One afternoon in 2022, a small video uploaded by a certain owner caused an uproar in the group. This short six- or seven-minute video doesn't cause much discussion, but the content of this video is extraordinary.
However, while everyone was discussing it in a uproar, the group leader dissolved the group chat. It turned out that the person who uploaded the video was the owner, Ms. Wu, and the content of the video was her own indecent video, but what made people talk about was that the hero in the picture was not her husband.
The inner part of a loving marriage
Ms. Wu married her husband and successfully entered the palace of marriage, and since then, the husband and wife have been in love with each other.
Ms. Wu is responsible for taking care of the housework, not only that, but she is also an excellent kindergarten teacher. She is beautiful, gentle and generous, patient and responsible for children, loved by children and respected by parents, and is also quite famous in terms of how to behave in the world.
Ms. Wu's husband, Mr. Chen, is responsible for working outside the home, he works in a company in a key position, has strong work ability, and is a typical rich and handsome man with a successful career. The two are very good in the eyes of outsiders, not only handsome men and beautiful women, but also complementary temperaments.
Neighbors can often see the little couple holding hands and going out to work, and the woman will be very considerate to sort out the man's clothes, tell him to be careful of the car on the way to work, and remember to eat lunch well.
Men will also send women to the office when there is enough time, telling her to stop and rest if she feels tired, and her husband will support you.
After work, the two would buy vegetables and cook together, and after eating, they would walk hand in hand in the nearby park to welcome the sunset of the sun. What outsiders can't expect is such a happy marriage, but the inside is gradually decaying and decaying, and the building will fall.
As Mr. Chen's position has changed, he has become more and more busy, in addition to the fact that he is often traveling because of the needs of the company's business. As a result, the working hours have increased greatly, while the time spent living is becoming less and less, and the time spent with the family is even less.
Ms. Wu often complained that Mr. Chen did not have time to accompany her, the two could not eat and walk together, and the movie she wanted to watch was also released because of Mr. Chen's repeated refusals and lack of time. What made her feel even more angry and helpless was that Mr. Chen always refused to make out with Ms. Wu because he was too tired.
Ms. Wu felt Mr. Chen's coldness but could not help it, he fought so hard for the family, but at the same time, as a wife, she often stayed alone in the empty room, not without complaints. The atmosphere in the family is getting sluggish and tense.
In the siege it is written - marriage is a city, those outside want to go in, and those inside want to come out. This sentence is no exception for Ms. Wu. She also sometimes fantasizes that if she is not married at this time, then she can pursue the good men around her. Find those who have a lot of time to go on dates, eat and watch movies with her to relieve the loneliness in her heart.
But by this time she was married, and as a wife, she had to abide by morality and do everything a wife should do.
But the matter did not end there, Ms. Wu's unit has a new male colleague, this colleague is tall and handsome, gentle and considerate, and also cares for Ms. Wu. His humor instantly attracted Ms. Wu, and also made Ms. Wu come out of the sluggish atmosphere for many days and become revitalized.
This colleague Xiao Wang also has a good impression of Ms. Wu because of her generosity and sincerity, often asking her out to dinner, listening to her and herself talk about her troubles, and sometimes the two of them will go to the movies alone.
In this way, in the name of friends, the relationship between the two people is getting deeper and deeper, the opportunities to get along alone are increasing, and the understanding of each other is richer.
In this way, 520 arrived, the streets were covered with flowers, the streets of the mall began to shout, and young couples began to plan their dates.
Ms. Wu is also full of expectations and invites her husband on this day to spend the festive season with him. Ms. Wu prepared the meals and pastries that Mr. Chen always loved, but Mr. Chen still did not return home.
He said that he could not rush back in time from a business trip, so he could only comfort Ms. Wu on the other end of the phone and promised to go home to compensate her. Disheartened, Ms. Wu looked at the empty home and dialed her colleague Xiao Wang's phone under her husband's cold for several days.
Xiao Wang came to Ms. Wu's home with flowers and gifts, and Ms. Wu's grievances and anger for many days were finally poured out at this moment. Faced with Xiao Wang's considerate care, Ms. Wu broke the window paper between the two.
When the desire is vented, Ms. Wu seems to return to the time when she was in love, becoming delicate and moving, cute and charming.
She even used her mobile phone to record the tense but fiery "love" between her and Xiao Wang. At this moment, she forgot her responsibilities as a wife, she was just her, a normal person with desire.
However, she did not know that this "loving" video would put her in prison and fall into a place of irreparable disaster.
Reputation and career ruined
Not long after the two separated, Ms. Wu chatted with Xiao Wang while cleaning up the mess at home. Chatting about Xiao Wang, he suddenly wanted to see the video he had just recorded, so he asked Ms. Wu to send him the video. Ms. Wu was busy with the work at hand and casually sent him the video. Unexpectedly, Ms. Wu's launch caused an uproar, and she accidentally posted the video into the community owner group.
However, when she finally realized that she had made this mistake when she was free to check her phone, she had already missed the golden 120 seconds that could be withdrawn. She felt bad and panicked.
The heated discussion in the owner group has long been chaotic, and Ms. Wu is more worried about her husband who is also in the group than the gossip and malicious discussion in the owner group.
Ms. Wu hurriedly added the group owner's WeChat account and asked him to disband the group in case her husband saw the video.
However, the group owner told her that even if WeChat dissolved the group chat, it would save the previous chat history, and the group owner refused to disband the group. Ms. Wu could only force her to die, and he finally compromised.
After all, the paper could not contain the fire, and it was no surprise that Mr. Chen still saw a small video of his wife's cheating in the records kept by the group. What's even more egregious is that some people in the group have saved the video and posted it to other websites, and some people have begun to physically attack Ms. Wu.
This matter is getting bigger and bigger, and Ms. Wu's identity information has also been revealed by people with intentions, which has a great impact on her work.
In the end, the kindergarten where Ms. Wu worked could only be dismissed in order to prevent the incident from fermenting and causing a bad impact on the park. And immediately announced on the Internet that he and Ms. Wu had terminated their labor relationship to reduce their losses.
And Mr. Chen's side also handed Ms. Wu a divorce agreement after careful consideration, and the matter has reached this point, and it is difficult for this precarious marriage relationship to continue. Mr. Chen never imagined that his wife would cheat behind his back, and made this matter known to everyone.
Obviously he is half the protagonist of the incident, but he still knows in the last step that he is at the center of public opinion and has become the talk at everyone's dinner table.
As a man, he could not accept this fact, and he was not moved by Ms. Wu's pleas and repentance. His heart has long been broken, and now he just wants to end this ironic marriage.
Ms. Wu made a mistake and did not cheat in the marriage, she did not timely confide her accumulated dissatisfaction and resentment with her husband to discuss a solution to the two people, but chose a third person outside the marriage to spend her loneliness.
What is even more wrong is the people who saved Ms. Wu's video and spread it outside, they violated Ms. Wu's privacy, attracted the keyboard warriors on the Internet to criticize Ms. Wu, and used the banner of justice to author things that hurt others, so that they are not messengers of justice, but hidden criminals.
It is illegal to distribute other people's private videos, not to mention that rebroadcasting them on major platforms violates the law of spreading obscene videos. Those keyboard warriors who insulted and insulted Ms. Wu even damaged Ms. Wu's right to reputation.
Act analysis
Did the owners in the owner group who saved Ms. Wu's private video violate the law? What kind of legal responsibility should I bear? Is it illegal for Ms. Wu to upload private videos in the group herself?
Ms. Wu's private videos were saved and intentionally circulated on the Internet. This act violated Ms. Wu's privacy and attracted discussion and abuse from others, which constituted the crime of spreading obscene materials and required legal responsibility. The video uploaded by Ms. Wu herself cannot be regarded as illegal, only contrary to morality.
However, if she intentionally posted this video or did not process the video in this incident, but allowed others to forward and spread it, it also constitutes the crime of spreading obscene materials.
According to Article 42 of the Public Security Administration Punishment Law, repeatedly sending obscene, remorseful, intimidating or other information, interfering with the normal life of others; Detention for up to 5 days or a fine of up to 500 RMB: where the circumstances are more serious, detention for not less than 5 days but not more than 10 days may be imposed concurrently.
According to article 364 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China, where the circumstances are serious, those who disseminate obscene books, periodicals, films, audio-visual recordings, pictures or other obscene materials shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than two years, criminal detention or surveillance.
Is cheating in second marriage considered a violation of the law? If the other party cheats in marriage, how can we protect our rights and interests?
Marital infidelity is not a violation of the law, it can only be regarded as a moral deficiency. However, there are also special circumstances, such as the cheating party living with a third person in the name of husband and wife, and everyone around them defaults to their husband and wife, then the guilty party may constitute the crime of bigamy and will face criminal punishment.
According to Article 1091 of the Civil Code, the new article "the innocent party who has other serious faults that lead to the divorce has the right to claim damages" This article can increase the scope of compensation for the innocent party in the event of divorce, and the guilty party needs to pay a greater price.
In addition, the other half of the marriage must be calm and calm, and save the evidence of the other party's cheating in time.
It also obtains the wrongdoer's chat records, transfer records, call records, private photos, etc. of the third party during the marriage through legal means.
Sort out the joint property debts of the husband and wife during the marriage, and then draft a divorce agreement through a lawyer to reasonably claim compensation from the other party.
In the marriage relationship, trust between husband and wife is crucial, if they suspect each other, then such a marriage is easy to break down, and communication is even more critical.
Communication is the exchange of ideas between two people, husband and wife will tell each other their hearts, their needs need to communicate with each other, you know what the other party wants, where to do not do well will be very targeted, so that in daily life can reduce contradictions.
Running a marriage is difficult, and being a person is a long way off. Take care of your own family affairs, do not discuss other family mistakes, and create a harmonious and beautiful society.
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