In the traditional sense, having children means happiness. The more children a family has, the happier the family will be. This has led to many young couples being pressured by their elders to have a second child.
Good things come in pairs. The twin daughter became popular for hugging his twin brother. Netizens were envious and thought that this was a double happiness, but parents felt a lot of pressure.
Both Xiaoxiao and her husband are ordinary employee families. Their wages are not high, but they are enough to support the couple and their daughter twins. The old man in the family had feudal thinking and felt that many children were blessed, so he strongly advised Xiaoxiao to have a second child.
Xiaoxiao did not resist the pressure of her elders and decided to have a second child. I didn't expect to have a second twin baby, but this time it was a twin son! The family's financial situation suddenly took a back seat.
On a rare weekend, Shinoxiao took her four children to go shopping. The daughter twins hugged their twin sons. Xiaoxiao recorded the hot scene with her mobile phone and posted it on her social media platform.
Soon, the news of "twin sisters hugging twin brothers" went viral, attracting the envy of netizens, and they left messages saying that the parents of the four children were twice as happy.
But Xiaoxiao smiled bitterly when he saw these remarks. The family of two twins is not as glamorous as it may seem to outsiders, but it is a huge burden.
Since the second eldest is also a twin, no matter how frugal the Xiaoxiao couple is, they can't afford to eat four "four-legged golden beasts", which makes the family's expenses very tight. This also proves that having more children at home is not necessarily a good thing.
(1) The family is under great economic pressure
Nowadays, children are nicknamed "four-legged gold-eating beasts" on the Internet. This is the affirmation of parents' ability to spend money on their children, and it is also helplessness in life. After the birth of a child, parents always want to give their children the best, and they are also worried that poor quality products will affect their health, so what they use for their children is guaranteed. The cost of raising children worries many parents. If there are more children in the family, the financial pressure on the family will also increase.
(2) Parents spend more energy
A child's growth does not happen overnight. The development of a child requires parents to invest time and energy in guidance and education. Taking care of children already takes up most of a parent's time. The more children, the more energy parents have to spend. And parents should also be careful when raising their children and treat them the same.
(3) Children are prone to conflict. When there are too many children, conflict is inevitable. Two peers with good relationships often have conflicts, not to mention young and ignorant children? The reason for a child's conflict is simple: it could be toys, snacks, or even something that parents like. If there are too many children, the house can easily become a playground, which is very inconvenient.
When parents have children, they need to consider their actual financial situation and how many children they can support. Don't blindly follow the advice of others and think that having more children is a blessing. No matter how many children there are in the family, it is a blessing for parents to educate their children.