"Song Dandan!"
A girl shouted Song Dandan's name with a hateful tone, but Song Dandan was not angry, and this girl was her stepdaughter Zhao Ting.
As we all know, in Song Dandan's famous work "Family with Children", she plays the role of a stepmother, and in the face of all kinds of difficulties at the beginning of "Xia Xue", she can always use love to resolve.
Song Dandan in life is actually the reality version of "Liu Mei", who slowly touched the girl named Zhao Ting with years of patience.
Zhao Ting did not live up to her trust, and now Zhao Ting in the year of "not confused" has become a "legendary" existence in the second generation of stars.
Over the years, she refused the kindness of her father and stepmother Song Dandan to pave the way for her, broke into Hollywood alone, and created a career of her own!
All this is inseparable from Song Dandan's support.
Born in Beijing and raised at the foot of the imperial city, Zhao Ting was almost born with something that others may not have access to in a lifetime.
Her father Zhao Yuji and mother Huang Tao both have formal jobs, and they do not have a lot of restraint and discipline on Zhao Ting, but hope that she can maintain her heart and explore with confidence under the protection of her parents.
Perhaps because her parents are not as rigid and conservative as others, Zhao Ting has been very rebellious since she was a child, so she is not very attentive to learning.
And the couple are not in a hurry, they themselves do not have high requirements for their daughter, as long as she is happy.
It's also good that the family goes on like this, but there are problems between the husband and wife that still need to be solved, but Zhao Yuji and Huang Tao realize that each other's personalities are not suitable.
So when Zhao Ting was ten years old, they chose to divorce, and Zhao Ting has lived with her father since then.
The days spent with her father were boring, because Zhao Yuji was busy with work and hardly had time to take care of her, and after a long time, she began to learn to make fun for herself.
When other children are still playing crazy at this age, Zhao Ting has begun to learn to calm down and watch calligraphy and painting, although she draws some comics and writes some fanfiction, but she still has fun.
In Xiao Zhao Ting's heart, she may have thought that her mother would come back one day, or maybe she thought that she and her father would always be together like this, but she never expected that a new character would appear in their family.
At that time, Song Dandan had already experienced two failed marriages, she could no longer believe in love, and she did not know how to raise her 6-year-old son alone.
She thought love was close at hand every time, but every time it was untouchable, and she didn't know how to live.
But fortunately, with the help of friends, Song Dandan gradually returned to her original state, and friends began to prepare for her blind date in order to let her get out of the shadows as soon as possible.
Song Dandan did not resist, she knew that even if she did not need a husband, her son Batu also needed a father, and by chance, she knew Zhao Yuji like this.
At that time, Song Dandan actually put forward several requirements of his own, first of all, he must be on the same channel as himself, so as to reduce conflicts and contradictions, in fact, he hoped that the other party was widowed, so that he would not easily say abandonment.
Of course, Zhao Yuji is only divorced, although it does not meet Song Dandan's original requirements, but after getting along, she knows that the person in front of her is better than she imagined.
Although Zhao Yuji is not an insider, he is very knowledgeable and has his own views and opinions on things, and as a multinational executive, he suddenly entered Song Dandan's heart.
The two chose to collect the certificate on the twenty-eighth day of their acquaintance, that is, Song Dandan's 37th birthday, although the speed was fast, but they did confirm their intentions for each other.
But for families like them, in addition to their own consent, they also need to get the children to agree, and for Song Dandan, the most difficult thing is to get Zhao Ting.
At this time, Zhao Ting is no longer a child, and at the age of 14, she already has her own ability to judge right and wrong, so she does not want her father to bring back a stepmother for her.
She knew very well that her father and Song Dandan had known each other for less than a month, so when Zhao Yuji asked her to call her mother, she righteously expressed her objections.
For his daughter's attitude, Zhao Yuji didn't know what to do, so he comforted Song Dandan and asked him not to take it to heart.
But Song Dandan understood that if these problems were not solved, then the child would definitely be more unacceptable to herself in the future, so she began to find a way for Zhao Ting to accept herself.
In the days of getting along with Zhao Ting, Song Dandan put her affairs first, and even his son Batu did not have this treatment.
Zhao Ting's food and clothing, Song Dandan prepared the best for her, but Zhao Ting's reaction to this was mediocre, and she didn't think there was anything special about these.
And Song Dandan also understood that this would only cure the symptoms but not the root cause, and the gift had to be sent to the other party's heart, so she began to understand Zhao Ting's preferences.
In fact, since Wong Kar-wai directed "Spring Light", Zhao Ting has already begun to be interested in movies, she likes Wong Kar-wai's directing style, and even takes out the films directed by him to watch over and over again.
But these Zhao Yuji did not know that although he was Zhao Ting's father and caregiver, he gave more time to work, and he had no time to care about his children's hobbies.
And Zhao Ting is precisely because of the lack of parental attention, so she always lives in her own world, and over time, she will begin to resist the contact of others.
After having a certain understanding of these, Song Dandan knows how to treat Zhao Ting, she cares for Zhao Ting, and her preferences for Zhao Ting are as precious as a few family treasures, and she remembers every bit in her heart.
And Song Dandan's efforts Zhao Ting also saw in her eyes, she really couldn't accept this stepmother at first, but after a long time, she also understood that the other party did not have any malice, but wholeheartedly for her own good.
Zhao Ting likes to read comics, and Song Dandan will bring back the latest comics for her no matter how late she finishes work; What dishes Zhao Ting likes to eat, she will remember and cook them for her when she has the opportunity.
In addition to doing these things, Song Dandan will also talk to Zhao Ting, she understands the position of her biological mother in the child's heart, and knows that no one can take it away, so she told Zhao Ting that she will not try to replace her position, but will try to fulfill her responsibilities and obligations.
Song Dandan knows that Zhao Ting is very interested in movies, so if there is anything interesting in the crew, she will share it with Zhao Ting, and in this process, Zhao Ting also strengthened her heart to chase movies.
She did not intend to rely on Song Dandan's connections, but explored outward, and chose to go to the UK to study alone at the age of 15.
But the family is not very willing, especially Song Dandan, she feels that the child is still young, and it is too distressing to go abroad so early.
But she also understands that sooner or later she needs to let go, since the child has this idea, parents should also support her, so against everyone's pressure, Song Dandan supports her to go abroad.
Batu, who was young at that time, did not know what happened, only knew that his sister was going to go far away, so he gave all the money he saved to Zhao Ting, hoping that his sister could live well.
After coming to the UK, because of her unfamiliarity with life and language communication problems, she was indeed tortured enough, but she persevered, and even relied on her own work as an adult, and never took a penny from her family.
At that time, Song Dandan was also shining in his acting career, and the wonderful presentation in "Family with Children" allowed the national audience to see such an interesting stepmother.
In the play, Song Dandan plays the stepmother of two children, and in real life, she is indeed Zhao Ting's stepmother, and perhaps to some extent, getting along with Zhao Ting has also brought her a lot of inspiration for filming.
2004's "Family with Children" took Song Dandan's career to the next level, and ten years later, her stepdaughter Zhao Ting also began to prepare her first film.
In 2014, because she learned a lot of new knowledge and had a certain ability after studying abroad, Zhao Ting filmed "The Song My Brother Taught Me to Sing".
The filming of this movie was not as smooth as everyone expected, first the capital withdrew its investment, and then the home was stolen, and the hard disk of the movie was stolen.
Putting things together like this, Zhao Ting's previous efforts were all in vain, and she didn't know what to do all of a sudden.
But how can you see a rainbow without going through the wind and rain? Zhao Ting forced herself to finish the film, and the result did not disappoint her.
Although she is a new director, although it is her first film, she was shortlisted for Cannes and won the Best Female Director Award at the Gotham Independent Film Awards.
This year, Zhao Ting was only 32 years old, but she attracted the attention of the whole United States.
This year, she reaped career and love.
When preparing for this movie, she met her current boyfriend Shua James Richards, and learned that the other party and herself were a school graduate, and they were also full-time photographers, and the two fell in love after acquaintance, which was very sweet.
And the successful Zhao Ting did not choose to continue to stay in her comfort zone, she began to challenge herself, because she was interested in the west, she began to shoot stories about cowboys.
When "Knight" was created, it actually took her only a month to write all the scripts for the film.
Before the official start-up, she took the time to learn about the real life of cowboys and how these people have in common.
Because she didn't have enough money, she almost always used local materials, and although the overall time spent was not short, the real shooting took more than a month.
Zhao Ting's movements are very fast, whether it is script creation or post-shooting, but she is very willing to spend time on background understanding, to delve into, to research, and this play has also brought her certain achievements.
The gold began to shine, then it was bound to be seen, and even Francis McDormand was attracted by Zhao Ting's talent.
Zhao Ting's economic situation only began to improve at this point, so when she filmed her third film, she had enough shooting capital, and it was this movie that allowed her to successfully win the Golden Globe.
In fact, all along, in order to avoid letting her name hang Song Dandan's identity in front of her, Zhao Ting has been trying to rely only on herself and not seek help from others.
Therefore, when she made the movie, although she was a little tight in terms of funds, she never told her family, let alone asked them for money.
Maybe at the beginning, the outside world still called her Song Dandan's whoever was, but when she won the award, she was really herself, and she was the first Chinese female director to win the award - Zhao Ting.
At this point, everyone can really realize who she is, and some people even call her "Chinese pride", but the arrival of praise is also accompanied by controversy.
During the filming of "Eternals", there was a scene where black people knelt down and cried because of the Japanese nuclear explosion, and many people had a lot of opinions about Zhao Ting because of this scene.
Despite this, it is now more concerned with director Zhao Ting than Song Dandan's stepdaughter Zhao Ting, which is the only thing to be thankful for.
For Zhao Ting, although the honor and status she has obtained now is also something she has struggled for, but tracing its origins is still thanks to her family.
If it weren't for Song Dandan's efforts to exclude the crowd, if it weren't for her family's willingness to send her abroad, she wouldn't have received the flowers and applause she has today.