Netizen contribution: I accidentally spilled soup on my boyfriend's computer, and as a result, he asked me to compensate him at the original price, is it too much #emotion##情侣#
Hello, I saw the chat history between you and Xiaoming, as well as the price of salted fish. I sympathize with your experience and want to help you evaluate, but I am not a legal expert and do not know the relationship between you, so I can only give you some of my opinions and suggestions, you can refer to.
First of all, I think Bob's approach is indeed a bit excessive, he should know that the computer will depreciate, and it is unreasonable for him to ask you to compensate him at the original price. Moreover, he did not communicate with you in person, so he quietly left, and then sent you WeChat to make a request, which is also very disrespectful to you. If he truly loves you, he should be able to be considerate of your mistakes instead of using the opportunity to blackmail you.
Secondly, I think you should have a good talk with him, tell him your thoughts and feelings, and let him know that you did not mean to break his computer, nor were you unwilling to compensate him, but felt that he was too demanding. Maybe he doesn't really want that much money, but wants to test your feelings for him or wants to take the opportunity to break up with you. If this is the case, then you have to consider whether it is worth wronging yourself for such a person.
Finally, I think you should maintain a calm and rational attitude, and don't get excited or sad about it. After all, this matter is not an unsolvable problem, as long as both parties communicate and negotiate in good faith and rationality, a reasonable and fair solution will always be found. Moreover, this matter will not change your value and confidence in yourself, nor will it change your expectation and pursuit of love. As long as you stick to your principles and bottom line, you will be able to find someone who truly loves and respects you.