Women should never expect men to love you as they first loved, because in fact, old love competes with new love, and old love is difficult to win. If he can treat you like a two-room, three-room, four-room, then it is called pampering!
Today's people, regardless of their male or female, no matter how old they are, as long as they are single, as long as their physical condition allows, they cannot bear loneliness.
The original couple, although they are also united by love. However, in the future, it is inevitable that there will be disagreements and disagreements, such as having children, firewood, rice, oil and salt, supporting the elderly, as well as children's education, buying a house and a car, and the personal relations of relatives on both sides. In the end, the family accumulated up, and both felt that this was their own sacrifice, ignoring and even contemptuous of each other's existence. And in the constant quarrel, the relationship between each other has also become cold and cold when they first got married.
Without money, women change; When you have money, men change.
In short, women looking for men again must not be willing to pay and worry as much as in the first marriage, she found that coaxing men to be happy with their mouths is better than unkempt cooking and mopping the floor; The man looked for a woman again, saying goodbye to the lonely bachelor life, making him feel that there was still a woman happy, especially a woman other than the original match, fresh and attractive.
In fact, a woman's mentality is not static. As a new woman and mother, she struggled wholeheartedly for her family, which was naturally not an easy process. Because of love, she worries about her children and nags her husband, which causes the whole family to be disgusted.
If divorced or widowed, she chooses to remarry when she enters middle age, at this time she is trying to enjoy life. Why nag with the current man? What do the children of men have to do with her? Why does she struggle to maintain the man's relatives? She doesn't have to worry about how a man's children live. Living with such a calm and gentle woman, of course, men feel comfortable, and of course they must love her.
Women want men to be loyal to you for decades from first love to old age, how hard it is!
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