Hello everyone! I'm Haoyuan's mother

In elementary school, children rarely seem to care about their appearance, dressing and other external images.

But in junior high school, as children grow up day by day and enter adolescence, you will find that children will pay special attention to their external image, perhaps this is growth.

Especially girls, not only do they not allow themselves to eat too fat, but even if they have a hairstyle every day, they must be carefully designed.

The strange phenomenon of hairstyles in junior high school: There are thousands of hairstyles, but the "catfish head" hairstyle is the most popular

The day before yesterday, I went to a parent-teacher meeting for my brother, just in time for the junior high school children to finish school, and I noticed a very strange thing.

These little girls almost all wear the same hairstyle - "catfish head" hairstyle.

Looking at these energetic children, I can only sigh that I am old haha.

Think about your hairstyle as a child, either with two high braids, low ponytails, or twisted braids.

I remember that high ponytails were not very popular in elementary school, but after junior high school, hairstyles began to increase relatively more.

But whether it is elementary school or junior high school, any hairstyle is combed smoothly.

I remember when I was in elementary school, before my mother braided me, I would use a comb to dip it in water, which could prevent frizz in my hair.

If you go home with a mess of braids and a few strands falling, your mother will say gently: You look like a little madman. Hey

Today's children seem to prefer this "messy" feeling.

For example, the "catfish head" hairstyle in the hearts of children is now popular, and it seems that it is not enough to let the hair fall a few strands.

Why do today's children love the "catfish head" hairstyle so exclusively?

Ma Shengjuni's niece gave me 3 answers:

1: The "Catfish Head" hairstyle saves time and effort

My niece said that such a hairstyle can be done without a comb.

Moreover, after entering junior high school, the study time is relatively tight, and this hairstyle is easier to tie up, so that the time saved can be memorized words.

2: Reduce the burden on the scalp

The high ponytail does make people look very energetic, but the hair has to be tied tightly to produce the effect, which is really a pain in the scalp.

The "catfish head" hairstyle is more loose, the scalp is relaxed, and it does not hurt the hair.

3: Can modify the shape of the face

Not to mention, my niece's big face plate, tied this hairstyle really looks a lot smaller.

In the words of my niece, "This is a hairstyle that does not pick a face".

In this way, this hairstyle is indeed good, but many more traditional parents are still not very comfortable with such a hairstyle.

How to get parents to accept this hairstyle?

Parents don't accept this hairstyle, probably because they are more traditional (like me haha), and because they think this hairstyle looks messy.

1: Everyone's aesthetics are different, and their acceptance of things is also different.

As parents, we can change our own thoughts a little, after all, children are in adolescence, and at the same time have some ideas of their own.

As long as it's not particularly "killing Matt", we also have to learn to accept it.

2: Popular is allowed, as long as the school allows, the description is acceptable.

3: Children have their own choices without affecting learning.

When children reach junior high school, they generally care about the image, as long as it is not too excessive, we should be happy for the child without affecting learning and life.

As parents, we sometimes need to think from the perspective of our children, do not interfere too much, and at the same time, have a heart to "keep pace with the times".

As a student, it is okay to pursue fashion, but after all, the main task is to learn.

Children should still maintain a positive, lively and healthy attitude, and focus more time and energy on learning and self-improvement.

Do you approve of your child's "catfish head" hairstyle? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area!