Netizen contribution: I have been with my girlfriend for more than two years, and this time I took my girlfriend to meet my parents because I participated in a small wedding, but my mother doesn't seem to like her #Challenge 30 days to write a diary in the headline ##情感#
Thank you for sharing your story with me, I can understand your feelings and confusion. You have a good relationship with your girlfriend, and she is also very sensible, but your mother is a little dissatisfied with her, feeling that she will not live and is not suitable for you. This makes you stressful and don't know what to do.
I think there are two main aspects to your problem: one is the financial gap between you and your girlfriend, and the other is the communication problem between you and your mother.
For the first aspect, I don't think you have to care too much about the financial gap between you and your girlfriend, because feelings are not measured in money. Your girlfriend treats you well and doesn't dislike the conditions in your home, which shows that she genuinely likes you and doesn't fancy your money. You are also willing to be kind to her, although you can't give her a very expensive gift, but give more, which also reflects your heart. I think it's good that as long as two people love and respect each other, they can live happily together.
For the second aspect, I think you need to communicate more with your mom so that she can understand your girlfriend's true character and strengths. Your mother may be afraid that you will be wronged or bullied in the future, so she will have some prejudice against her girlfriend. In fact, your girlfriend does not deliberately spend money lightly, but because she does not understand local customs and wants to express respect and gratitude to you and your family and friends. If you can explain this to your mother and let her know that your girlfriend is a kind, generous, and considerate person, not a spoiled lady, I think my mother will slowly change her opinion.
In short, I suggest that you do not give up the relationship between you and your girlfriend easily, and do not have conflicts with your mother. You should spend more time and effort maintaining and developing both relationships so that they can both feel loved and respected by you. I believe that as long as you have sincerity and patience, you will eventually get their understanding and support. Bless you!
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