Preface:
There are no ifs in life, and if the choice made back then is made, you must face it calmly. Failure cannot define a person, only by choosing with a positive attitude can you create your own life. She interprets happiness with an alternative marriage attitude and infects everyone with a free and cheerful state of mind. When love comes, she grasps it, love is scattered and does not linger, and the life she weaves freely is the source of strength for every woman.
First, born a stunner, the girl's heart is eager to pay off debts
In 1967, a little girl named Ge Weiru was born in an ordinary family in Taiwan. His father was an English teacher, his mother died young, and his family was not wealthy. When she was a child, Ge Weiru was well-behaved and intelligent, and she was deeply distressed by her father's difficulty, and she understood at a young age that she had to try to help her father share the burden.
At the age of 12, Taiwan's entertainment industry was booming, and many television stations ran children's programs. Ge Weiru's neighbor aunt saw that she was smart and smart, so she suggested that she audition for the host of a children's program. Ge Weiru just tried it with a playful mentality at first, but unexpectedly, her natural smile and eloquence quickly impressed the director.
In this way, Ge Weiru became the host of a children's program called "Sunshine Baby". On stage, she sweetly sings, tells stories and plays games with children, and is deeply loved by children. Offstage, the income relieved the family a lot, and the smile on my father's face increased.
In order to make more money, Ge Weiru also works part-time everywhere after school. She washed dishes and delivered food, handed out flyers and advertisements, and never felt hard. The classmates went to play after school, but she was busy alone, thinking only about when she would be able to pay off her family's debts.
Her father once advised her to work less part-time and study and play. But Ge Weiru shook his head resolutely, saying that he had grown up and had to share the burden for his family. The father looked at his daughter's serious and firm face, and no longer discouraged, but just silently cheered and encouraged.
Youth is supposed to be carefree, but Ge Weiru has been working throughout her girlhood. She didn't have time to talk about youth, and her whole mind was on how to pay off her debts. Fortunately, hard work always pays off. Ge Weiru finally paid off all the debts owed by his family at the age of 20.
At this moment, looking at the relaxed smile on his father's face, Ge Weiru was so excited that tears burst into his eyes. She finally fulfilled her original intention to let her father live a debt-free and light life. At this moment, she felt unprecedented relief and relief.
Second, it became popular and married into a wealthy family after retiring
In 1991, the Taiwanese idol drama "Family with a Fairy Wife" was broadcast on major TV stations, and Ge Weiru quickly became popular with the role of "Li Pingping" and became a well-known star at that time.
At that time, Ge Wei was like a long hair and fair skin, and he was a young and beautiful girl full of vitality. The role of "Li Pingping" is also in line with her personality, lively and cute, with no obstruction, so that the audience will smile after watching it.
Overnight, Ge Weiru became the most booked popular actress in Taiwan. Her advertisements were shown on the streets and magazines were full of her photos. From a nobody, Ge Weiru has become a household star.
However, just when everyone thought that Ge Weiru would take advantage of the victory and become the next diva, she suddenly evaporated, all announcements were canceled, and the public could never see her again.
It turned out that Ge Weiru had paid off all the debts of the family and achieved the goal of becoming famous. She didn't want to waste time for Vanity Fair anymore, but chose to temporarily quit the entertainment industry and married her rich boyfriend Lin Zhilong.
Lin Zhilong is the son of a famous family in Taiwan, and has accumulated a huge fortune by managing the family business. He was handsome and golden, and he fell in love with Ge Weiru at first sight, and it didn't take much effort to chase Ge Weiru into his hand.
The wedding of the two was held with a grand fee, and all Taiwanese celebrities went to give gifts. To the outside world, this is a fairytale dream marriage. But not long after, Ge Weiru discovered that the two were seriously discordant.
Lin Zhilong spends all day entertaining and watching flowers, while Ge Weiru is trapped at home like a canary. Gradually, she could no longer bear it and chose to divorce.
Third, from difficult entrepreneurship to career recovery She faces life with optimism
Ge Weiru, who ran away with his son at the age of 34, returned to the entertainment industry, but found that the road was very difficult. She is no longer as popular as she used to be, and can only play some inconspicuous roles.
Newly divorced, her first task is to take care of her 3-year-old son and her own life. In order to stabilize the economic resources as soon as possible, Ge Weiru did not dare to be picky, and even dared to accept the roles that he absolutely did not accept in the past.
At first, she will also be sad that she fell from Red Star to this point. But for the sake of the child, Ge Weiru quickly adjusted her mentality, as long as it was a legal job, she would not shirk. Gradually, life slowly got back on track.
"I'm no longer the simple girl I used to be, these experiences have made me mature a lot." Ge Weiru began to learn to accept herself.
In the blink of an eye, my son was already in elementary school. After many years of comeback, Ge Weiru's acting skills have gradually improved, gradually regaining the love of the audience. After surviving the trough, she returned to the top of the entertainment industry again.
"Spring breeze turns into rain, autumn falls cold dew. These are the bits and pieces of life. "Today's Ge Weiru has seen a lot.
In 2002, 45-year-old Ge Weiru remarried to a businessman. After 7 years, the marriage also broke down in discord.
However, Ge Weiru is still grateful for the two marriages. "They have given me valuable growth and life experience." She no longer clings to perfection and learns to accept it with a positive attitude.
Fourth, Nirvana transforms, she lights up her life with freedom
Time has passed, and now 59-year-old Ge Weiru has long faded out of the screen, but she still lives freely. Instead of climbing as hard as she did when she was younger, she is content with life in the moment.
In 2012, Ge Weiru won the Taiwan TV Golden Bell Award for Best Supporting Actress for the TV series "We Wait for You". This is a great recognition of her acting skills. Although she is no longer the Li Pingping on the screen, she proves that she is still radiant with her strength.
In his spare time, Ge Weiru also has a small gathering with old friends. She is an avid traveler and often travels around the world alone to relax her mind. She also remains open to feelings. As long as it is someone who can accompany her, she will be grateful.
"She's single now but content. No more exhausted as you were when you were younger. The old friend said with a smile.
Ge Weiru, who no longer has too many material pursuits, enjoys the small luck in life. She infects everyone with a comfortable state of mind, which is the feeling that 59-year-old Ge Weiru feels.
She has experienced ups and downs, but has never given up her love of life. Because you have had, you learn to hug; Because you have lost, you learn to let go; I've practiced, so I learned to take it in stride. This is the essence of Ge Weiru's life.
Epilogue:
Years go by, experience and grow. You don't have to deliberately pursue perfection, experience the ups and downs of life with a positive attitude, face it calmly, smile calmly, and enjoy the bits and pieces of life, so that life can be considered complete. There is no absolute failure and success, only the courage to choose. Maybe it was possessed so she could gently put it down; She lights up her life with a comfortable state of mind, and also illuminates the heart of every woman.