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Whether Li Qinqin is resolute not to marry Chinese men and whether there is prejudice against Chinese men is a complex issue. Each person's choices and preferences have individual differences and cannot be generalized to a bias.
First of all, as an individual, Li Qinqin's choice of marriage lies with herself.
Everyone has their own values, life experiences, and emotional needs that influence their choice of marriage partner.
Li Qinqin may choose foreign men because she found a more suitable partner in her relationship, or had more contact with foreign cultures and people, which led her to be more interested in foreign men.
Second, the rumored "Chongyang" does not necessarily accurately reflect Li Qinqin's true motives.
The media and social word-of-mouth sometimes exaggerate facts or label people, leading to biased public judgment of individuals.
Moreover, the failure of the marriage should not be understood as her prejudice or resistance to Chinese men, because the success of the marriage depends on various factors, including the way the two parties get along, communication, consistency of values, and so on.
Finally, respect and understanding of personal choices is very important.
We should respect everyone's right to choose marriage and avoid excessive interference and over-interpretation of the choices of others. As an adult, Li Qinqin has the right to decide who he marries, whether it is a foreign man or a Chinese man, he should be respected.
In short, we cannot simply attribute Li Qinqin's marriage choice to prejudice or equate it with "Chongyang" behavior. Everyone's choices are complex and diverse, and need to be premised on understanding and respect.
Three transnational loves have all failed, what is Li Qinqin's pursuit of love?
In an interview, Guo Degang couldn't help but mock: "Li Qinqin was young and beautiful, and countless people fell for it, but I never had the opportunity to meet her!" ”
Although in the drama now, Li Qinqin's role is mostly an evil and desperate aunt, but in fact, she herself was born in Beijing and has attracted attention with her beautiful appearance since she was a child. There are always many suitors around.
Once, she wore an ordinary plaid skirt and held an umbrella, which immediately attracted the attention of many people, and some even stared at her for a long time, admiring and praising the girl's appearance as really beautiful.
Even when classmates recalled Li Qinqin more than ten years after graduation, they would say that they wanted to marry her and go home.
However, these people all missed her, because Li Qinqin's heart yearned not to stay in China.
Her first husband was Yamane, a young journalist from Japan.
The two met on a flight. At that time, the two happened to be sitting together, and Yamane was attracted by Li Qinqin's beauty and couldn't help but want to take a picture of her.
Li Qinqin's straightforward personality made her pull him for a photo without hesitation, and this photo became the beginning of their love.
After arriving in Japan, Yamane helped Li Qinqin adapt to life, and because Yamane himself was full of affection for Chinese culture, the two had many topics in common.
After several contacts, the two established a deep relationship. Li Qinqin believes that love has no borders, as long as you like it, you should follow your heart's choice without hesitation.
Therefore, just two months later, Li Qinqin and Yamane entered the palace of marriage.
Li Qinqin's actions made his father angry. Not only because Yamane is Japanese, but more importantly, Yamane is more than 40 years older than her, and the gap between her and the young and beautiful Li Qinqin is too great, and her marriage choice is seen as self-defeating.
However, it didn't take long for Li Qinqin to fall into a situation of regret.
"I was really emotionally excited."
After marriage, it was a critical period when Yamane was committed to career development, which prevented him from accompanying Li Qinqin often.
Subsequently, Li Qinqin gave birth to their child, but Yamane did not even have time to accompany her during confinement.
Because he is not familiar with the foreign environment, coupled with the fact that her husband is often not around, Li Qinqin can't stand it.
She thinks that Yamane only cares about her career and does not take her seriously at all. Therefore, she took the initiative to file for divorce.
Yamane respected her decision and finally gave the child to Li Qinqin to raise.
However, when Li Qinqin left the house, Yamane told her that perhaps in a few years, she would find that this ordinary life was the best choice.
Unexpectedly, Yamane's words became a reality, and Li Qinqin found out that he was too impulsive when he divorced after the divorce.
Although Yamane has an honest and boring personality, she is very suitable for a hot-tempered person like her.
However, when she takes her son to seek reunion, she discovers that Yamane has died in a car accident.
Hit hard, she returned home with her son. My father looked at Li Qinqin, who was heartbroken, and thought that after she experienced a failed and sad marriage abroad,
I should be able to find a man to marry in China. Unexpectedly, when she arranged a blind date, she fell in love with an American man.
That American man was undoubtedly handsome and rich, and more importantly, fell in love with Li Qinqin at first sight, and was very good to her and her son. It was he who helped Li Qinqin through the most difficult period, and eventually the two married in the United States.
Li Qinqin's marriage ended in failure, mainly because she found out after marriage that she and her husband were not suitable at all.
The cultural differences between the two countries doomed them to make it difficult for them to get along.
Li Qinqin is a hospitable person, and once she shared her hometown dishes with neighbors, but her husband thought that this ordinary little thing was important.
The husband believes that she does not know how to measure and even fears that her behavior will have a bad influence on the neighbors, which will lead to the problem of legal liability.
Li Qinqin was originally very happy, but her husband's cynicism disappointed her, and she realized that the relationship between the two had no future, so she chose to divorce.
Later, she met a man from France.
Although this man is romantic and often surprises her, he has a serious desire for control.
And Li Qinqin is not a person who likes to be bound, and soon could not bear the relationship and chose to break up.
Some people questioned Li Qinqin's experience of marrying a Japanese, marrying an American, and falling in love with a Frenchman.
They thought that Li Qinqin was a person who pursued foreign temperament, looked down on Chinese men, and even spread rumors that she would never marry Chinese.
"Why is Li Qinqin so obsessed with pursuing foreign men?
This question may be puzzling, but the reason goes back to her personal experience.
In an interview, Li Qinqin revealed that his love for foreign men stems from their simple, romantic qualities.
When asked if she considered Chinese men, she responded firmly: "It is impossible to marry a Beijing man!" ”
Although Li Qinqin loves foreign men and is prejudiced against Chinese men, this cannot be completely called "admiring foreign countries".
The real reason for the formation of Li Qinqin's concept is closely related to her father and first love.
Since childhood, Li Qinqin's father, as a veteran, was extremely strict with his children's education and did not show any softness.
Like other children, Li Qinqin also likes to lie in bed. However, her father took a tough wake-up call and even gave her a few slaps directly to wake up the stubborn her.
At the same time, his father also attached great importance to the concept of male superiority and female inferiority, and planned her life path for Li Qinqin early on, sending her to the volleyball team, hoping that she could pursue the same brilliant achievements as Lang Ping.
However, contrary to his father's expectations, Li Qinqin is tall, but he has no talent for volleyball, and he cannot complete the training requirements at all. She couldn't even touch the ball on the field and was often scolded by her coach.
Faced with this situation, Li Qinqin often cried and expressed his willingness not to continue learning volleyball.
However, her father could not understand her feelings and only thought that she was making excuses.
After that, Li Qinqin failed to enter the volleyball academy. After her father observed her outstanding appearance, he had to make her a registered clerk in the hospital, hoping to step into a stable career track and have an iron rice bowl.
However, this kind of life is not what Li Qinqin yearns for. Due to the frequent quarrels between the two, her stern father always scolded and physically punished her, and even verbally threatened to "break your leg" as a means of intimidation.
These bad family experiences left Li Qinqin with many painful memories.
Therefore, she is determined to never contact machismo men again. However, her first relationship ended in failure, further deepening her antipathy towards Chinese men.
Li Qinqin encountered many problems when she was with her first love.
First love is a Beijinger who likes to talk about things and often hurts Li Qinqin with hurtful words. Li Qinqin feels that he cannot be compared with his first love, because his first love is always complicated and likes to calculate, while Li Qinqin is a big grinning person and can't bear it.
What makes Li Qinqin even more sad is that her first love likes to denigrate her interest in PUA.
Every time Li Qinqin shares her happy things with her first love, her first love can always find out her mistakes and make her feel worthless.
The first love required Li Qinqin to maintain noble conduct, but he was eventually cheated and discovered by Li Qinqin.
This love experience made Li Qinqin have a bad impression of Beijing men and some prejudice against Chinese men.
But this is not because of prejudice against Beijing men or Chinese men, but because her first love hurt Li Qinqin, causing her to develop a rejection of men.
In fact, if Li Qinqin can meet a good person, she is also willing to marry a Chinese man and have children.
However, Li Qinqin caught up with the trend of going abroad and was keen to go abroad.
After Li Qinqin became a hospital registrar, there was an endless stream of people who came to the hospital to register, mostly men, all to see Li Qinqin's beauty.
Among them, a producer of the "Beijing Story" crew was attracted by Li Qinqin's beauty when she registered, so she was invited to participate in the audition for "Beijing Story".
Coincidentally, Li Qinqin has always dreamed of becoming an actress, but because her father is too strict, she has never had the opportunity to realize her dream. This time, Li Qinqin decided not to miss this opportunity again.
Therefore, despite the crowd on the audition floor, among which there were many girls who looked better than her, Li Qinqin did not feel afraid or discouraged. For her, it's just an attempt.
During the audition, she was lively and cheerful, answering questions smoothly.
In the end, the director chose her. As a Beijing girl, she is exactly the person they expect.
Since then, Li Qinqin has become the heroine of "Beijing Story" and stepped into the entertainment industry.
As her name suggests, Li Qinqin is really very diligent. Because she knew she had no professional training, she studied hard. In addition to learning from her predecessors, she also began to prepare for the Beijing Film Academy.
At first, her father didn't agree with her choice.
He felt that Li Qinqin was just a momentary interest, and gave up a good stable job to engage in this unstable job.
It may be because she has grown up, or it may be that Li Qinqin is finally fed up with being controlled by her father, and she finally insisted on her decision and was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy through hard work.
During that time, she was hard working and energetic, and many directors invited her to audition, so she had a wealth of resources.
After "Beijing Story", she also participated in the movie "Murder of the Silver Snake" directed by Li Shaohong.
If everything develops smoothly, Li Qinqin's star path will definitely be smooth sailing. However, at that time, she made a bold decision - to study abroad.
At that time, many actors chose to study acting abroad, and Li Qinqin was also influenced by this trend of going abroad.
Once Li Qinqin, who was young and full of fighting spirit at that time, had this idea, he could not suppress it.
After Li Qinqin went abroad, he stayed abroad for 5 years. At the best time when she was thinking about getting married and starting a family, she had little contact with Chinese men.
However, five years later she returned to China, and due to the failure of several marriages abroad, she no longer thought about love, but began to desperately earn money to support herself and her son.
People's evaluations of Li Qinqin can be described as mixed. Her decision, while regrettable, was also the result of careful consideration.
In order to support her son, she chose to find a different way, choosing to play the role of a vicious woman despite being young and beautiful.
One of the years, she participated in "Dear Child", which was a huge success.
She plays Xiao's mother in the play, wearing a floral shirt and holding a bubble noodle head on her head, interpreting this big, straightforward and kind character vividly. The audience is both angry at what she has done and will feel pity for her mother-in-law.
In real life, Li Qinqin is equally straightforward and frank. She was once exposed to plastic surgery, and this is a topic that the majority of actresses avoid. However, she openly supports actresses in fine-tuning their appearance, and confesses that she also injects beauty methods such as botulinum toxin in order to stay young.
In addition, she also caused heated discussions about packing leftovers.
She did not hide her star identity and bluntly said that it would be a waste not to bring it back to eat.
She has never considered herself a star, only that she is an ordinary single mother.
When acting, she only asks for a box lunch, and does not care about the size of the character.
It is precisely because of this hearty Beijing girl that she has successfully played many roles that people envy, but still won the love of the audience.
Although Li Qinqin has married foreigners many times, it can be seen from her way of doing things that she has always been an old Beijinger.
Perhaps she once regretted her original decision, but now she has lived a full and happy life.
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