of a commanding tone, while Wang Xinjun is a patriarchal machismo who hopes that he can shoulder the burden of the family. Both of them are strong personalities, difficult to give in, over time these contradictions become more and more intense, and the relationship between husband and wife has been greatly damaged.
After the relationship broke down, Wang Xinjun met Qin Hailu. Qin Hailu is a film queen with outstanding acting skills and has also made great contributions to public welfare. Wang Xinjun and Qin Hailu felt very sweet and beautiful when they got along, and the two quickly fell in love.
However, at that time, the divorce procedures of Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing had not yet been completed, and they were still legally husband and wife. Therefore, the outside world regards Qin Hailu as a "junior", thinking that she destroyed Wang Xinjun's family, and has denounced and condemned. This also caused Qin Hailu's career to plummet and suffered a great impact.
Qin Hailu felt very aggrieved. She believes that the marriage between Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing only exists in name only, and has long been out of name. She did not feel that there was anything wrong with her relationship with Wang Xinjun. But in the eyes of others, she still bears the notoriety of "junior superior".
The breakdown of Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing's marriage really has nothing to do with Qin Hailu. As a strong woman, Tang Jing has a strong personality and often speaks to Wang Xinjun in a commanding tone, making Wang Xinjun feel disrespected.
Wang Xinjun also has machismo thinking, feeling that the burden of family should be borne by men, and the two are incompatible in their life philosophy. Usually it was a small friction, which turned into a quarrel over time, and finally led to divorce.
In fact, Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing have been married for so many years, and they are no longer the same loving appearance as they were at the beginning. Work is stressful, gathering less and leaving more, lack of emotional maintenance, run-in can not show tacit understanding, and gradually drifting away is also reasonable. Their marriage can be said to have disappeared naturally, not destroyed by a third party.
When Qin Hailu appeared, the relationship between Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing had long been broken. She is just another love of Wang Xinjun's life, not the culprit of the ruined marriage. But when the legal relationship had not yet been dissolved, choosing to fall in love with Wang Xinjun made Qin Hailu bear the charge of injustice.
It's like a fairy couple
On a sunny spring in 2012, Wang Xinjun met Qin Hailu. Wang Xinjun has been divorced once before and is more cautious about feelings.
But when he met Qin Hailu, he still couldn't help but be moved. Qin Hailu is gentle and virtuous, and understanding, and Wang Xinjun feels particularly comfortable with her. So, the two began a romantic relationship.
Wang Xinjun took great care of Qin Hailu and almost treated her as a princess. He paid special attention to Qin Hailu's feelings, for fear that she would be a little wronged. What makes Wang Xinjun even more distressed is that the outside world has a lot of criticism about this relationship, saying that Qin Hailu is a third party.
Whenever this happens, Wang Xinjun will not hesitate to stand up and defend Qin Hailu's reputation in his own way. Wang Xinjun knows that the relationship between himself and Qin Hailu is pure and flawless, and the gossip from the outside world will eventually pass away with the wind.
And Qin Hailu also loves Wang Xinjun deeply. In the fall of 2013, Wang's father suffered a sudden heart attack and required hospitalization.
Wang Xinjun wanted to rush back to his hometown to take care of his father, but because of work, he only got a few days off. How is this enough? When Wang Xinjun was helpless, Qin Hailu took the initiative to ask Ying to take care of his father-in-law. She slept in the hospital escort ward at night and carefully took care of her father-in-law's living and eating during the day.
Also, Qin Hailu and Wang Xinjun originally planned to get married, but for the sake of their father-in-law, they also postponed the marriage date. When Wang Xinjun's father gradually improved, the whole family was impressed by Qin Hailu and looked at him differently.
Soon after, in the cold winter of 2014, Wang Xinjun's brother died in a car accident. At that time, Wang Xinjun was working in the field, and there were no other young and strong people in his family. This burden fell on Qin Hailu, who was busy dealing with the funeral before and after her stomach.
When Wang Xinjun heard about this, he blamed himself for not being able to rush back when his family needed it, and he was extremely grateful to Qin Hailu for his efforts. Now, Qin Hailu has added a new life to his family.
Wang Xinjun sincerely felt that he had found the best other half in the world. The two have gone through all kinds of ups and downs hand in hand, like a fairy couple.
Lucky and unlucky
In 2015, Qin Hailu faced great challenges in life. When she was nine months pregnant, she was forced to have a caesarean section, and the baby weighed 9 pounds at birth, far exceeding the 5-8 pounds of a normal fetus.
This suggests that her son may have macrosomia, a disease that threatens the health of the fetus. Qin Hailu fell into despair, and postpartum depression made her unable to take care of herself and her child.
Fortunately, her husband Wang Xinjun decisively separated the mother and son, allowing her mother-in-law to take care of Qin Hailu, while she concentrated on taking care of her son. Wang Xinjun also pushed off his job to work as a full-time cook at home, taking care of his wife and children. With the passage of time, the child's health gradually improved, and Qin Hailu's depression disappeared.
Today, the children are grown up and the photos of the family outing are full of happy smiles. Qin Hailu also talked about his experience in the variety show, saying that the most difficult time has passed. From her words, it can be seen that the family is enjoying a happy life.
Afterwards, Wang Xinjun admitted in an interview that when his son was born, he also fell into despair. A father facing a baby who may die in infancy can imagine psychological pressure.
But he realized that he could not give up lightly, and that he had to support this family. So he asked his mother-in-law to take care of the sick Qin Hailu, and he stayed by his son's side day and night, feeding carefully. Fortunately, the doctor's treatment and his careful care finally worked, and the son gradually got out of danger.
Wang Xinjun said that on the most difficult days, he always reminded himself to be optimistic and strong, so that the aura can affect the patients. He consulted a lot of information and cooked supplements for his son and wife.
He also regularly took Qin Hailu out to relax. In difficult times, they support each other without breaking down or beating themselves up, which is a collective effort of the whole family. Now that his son is healthy and healthy, Qin Hailu has completely come out of the haze, which Wang Xinjun said is the proudest achievement in his life.
Relatives and friends are also sincerely happy for them to see Qin Hailu's family regaining happiness. Qin Hailu's best friend Xiaofei said that she still remembered Qin Hailu's decadent appearance during the period after giving birth, and her heart was like a knife.
Now seeing her friend happy, Xiaofei just wants to bless her: sister, let's continue to move forward together!
Qin Hailu's neighbor's aunt also said that she often sent them fruits and vegetables, helped them with their children, and tried everything to share her pressure. Now seeing that their mother and son are safe, the aunt said that this is the best arrangement of heaven.
epilogue
The story of Qin Hailu's family tells us that even if we encounter great misfortune, as long as our families support each other, we will always usher in spring blossoms. We should cherish everyone around us who loves us, rely on our loved ones for life, and get through difficulties together, which is the secret of happiness.