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preface
She was once a sister of CCTV, with elegant temperament and infinite scenery, once charmed Uncle Benshan and became a goddess in the hearts of countless men in the 90s.
Now in front of the camera, he frankly said: "If there is an afterlife, I don't want parents, nor children, let alone a family." ”
Ni Ping's bumpy life has made countless people sigh, his life can be said to have suffered all the hardships of the world, why is the road to the goddess so difficult?
Ni Ping was once the CCTV leader Hua Dan in the 90s, and her gentle and intellectual image appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, showing Guotai Minan.
A smile touched the hearts of countless audiences, but such a goddess experienced three unsatisfactory marriages.
The short-term first marriage laid the foundation for CCTV
Speaking of her first marriage, when she first started working at the age of 23, she hurriedly married a colleague in the theater, when the relationship between the two was very flat, their personalities were not very compatible, and there was no emotional basis to speak of.
Such sloppiness is just because of the lack of family love since childhood, so he hastily married this man, eager to make up for the lack of his childhood in the future with the warmth of his own family.
Ni Ping has always been enthusiastic about her hosting career, and has also put a lot of time and hard work into it.
Finally, she was selected by CCTV and became a CCTV host, and the common topic between the two became less and less, which eventually led to the end of this marriage, and the two ended the marriage in a peaceful way.
After the divorce, she went to Beijing alone, and now he has no worries, devotes himself to his career, and has started his hosting career of more than ten years on CCTV.
It is such an experience that has created the elegant temperament and intellectual gentleness on the screen, which has become synonymous with a generation of memories of the central television hosting industry, creating one classic moment after another.
This short and meaningless marriage, which did not deal him a blow, was nothing more than a small episode for her.
With her ability, how can she be trapped by a love?
Not to mention an inappropriate and ephemeral existence!
It can be described as frustrated in the love scene, proud of the mall, and she has done a better job of hosting after the divorce.
Variety shows, Spring Festival Gala hosting, actor career, none of them have fallen, and they have done well.
From a variety show to the hosting of a Spring Festival Gala, it only took her a month to be able to do this.
At the same time, she did not give up her career as an actor, and made several movies in succession, and the response was very good, so that more audiences liked this intellectual "big sister".
A brief love affair with Guo Da
She was in her thirties, and then she met Guo Da at work.
In the eyes of the outside world, the two are not a good match, Guo Da's appearance is full of humor, and she cannot be compared with her gentle and elegant.
But Guo Da's talent made Ni Ping's heart moved, and the two soon fell in love.
When she reached middle age, she began to yearn for the warmth of her family again, and this time her relationship with Guo Da was completely about getting married.
After being in love for a while, she brought Guo Da home, which obviously confirmed that the purpose of the relationship at that time was indeed to get married.
However, in her grandmother's opinion, Guo Da is difficult to say, and the two people do not match at all.
This relationship was strongly opposed by the family, and she, who has always been obedient to her elders, decided to break up with Guo Da immediately, ending this short-lived relationship that was not blessed by everyone.
He was with Chen Kaige for six years, but he was poached
Later, when she was filming, she met the famous director Chen Kaige, which was the encounter this time, which became an indelible pain in her heart.
At that time, Chen Kaige was married, a man with thirty-one flowers, plus he was a director, and the charm of a mature man was even more added to it, and the charm was still no less than that year, when the two first met, Ni Ping fell.
Ni Ping's beautiful intellectuality soon attracted Chen Kaige, and then Chen Kaige immediately chose to divorce, and this relationship was also a well-known story in the circle.
It may be because of the lack of childhood love, or it may be Chen Kaige's rhetoric, Chen Kaige, who has just been divorced, lives with her, which also makes many netizens have no choice but to associate the image of intellectual sister with the image of interfering in marriage.
For this relationship, she really gave a lot.
Because of the nature of Chen Kaige's work, staying up late to film is also commonplace, and Ni Ping sacrificed himself to complete his career, taking care of everything in life, and obeying Chen Kaige's words.
She took the initiative to reduce her workload, just to better take care of this man, you know, her career was also at the peak of her at that time, and she must know better than anyone what reducing her workload meant to her.
However, the happiness did not last long, and after Director Chen's father died, she arranged a funeral for her father in the name of Chen Kaige's wife, and in the eyes of outsiders in Ni Ping's heart, she was Chen Kaige's prospective wife, and the two were only a piece of red paper.
Even if she gives so hard, it is difficult to compete with this flower world.
As a director, it is inevitable to contact many female artists, two years later, Director Chen and the popular actress Chen Hong walked together, Chen Hong can control the first stage of men is relatively smart, not only gave birth to a son, but also carried out a series of sugar-coated shells on Director Chen, successfully forcing Director Chen to break up with Ni Ping.
The efforts of these six years are humble at this moment, and such a result makes her exhausted, and the exhaustion and aging visible to the naked eye seem to strike overnight, making this gentle and intellectual big sister a little more vicissitudes.
Even years later, when she mentioned it in her autobiography, it was an unhealable wound in her heart.
Wang Wenlan came to her like a savior
After she separated from Director Chen, Ni Ping had a serious illness, and the heavens seemed to see her difficulties, and when she was heartbroken, she suddenly met a photographer full of affection - Wang Wenlan.
In fact, Wang Wenlan has always shone her with his own light, never forgetting her, and gave Ni Ping meticulous care and thoughtfulness when she was at her lowest.
Accompanied by Wang Wenlan, she gradually regained her strength, and the two married a year later.
I originally thought that this marriage would become her salvation, but it backfired, which is another abyss.
Finally, when she was forty years old, she gave birth to a son, named Huzi, but the child suffered from congenital cataracts.
According to doctors, if not treated immediately, children can go blind or even die by the age of five.
During the time she sought medical care for her children, she spent almost all of her family's savings, and did not have the heart to focus on her husband.
In 04, she heard that the United States could cure her child, she resolutely quit her job and took her son to the United States for treatment, and her son's condition continued to wear down the relationship between the two, and the relationship between the two became more and more estranged.
The family was already in jeopardy, and her husband did not want Ni Ping to struggle and leave the family with nothing, she gritted her teeth and signed the divorce agreement, no matter what, she had to do her best to save the seriously ill child, and ended her second marriage.
In those years, she took her son to travel many times at home and abroad, along the way, she suffered a lot, in order to treat her son, she had to go to filming, there was no money, she sold her house, and just like this for more than ten years of arduous treatment.
It is said that being a mother is just a gang, she interprets the greatness of maternal love, and is willing to give up everything for her children!
When she appeared on the screen again, her whole person looked a lot older, her skin became loose and crumbling, and she looked haggard, which shocked everyone.
The former graceful, dignified, confident and elegant CCTV host, suddenly aged a lot, and the long-term pressure and emotional twists and turns have hit her hard.
The dark clouds will always dissipate
Her third marriage was when she was raising medical bills for her son, and through working with Yang Yaya, the two found that they both liked calligraphy, so they got along very comfortably.
After constantly getting along and appreciating each other more and more, they finally came together.
This time, the two people were established in the midst of tribulation, although not as romantic as under the sun, but more real.
Probably because of similar encounters, the two can respect each other after marriage.
What is even more valuable is that after getting married, he regarded Ni Ping's child as his own flesh and blood, and embarked on the road of healing with her and her.
After the two worked together, her child eventually recovered.
She originally thought that she would spend her whole life in the hospital.
This made Ni Ping rekindle her hope for life again!
It's all about childhood encounters
Speaking of Ni Ping's experience, it is inseparable from her childhood experience.
In Ni Ping's memory, her parents would quarrel almost every three days, and quarrel in two days.
Later, her parents chose to divorce.
The long-term family atmosphere made her feel the warmth of family when she was young.
Ni Ping, who grew up with her mother, because her mother's traditional idea of preferring sons over daughters is serious.
So she became a dispensable existence, and her father was even more indifferent to her.
In her conception, her biological parents never gave her care and love.
She made up her mind to change her previous surname Liu to the same surname as her mother's "Ni" family.
Fortunately, she has a grandmother who treats her like a biological daughter, and in her difficult upbringing, it was her grandmother who saved her, put her life on the right track, and made her see the only love in this world.
With the love and strength given to her by her grandmother, she broke through many difficulties and was admitted to the art college.
Due to her outstanding appearance and slender figure, she has starred in many very classic films.
Grandma's love can make her brave to face everything, but it cannot keep her from being hurt by life.
Host in the memory of the nineties
After graduating from university, she successfully entered the theater work.
Because her performance in the drama team is very good, as well as her own posture, appearance and excellent work ability, she has been sought after by countless men.
I thought that her life would be spent in a happy family and an excellent career, but the bumpy road of love is rare in the world.
She has lacked family affection since she was a child, and she has an incomparable desire for family affection.
She wants to feel the warmth of the family, so she will choose to start a family early, but God is like a joke with her, the more she longs for love, the easier it is to turn over, and the successive unhappiness has suppressed her expectations for life.
Since she was a child, she grew up in the quarrel of her parents, lacking the warmth of family, and did not have a correct concept of the desire for love and the definition of love.
Disappointed by director Chen Kaige, she realized that the love she gave humbly was not cherished, and after divorcing the photographer, she realized that the essence of husband and wife is to always be the same, even if the road ahead is long.
Even though her emotional road is extremely bumpy and suffering, fortunately, she has been desperately persevering to usher in the dawn of life.
Now she is calm and calm after going through a variety of situations, showing her unremitting perseverance after the years are quiet.
In recent videos, everyone has seen that her former demeanor and confidence have returned, and how much sadness and persistence have been exchanged behind this!
She has been talented in her life, writing books, painting, hosting programs, acting are very successful, her style on TV, peerless, elegant and intellectual, I don't know how many men are fascinated by her, becoming the woman that all men want to marry the most in the 90s of the last century.
After she appeared on "Variety Show" and "Spring Festival Gala", she became a popular host, to retire for love at the peak of her career, and then to return to her vision in the year of Huajia.
The traces of the years that have increased along the way, calmly and calmly, are the best gifts of the years to him.