Yesterday, a news item said that a sister was punched and kicked by her husband when she was four months pregnant, and the scene was quite cruel, and I still dare not watch it.
News coverage
The woman said that it was not the first time she had been beaten, she had been beaten many times, and she could hit so hard when she knew she was pregnant, so she should hit harder when she was not pregnant.
Because of a trivial matter, it can be seen that this man's strength is really small, and he has typical characteristics of domestic violence men.
There are only zero and countless times of domestic violence!
Physical bruises can disappear, but psychological trauma is a lifetime affair, a pain that can never be relieved. For us women, if you encounter a violent man, this life is ruined, the mood during pregnancy is already fluctuating, if you have to suffer some unwarranted physical damage, but it is difficult for us to identify domestic violence men, and domestic violence men will not change, violence will only increase. How should we identify the characteristics of domestic violence men before marriage, and today I will sort out several characteristics of domestic violence men.
Domestic violence scene
First, poor emotional management
The first characteristic of domestic violence men is low emotional management ability, often unable to control emotions, random anger, anger at will, anger will fall things in a lifetime, often because of a small thing and cause great emotions, violent jump, such people may seriously threaten the life safety of people around them.
Second, there are inconsistencies
In front of outsiders, he can always disguise himself as a caring and considerate look, very gentleman, and even show no shortcomings, living out the image of a perfect man, but in front of his relatives, especially his mother, he is very impatient and changes another face.
Third, hostility and paranoia
Domestic violence men are generally very sensitive and suspicious, thinking that others want to harm him, and will stop at nothing to frame him, resulting in him always being hostile to the outside world, even to the people around him, always suspecting that his wife is cheating, and becoming very sensitive and paranoid.
Fourth, strong sense of control
Always want to control the other party at all times, and everything must be according to his ideas, otherwise it will cause him strong dissatisfaction, and even start punching and kicking, when dealing with differences, he always asks to give priority to his ideas.
Fifth, machismo
家暴男尊学男尊女卑的理念，在他们的眼里，女朋友必须要无条件地为自己服务，女人就是为了服侍男人而存在的，甚至一点小事都要指使女人去做，不允许女人去评价他，哪怕是好话都会让他觉得不适。
There are only 0 and countless cases of domestic violence. Once the first domestic violence begins, there will be countless times later, our lives are only once, the act of solving the problem of domestic violence is to stay away from them, use the weapon of the law to protect themselves, now is a legal society, we can protect our rights and interests through the law.