"Food color, sex too." The words came out of "Mencius Jiezi Shang".
In fact, color is not an ugly concept, but has been distorted by traditional backward culture for a long time, and people's subconscious is always easy to associate it with evil, and there is the so-called "ten thousand evil fornication as the head"; In fact, it is as absurd as seeing hunger and thirst as evil. If it is really "ten thousand evil and adulterous people", then those feudal emperors are the biggest evil people in the world, because they blatantly "three palaces and six courtyards" and "three thousand beautiful harems", not to mention those princes who will have wives and concubines in groups ...
- That is a typical "double standard": "only the governor is allowed to set fires, and the people are not allowed to light lamps." ”
The so-called "ten thousand evil and adulterous people" is just a dongdong to deceive and fool the people, especially the blood and tear shackles that have been put on weak women for thousands of years...!
The realization of color requires the guidance and regulation of morality; Only when it is associated with morality does it have the meaning of judging good and evil. Color, a gift from heaven, is itself innocent, just like people's diet. The evil is always only man himself; You can't add guilt to the temptation of food because you steal someone else's food because you don't choose food. The so-called "red face and misfortune" is just another absurd version of this prejudice - it is King Shun and Li Longji who are guilty, not Zhao Yao and Yang Yuhuan!
From a certain point of view, color is actually a manifestation of vitality and an important part of vitality. It is usually the most basic element that makes up love and marriage. The most complete love and marriage is the most perfect double fit of color (sex) and spirit. The addition of sufficient spiritual factors, many times, even if the sexual (sexual) factors are not perfect, can make the marriage last; This is not the case with pure sexual marriages, which can lead to the instantaneous dissolution of the marriage.
But in some people, sex becomes the only thing, the only purpose of "love" and marriage for those people. Some womanizers, they are the beggars of good humanity in the spiritual realm, and they are often pale, selfish and cold in the spiritual realm. - Where is there any warmth to talk about?
What they seek is nothing more than their own personal color (sexual) gratification - basically no different from animals, like the animals we often see in the jungle. Driven by the burning of their own desires, they will stop at nothing and use rhetoric to deceive; But once the goal is achieved, after gradually cooling down in the heat of venting, they will return to their original ugly appearance, like a different person, and then go to find and go to the next target.