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preface
Recently, Yu Chengqing and Yi Nengjing's son Harry posted a set of handsome photos on social media.
And the sentence in the accompanying text, "I am gay, I am proud of myself", exploded the entire network.
As a second-generation star, Harry dares to disclose his sexuality in full view and can be described as a warrior.
This news can't help but trigger various speculations about his sexual orientation, and everyone is very curious: How did a good boy become like this?
Harry's family of origin
As we all know, Harry's parents Yu Chengqing and Yi Nengjing divorced in 2009, ending their 9-year marriage.
Harry was only 7 years old at the time, an age that needed the love of both parents.
The impact of divorce on a 7-year-old child is huge, and his world is falling apart.
But Harry didn't know that this was just the beginning, and then bigger things were yet to come.
After the divorce, Harry lived with his father Yu Chengqing.
At first, although his parents were divorced, his father still accompanied Harry, and his mother Yi Nengjing would often come to see him, which can be said to be not yet a true separation.
In this environment, Harry's life was passable, and he did not feel abandoned.
But the good times did not last long, and then both remarried and had children, and Harry gradually became an outsider in the family.
In 2015, Yi Nengjing married actor Qin Hao, who was 10 years younger than her, and gave birth to her daughter Mi Li abroad the following year.
During this period, Harry's father Yu Chengqing was not idle, and in 2016, he married Zhang Jiaxin, a anchor of Taiwanese Mintv News Station, and also had a son and a daughter after marriage.
Parents each formed new families and had children of their own.
In comparison, Harry's son seemed redundant.
The thought of both parents having new children made Harry's heart sour.
Once, 16-year-old Harry was ill and called his father Yu Chengqing, but Yu Chengqing said that he was busy and could not come.
In desperation, he could only call his mother Yi Nengjing for help.
The reason why he contacted his father first was because Harry knew that Yi Nengjing now had a young daughter to take care of.
Yi Nengjing rushed to the hospital immediately after receiving Harry's call, and Harry also felt very warm when he saw his mother.
But this warm moment did not last long, and the nanny at home soon called, saying that Miri had been crying and fussing when she couldn't see her mother.
Hearing the crying on the phone, Harry understood his mother's difficulties, and took the initiative to let Yi Nengjing go back to take care of his sister, saying that it didn't matter if he was alone, and Yi Nengjing could only settle Harry and leave in a hurry.
This incident became the trigger for Harry's decision to go to college abroad after graduating from high school.
He feels that his presence has affected his parents' new life, so he chooses to stay away from them.
When Harry proposed to Yi Nengjing to study abroad, she was reluctant, but finally agreed to her son's decision.
In 2018, Yi Nengjing posted a mother-son photo on Weibo, saying that Harry was about to leave, and he and his daughter could only see him for half a year at a time, feeling particularly reluctant.
It also said that when Harry left that day, her daughter Migrain chased him to the elevator for the first time and hugged his thigh, which made her feel relieved and grateful.
It can be seen from this Weibo that Harry was still a kind normal boy at that time, and he also had a good relationship with his sister.
So where did Harry's great change come from today?
Perhaps, this has something to do with Harry's lack of family warmth and love when he grew up.
The new family in which his parents were busy made him a forgotten child, which brought great loss and sadness to Harry's heart.
Being uncared for by his family for a long time may lead to a gradual change in Harry's heart and a change in his sexual orientation.
It could be a rebellion in his heart, or a way to get attention.
As a neglected child in his native family, Harry's experience is really embarrassing.
If a child grows up without parental care, it will bury hidden dangers in his future development.
Publicly declare yourself gay
Harry inherited the excellent genes of his parents, not only beautiful in appearance, but also talented.
Harry has been active on many social media since he was a child, and he has left a deep impression on many netizens.
He is intelligent and capable, and he is very good at taking care of himself, which makes people sincerely admire his independence and strength.
Once abroad, Harry began to gradually show "feminine" characteristics.
He grew long black hair, wore a beautiful dress, and boldly posted these photos on social media to fully enjoy his true happiness, which was similar to the witty little Harry of the past.
At first, Harry just posted some photos of himself, but he never dared to accurately express his true thoughts.
He is introverted by nature, not good at words, and afraid of being misunderstood by netizens.
He fears being blamed or discriminated against, and fears that his choices will upset his parents.
Finally, with the encouragement of his friends, Harry officially "came out" on social media, publicly stating that he was gay, and he bravely expressed his pride.
Harry's move caused an uproar in the entertainment industry.
It takes a lot of courage to publicly declare yourself second-generation star, because in real life, there are very few people who really dare to express themselves honestly.
Public opinion has various questions about Harry's sexual orientation, and is highly concerned about the attitude of his parents Yu Chengqing and Yi Nengjing to this matter.
There were voices of support, questioning and even discrimination in the comments section.
Some netizens speculated that Harry did this for eyeballs, and some netizens worried that he would be bullied.
Harry himself showed that he was only pursuing authenticity and openness.
Although Harry feared discrimination, he continued to present his true self on social media without fear of pressure.
He began to disseminate a lot of information about the rights of sexual minorities, hoping to make it more understandable and accepted.
Some people question why Harry has homosexual tendencies, believing that it has something to do with the neglect of his parents after their divorce.
Yu Chengqing and Yi Nengjing both formed new families after their divorce and had little time to pay attention to Little Harry's needs.
This loneliness of being "forgotten" may have affected Harry's upbringing.
And Harry didn't want to add trouble to his parents because of his choices, he only wanted to get their understanding and support.
Be happy and brave and be yourself
In the eyes of his parents, Harry has always been a proud son.
Born with a handsome face, the artistic talent he showed since childhood also made his parents praise.
Harry always took the opportunity and tried to learn everything. Under the love and care of his parents, Harry also gradually grew up and gradually realized his deepest desire.
And recently Harry plucked up the courage to publicly declare his homosexuality orientation. This is no easy task for a young man and requires great courage.
Harry must have gone through all kinds of struggles and pains in his heart before he finally made up his mind to come out to the outside world.
In the process, the parents gave Harry tremendous support.
Yi Nengjing showed her deep concern for her son, she said, "Young you should be fluid, not solid, flow with the heart", this sentence conveys all the understanding and tolerance of the mother.
And Yu Chengqing even bluntly said that he would support his son's decision without hesitation, and his parents' understanding gave Harry the courage and strength to move forward.
Harry said that he didn't want to go against his heart and run away from his true thoughts, which would only bring more pain, so he decided to be his true self.
In fact, Harry's coming out has been understood and recognized by many netizens.
While homosexuality is still controversial in the eyes of many, more and more people are realizing that everyone is born free and has the right to pursue their own happiness.
As Yi Nengjing said, happiness does not distinguish between men and women, as long as they can be happy.
Harry bravely took a small step towards his heart and a big step towards society as a whole.
Everyone should have the right to be their true selves, and I believe that society will become more inclusive and open over time.
In fact, Harry's similar sexual orientation has long been no secret in the circle.
We have to admire Harry's courage, in such a society where discrimination and prejudice still exist, it is not easy to reveal your truest side.
We don't know what kind of painful choices Harry suffered, but he chose to face himself truthfully, and this courage is admirable.
Harry has appeared on the red carpet of major fashion events many times, and he is always able to navigate different styles of dressing.
Whether it's a suit or a fancy dress, Harry can wear it to the extreme.
This also confirms Yi Nengjing's statement that "Harry likes men's clothing and also likes women's clothing".
Today, Harry is more confident in his diversity, and we should appreciate his openness and inclusiveness, rather than just judging him by traditional ideas.
epilogue
Harry's brave coming out is an inspiring story of how he bravely showed his true heart despite the discriminatory gaze of society.
Many gay people grew up traumatized and lived in a backlit place, but Harry came out of this shadow, lived in the sun, and became his truest version of himself.
This is also thanks to Yu Chengqing and Yi Nengjing's tolerance and support for their son, reflecting on the importance of social diversity.
And Harry's brave deeds will affect many people, allowing everyone to walk confidently in the sun.
What do you think about this?
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