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preface
A few days ago, actor Song Jia rushed to the hot search list with a bold and sexy black dress, and several slap-like black fabrics covered important parts, revealing the sexiness and charm of mature women loomingly.
This not only reminds the audience of Song Jia's history of fame with a suspender, but also reminds the audience of her 22-year history of fragrant love when she debuted, either entangled with a big director with a husband with a woman, or ambiguous with a rocker with a family, two of the four men behind her were snatched from others.
What kind of chaotic emotional experience is hidden behind Song Jia, who has been debuting for 22 years? Does she dare to love and hate, or is she immoral? Now 42 years old, has she got the happiness she wants?
First, a break from fame, by virtue of the sling to get on the position
Speaking of Song Jia's history of fame, it is inseparable from one word - off.
In 2000, Song Jia, who had been studying liuqin for many years, received an admission notice from Shenyang Conservatory of Music, but she gave up this opportunity to enter the theater and turned her head to apply for the theater, perhaps because of her talent, Song Jia, who had no professional training, was admitted.
Because the decision was very hasty, Song Jia did not have much contact with acting courses before being admitted, so after enrollment, Song Jia's grades in the class have always ranked in the bottom several, and Song Jia, who does not admit defeat, studies hard every day, and shortens the gap between him and others little by little.
Song Jia has superior appearance conditions and hard study of acting skills, and she is bright and favored by her teachers and is fortunate to appear in TV series. Although Song Jia does not have many roles in the play, this is already a good appearance for the fledgling rookie actor. After this, Song Jia was more diligent and hardworking, constantly improving her acting skills.
Soon after, Song Jia had the honor to participate in the filming of "Hibiscus Out of Water". It can be seen from the name of this drama that the plot has something to do with water, and "Hibiscus Out of Water" mainly tells the story of a group of girls with swimming dreams, who experienced many difficulties and finally realized their swimming dreams.
Fang Xiaoxuan, played by Song Jia, does not have many roles in the play, but it is very important, so why did this drama choose a newcomer actor to take on this big role? The reason is that the plot and swimming are closely related, due to the needs of the plot, some shots require actresses to appear in swimsuits, and in 2003, everyone's thinking was more conservative, which was a big challenge for actresses.
In the end, this role fell into the hands of newcomer actor Song Jia, and Song Jia, who dared to show and act, was also famous because of this drama. But compared to Song Jia's masterpiece "Curiosity Kills Cats", the scale of this drama is not worth mentioning.
The director of "Curiosity Kills Cats" is Zhang Yibai, who left a classic memory for the audience in 1998 with "Carry Love to the End". In addition to the famous director, the cast of this movie is very strong, Liu Jialing, Hu Jun, Liao Fan, are all powerful actors.
The role played by Song Jia in the movie is an amorous and sexy hair-washing girl, and there are many intimate scenes with the male protagonist played by Hu Jun. Song Jia, who was born in a science class, is very dedicated, just one look, a subtle movement makes the character vivid and full, a shot that is splashed with water can be shot 14 times in pursuit of the best effect.
As soon as the movie was released, Song Jia's popularity continued to rise, whether it was her undisguised good figure or delicate performance, it impressed the audience. Song Jia, who dares to take off and is open-minded, won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Supporting Actress because of this work, but at the same time, she has also become a representative of "sexy" and "star".
Song Jia is unwilling to be recognized as a vase by everyone, she wants to prove her acting skills, she refused all invitations for sexy roles, plunged into the crew of "Crossing the Guandong", and became a fresh child with a bumpy fate. Whether struggling in the biting river or escaping in the cold snow, Song Jia personally went into battle.
With the role of Xian'er, Song Jia got rid of the sexy label and gained a firm foothold in the entertainment industry, and then Song Jia played steadily and steadily, and finally became the queen of Golden Eagle and Magnolia. But many people say that Song Jia can get to this step all because of the man behind her, in order to borrow power, she even knows three times and intervenes in addiction, so what is going on?
Second, the four men behind Song Jia
In 2002, Song Jia, who was in her sophomore year, starred in the TV series "Furong Out of Water", because this drama met his senior brother Chen Long, who was already a popular student. Chen Long was on the rise of his career at this time, and Song Jia was still an unknown newcomer. The two fell in love because of the drama and were a famous model couple in the school, and they thought that the two would have a bright future, but they did not escape the curse of breaking up after graduation.
Near graduation, Song Jia decided to go to Beijing to develop, but Chen Long was not willing to drift north, and the two had differences about future development, and eventually parted ways and went their separate ways.
Song Jia quickly put into work after arriving in Beijing, with the sexy and charming hair-washing girl in "Curiosity Kills Cats" and the affectionate and righteous Xian'er in "Crossing the Guandong", Song Jia slowly gained a foothold and won the favor of a well-known director, this person is Song Jia's second man - Zhang Li.
Zhang Li is one of the representative figures of the fifth generation of directors, his main works include "Towards the Republic", "Military Secrets", etc., and his "Once Upon a Time in China" that he and Song Jia are also one of his masterpieces. However, Zhang Li is famous not only because of his outstanding talent, but also because he has had five marriages.
When Zhang Li first met Song Jia, he had just married his fifth wife Liu Bei, who was also a well-known actress in the circle, and she had starred in "The Story of the Editorial Department" and "Party A and Party B". The two were newly married Yan'er, and not long after marriage, Liu Bei became pregnant. During this period, Zhang Li also began the filming of "Once Upon a Time in China", and invited Song Jia to play the role of Zheng Yunan.
During the filming process, Zhang Li's preference for Song Jia was obvious to all, and he learned that Song Jia was good at playing the liuqin, and specially added scenes for her. For Zhang Li's attention, Song Jia is very grateful, and the relationship between the two has gradually become close.
In the entertainment industry, there was soon a scandal between the two, and Song Jia's response was only two words "". Even if this response is too concise, many netizens still choose to believe Song Jia, after all, there is a 23-year age difference between the two protagonists of the scandal. Song Jia has appearance, career, wealth, let the young handsome guy don't want, do you have to be an old man over half a hundred years old?
However, the development of things made everyone not expect, and Song Jia did not expect to be slapped in the face so quickly. Just when the scandal between the two was raging, Song Jia was photographed traveling to Hainan with Zhang Li. Facing the stone hammer, the two were speechless, but Zhang Li's wife Liu Bei could not keep silent and filed for divorce from him.
Zhang Li and Liu Bei quickly divorced, Liu Bei took away her young son, and Zhang Li threw herself into Song Jia's arms and disclosed the fact that the two had lived together to the media. At this point, Song Jia also spoke boldly: "I am a person who dares to love and hate, and love is love." ”
This wave of operations really opened everyone's eyes, Song Jia's immoral behavior of knowing three and interfering in other people's marriages made her personal reputation and passers-by fall to the bottom, and many voices accusing Zhang Li and Song Jia appeared on the Internet, but this kind of scolding could not cause any harm to the two, because they didn't care at all.
Song Jia is backed by Zhang Li's big tree, with more and more high-quality resources in his hands, in 2008, Zhang Li entered the "Red Cliff" crew for work guidance, so Song Jia was able to play Li Ji in the play, in 2012, with the help of Zhang Li, Song Jia was able to star in the spy war drama "Cliff", in 2014, Song Jia played the heroine in the film and television works "49 Days Festival" and "Young Shuai" directed by Zhang Li.
After Zhang Li's divorce, he and Song Jia were in a cohabitation state, and although new film and television works came out every year and their careers were rising, the relationship between the two did not go further. After the two finished working together on "Young Shuai", they said goodbye and ended their five-year cohabitation relationship.
After breaking up with Zhang Li, Song Jia was silent for a while, and then began to play music, which was the decision, and Song Jia met her third man, rock singer Xie Tianxiao. The two have had some relatively intimate actions since the beginning of their acquaintance, but compared to the scandal with Zhang Li at the beginning, this time Song Jia did not choose to respond directly.
The two not only talked and laughed during work, but also were photographed behaving too intimately, Xie Tianxiao's wife Fu Lan was angry after seeing the gossip in the report, she is different from Liu Bei, Liu Bei will directly choose to divorce, but she chose to face the rigidity directly, and openly discussed in media interviews: Song Jia has a strange smell, and Xie Tianxiao was smoked away by her.
Song Jia and Xie Tianxiao did not respond positively to this remark, but slowly reduced contact, perhaps Song Jia realized that this time there was a hard stubble.
Twice knowing three when three, the addicted Song Jia completely lost her popularity, this time she was silent for a long time, until she starred in "Lu Yao Knows Ma Li" in 2016, only to become popular again, and Song Jia's fourth man also appeared, he is the music producer of Song Jia's popular works - Huang Shaofeng.
Perhaps the previous few times of feelings brought too much harm to Song Jia, and when she faced Huang Shaofeng's pursuit, she was a little hesitant. It was not until Huang Shaofeng showed his love with the song "Push Open the Door to the World" that Song Jia put down Mustard and indulged in love with him.
With the encouragement of Huang Shaofeng, Song Jia participated in the recording of the variety show "Crossover Singer King" and gained great attention with the song "Spring Breeze Ten Miles". Netizens once photographed the two traveling to Koh Samui together, and Song Jia also posted a dynamic, full of sweetness between the lines. Just when everyone thought that Song Jia and Huang Shaofeng were about to do good things, the two broke up silently.
Today, 42-year-old Song Jia is still alone, and the outside world has mixed reviews of her, some people think that she is my own way, and some people think that she is too low in emotional intelligence, so why do they evaluate it this way?
Third, do I go my own way or is my emotional intelligence too low?
In 2012, Song Jia won the Magnolia Best Actress for the spy war film "Cliff", and her most powerful competitor at that time was Sun Li, the star of "The Legend of Zhen Huan". At that time, "The Legend of Zhen Huan" was popular throughout the country, even now, the popularity of this drama is still very high, everyone thought that Sun Li would win the best actress, but unexpectedly killed Song Jia, a dark horse, halfway.
When delivering her acceptance speech, Song Jia looked at Sun Li and said with a smile: "This award is really a beautiful accident. The words made Sun Li's face stiffen, her eyes filled with tears, and she was embarrassed. Coincidentally, in 2019, such an embarrassing situation happened to Song Jia again, and this time she became the embarrassed person.
At that time, Haiqing ridiculed Song Jia, saying that she didn't get married because she wanted to prove that she was still a little flower, to which Song Jia responded bluntly, this view only represents Haiqing's personal position, and a sentence embarrasses a group of people, which is Song Jia's ability.
And Song Jia was frequently complained about on variety shows, regardless of the feelings of others, took off his socks to wipe his tears, and ate alone, which has become the audience's spit point.
If you only pay attention to Song Jia's actor career, her performance is very eye-catching, she has talent, ability, can endure hardships, can study, and she does have the confidence to walk sideways in the entertainment industry after double vision. Song Jia, who has a successful career, once said in an interview, "I don't care how others are, because I have the ability to make myself happy." ”
For the 42-year-old Song Jia, the evaluation of the outside world is no longer important, whether it is my own way or the emotional intelligence is too low, she does not care, for her, her happiness is the most important.
The author thinks
As an actress, Song Jia's professionalism and professionalism are praiseworthy, she is self-motivated, ambitious, has created many classic roles, and won many awards.
But from the point of view of Yide, everyone can not give her a passing score. In Song Jia's four relationships, two are involved in other people's marriages, which is unacceptable to many people.
There are many controversies about Song Jia's love life on the Internet, but as the protagonist of the controversy, Song Jia does not care about these views. For her, to love is to love, and not to love is not to love.
Now she no longer takes her love life too seriously, even if she is unmarried at the age of 42, even if there are constant disputes, what Song Jia has been insisting on is to be herself. She used her personal experience to tell everyone that only by letting go of the shackles can we have a dashing life.