"Sister Lang" Sangong: A few words to comfort Xu Huaiyu are all advanced emotional intelligence classes

Delayed talking about the first half of the third gong of "Sister Lang 4".

One

In this episode, Sister Qu Ying and Sister A-Lin, one has to control "my uncontending mouth", the other shouts "My legs are very disobedient, why don't I obey", the painting style is very happy.

Qu Ying is lively and funny, with a sense of variety show, which fully demonstrates the artist's "skills are not pressing".

Her jokes are not new, but the vivid performance is very joyful and infectious.

After being cue to "Niangniang is next door", Qu Ying's strength imitated Cai Shaofen's sister, and her voice and timbre copy and paste level were exactly the same.

Embed "Variety Show" skills anytime, anywhere.

In the canvassing session on stage, she imitated Cai Shaofen again, this time relying only on the upgraded difficulty of the back.

This is probably a balanced synthesis of language paragraph expression ability/imitation ability/variety sense, in a certain dimension.

The second layer about Qu Ying is a comfortable and comfortable state of "sister is very shiny and comfortable".

When Qu Ying and Sun Yue teamed up, they joked about calling themselves the 103 group, and the two added up to 103 years old.

This season, these two sisters (when they were pulled out by netizens to compare with the previous Serenity Naying) were considered not "big sisters" and domineering enough.

Sun Yue seems to be gentler and less prickly, and although Qu Ying appears handsome with a tanned appearance, the whole person is more joyful and relaxed.

On a certain level, the joy seems to weaken the serious aura of "saying no to binding with stereotypes and bondage", but in fact, I like Qu Ying's state.

Don't mark what shows what.

Even in the tense competitive confrontation, even if she walks out of her comfort zone, she has a sense of "the old lady just enjoys life".

It is said that it is naturally rare to relax when acting, and what is even more difficult is to relax and enjoy life happily.

Singer A-Lin, under Qu Ying's infection, also unlocked a more joyful mode.

The canvassing session imitates Zhu Zhu's hair, which is very essence~

This part of the family and friends group is also very interesting.

Qu Ying's mother's sister flower team is very imposing, thinking of Qu Ying saying before "If it has to matter, my mother danced Xinjiang when she was a child", which is very cute;

A-Lin's family and friends group really came with a sense of being able to sing and dance as soon as it appeared.

A-Lin's singing and dancing standards in "A Thousand Miles" are online.

But I'm still looking forward to dreaming a two-person version of God-level stage in which A-Lin and Gong Linna's sister collaborate.

Two

The group of "Suzhou River" still has Amber and Xie Xin, but this stage obviously cannot match the explosive degree of the second gong's "From the Beginning".

If it is simple and rude, from the perspective of personnel professional skills, after joining the non-singer dancer girl group, it is really "not moving".

Of course, this does not mean that there is nothing to see.

First, light comedy-style reality shows.

Autumn Porcelain Xuan sister comedian real hammer!

The training ended at three o'clock at night, and Sister Qiu Cera-Xuan had a fierce mask of "the old lady is ready to talk ruthlessly in blackface and is ready to sing the construction site rap".

The eyes are murderous, counting the program group, "It will end at three o'clock and start work at nine o'clock tomorrow morning, is this fair."

Turning back to ask Captain Amber if you got up in the morning, Amber didn't have time to react in exhaustion, and Qiu Ciaoxuan had quickly "arranged for her" when the speed of speech was so undominant.

Continue to "shout fiercely" under the guise of a captain.

Three points of stumbling, three points of mouth scoop, three points before and after the big contrast.

"Oh, mother" non-standard northeastern accent, can be cute love appeared~

The more he said, the more excited he became, "My captain still has two stages", and after Xie Xin weakly replied "Whoever has a captain is two stages", Qiu Ciaoxuan's reaction was also funny.

She immediately compared her heart to heart and fancy confession "Mango TV I love you" and "boss I love you", and the survival desire that overflowed the screen was a little cute and lovely.

(Why don't you say "I've been good to you all my life" here) hahahahaha)

Such a 180-degree turn of "pretending to shout the murderous program group, seconds after a certain node", or the bridge to speak for the captain, is very common in various variety shows.

Substituting it, replace Sister Qiu Cera Xuan with another variety show regular, this effect is easy to discount.

Her advantage lies in the cuteness of three points of raw three, three points of ripeness, three points of sandwich raw and three points of chaotic cooking.

Second, the team.

The last time Amber and Xie Xin, who fought side by side on stage, were unbridled and hearty, this one was the existence of "I know that you are my backing, and you can be at ease with me".

Amber had to take care of three teams and rehearse the two stages of "Suzhou River" and "General" at the same time, and could not be 100% tied to the Suzhou River group.

Amber in one picture, lying on a carpet yoga mat, says "so comfortable" but looks overdrawn.

(She seems to be the type who refuses to say that she is tired and refuses to show weakness)

Amber also indicated that "there is Xie Xin (helping with the dance part) and sharing a lot."

During the rehearsal of the dance, Xie Xin asked her sisters to stay in place, and the details of the body movements were carefully cut;

Practicing singing, Xie Xin couldn't find Sun Yue, who was already sick and lying down, was really very worried about his life, and got up again in minutes.

Stared at her with a serious face and sang, helped her find a feeling and helped her debug.

Sun Yue said that "I like to feel needed", which is very true.

Xie Xin is a dancer, not a professional singer, Qiu Cera Xuan is an actor, Gina is a pianist, a group of five people, can be regarded as "two and a half crossovers (amateur)".

The overall stage is not particularly stunning.

But whether it is the harmony of supporting each other, or the sense of value of being needed, or the lively and cute atmosphere of a group of people, it is worth the trip in a sense.

Three

The stage of "The Way Home" is Sangong's relative favorite among the four stages in the first half.

In the practice room part, Lu Jingshan and Liu Xijun explained the lyrics to Xiaomei, in a somewhat primitive way.

Rounding is a lot of effort with limbs.

(Of course, it may also be related to the turmoil of replacing translations)

The stupid method that seems laborious and inefficient, in the reality show that needs to be watched, has more possibilities for performance and game because of the objective conditions of language barrier.

Lu Jingshan came on the stage with illness, and the whole person seemed to be confused before taking the stage, and apologized repeatedly after singing, but she still felt stable.

It seems to be a ruthless character who can resist and be reliable.

Talking about home during the meal, Lu Jingshan said that "my parents are no longer there, and I feel that I have no home for a long time" (of course, she later mentioned that it is different to have her own family now), which makes people feel a little embarrassed.

The little beauty in this episode is cute and cheerful offstage, and pleasant on stage.

There is a saying called "red qi nourishes people", which sounds very metaphysical and very at first glance.

In fact, the reliable logic behind it is that people who are surrounded by encouragement and praise are more likely to have a better mood and state.

Four

In the group of "Mountain and River Map", the practice room part focuses on various sisters to comfort Xu Huaiyu.

Ella recounted that Xu Huaiyu might not come (because she was affected by the comments and was very upset), and called Xu Huaiyu's cousin to provide emotional support.

After Xu Huaiyu arrived, Ella tearfully confessed on the spot: "I was your fan when I was a child, and I can sing your songs";

I regret that "such a beautiful girl, now I am so sad to see you so unconfident."

Reassure her that the hot spot will pass quickly, no one will keep staring at the previous one, and there is no need to pay too much attention.

"Encouragement + praise" in one train.

The words have weight, the attitude is sincere, and the rhythm and control of the speech technique are very measured, making people feel that after entering Xu Huaiyu's perspective, they are "instantly comforted".

For example, when Ella hugs her, she says, "I know you're someone who wants to work hard."

A very ordinary sentence, but it is actually a double encouragement and double praise.

The first layer is to affirm the merits of the other party.

The second layer is the sense of empathy and support that implies "I know you (so you're not alone)."

Ella naturally doesn't have to think so much about every sentence, but there must be many subtle details worth scrutinizing in "high emotional intelligence speech".

In contrast, if you say "why don't you work hard" at this time, it is a common "I'm good for you" type of accusation;

Regardless of the starting point, there is suspicion of blurring the difference between "suppression" and "whipping".

Xu Huaiyu's mood is close to collapse, and the effect of friends comforting + encouraging will be far better than the "push/suppress" type of pressure.

Gong Linna is cute and holds up a box of lunch "No one has eaten it, let's just tear it open to see what's inside";

This is not a big truth in the rhythm of comfort, but it is very effective.

As the content of the practice room of the variety show, just watch the show alone, this paragraph belongs to the "tearful highlights" and "warm emotions" collection.

In fact, the real gap lies in the disconnect between the "objective evaluation system" and the "warm teammate drawing style".

When everyone comforted Xu Huaiyu, they were all scolded for example, mentioning that "Xie Na was scolded too hard".

Yigong "Dragon Fist" Xie Na's performance is indeed difficult to say.

From the first gong to the second gong to the third gong, she sings rap ugly.

This is the evaluation.

(Of course, if fans think that all non-praise reviews are called subjective malice, then there is no way)

Whether the evaluation is professional or not is a matter of opinion, but it is normal for the evaluation content to be positive or negative.

And within the show, it is the warm perspective of teammates.

To be comforted, to be encouraged, to be tolerant.

(Even block all negative reviews, including those that are objective and relevant)

Fancy output: She's worked hard, she's improved a lot, she's amazing.

As early as before Sister Lang was broadcast, there were real and false rumors about Xu Huaiyu not rehearsing seriously and paddling on stage.

After the public broadcast, "Xu Huaiyu Paddling" was on the hot search, and the agency posted an article admitting that there were other commercial performances arranged for her during Sister Lang.

At that time, some fans argued for Xu Huaiyu that "she is just not confident".

The snubbness of subjective attitude and the inadequacy of objective situation are two completely different reasons;

The former is self-inflicted, and the latter deserves help.

At that time, most of the negative content against Xu Huaiyu on the Internet focused on "she has a problem with her attitude and is perfunctory";

After the second gong, the content presented by the program group in the main film all focused on expressing "Xu Huaiyu's previous poor performance was not because he did not work hard, but because he was not confident".

Now the content broadcast in the main film is connected to the latter, "sisters encourage and help Xu Huaiyu, who is not confident, so that she has light in her eyes."

Although carrying the pressure of public opinion is a compulsory course for artists to enjoy standing in the spotlight and flowing like a shadow and two sides of the same body, Ella comforts and encourages Xu Huaiyu's story line, which seems to be more in line with the warm and cheering theme of the show.

However, where the cut is, it is easy for the gap to become larger, swallowed or even regurgitated "local presentation".

epilogue

Standing under the high light of riding the wind and waves, if you want to only listen to praise forever and forever, either Huashan cultivates into a god on one road, and a song and dance shocks the world and weeps ghosts and gods;

(Even if the skill is really a god, there will still be a few people who don't like it, not to mention the amateur state)

Or draw a prison, self-deception, fan control, team control, create a perfect illusion;

Either calm down and face it bravely, finding a balance between facing evaluation and "tending to absorb positive encouragement."

Ella is a person with energy and a sense of inspiration and strength, who previously encouraged Wu Qian and now embraces Xu Huaiyu.

Although the perspective and starting point are different, the warmth and intelligence are still moving.

There is a strange magic that drags people into the "perspective of family and friends".

I hope that my sisters can be braver and happier to ride the wind and waves.