In many people's inherent concepts, love and career have a sequence, first busy with the career, hard work out of the results, and then to find a satisfactory husband is not too late.
But one of margaret Thatcher's most interesting and enviable points is that love and career are both grasped, and both hands are hard.
While she was busy with her career and climbing up her political journey, she also met a partner who was willing to fully support her career, and she was also a rich second generation who had joined the army.
Such a life is almost like the "big heroine" idol drama model script that the audience is keen on.
Margaret Hilda Roberts, born in England in 1925, came from an ordinary family and her sister was four years older than her, but she was indoctrinated with many competitive concepts and ideas from an early age, such as "taking the bus, always sitting in the first row."
Her father, an avid politician and an avid electoral enthusiast, was elected to the Grantham City Council at the age of two and later mayor.
Qualified education can awaken a person, more than the environment and conditions of the original family has a greater concept and significance, at the age of 18, Thatcher came to Oxford University to study, at that time she was already "awakened", constantly participating in various speeches and election activities.
After graduating from college at the age of 22, she entered the company as an office worker, but the idea of being a politician is still firmly imprinted in her blood, and at the age of 24, she was elected to parliament and attended a dinner party.
At that election dinner, she met Dennis Thatcher, born in 1915 and shy, who had been a soldier for 6 years and had taken over the family business after leaving the army.
The dinner ended late that day, and Dennis, who was interested in her, offered to take her to the station.
Dennis often asked Thatcher to watch performances and listen to operas, and in 1951, Dennis suddenly had a hot brain during his travels, saying, "Margaret is the girl he wants to love for the rest of his life", so he proposed to her.
When she heard the marriage proposal, Thatcher was surprised to close her mouth, she did not know whether this man's hasty decision could really have a good result?
After some deliberation, she chose to accept him.
On December 13, 1951, the two were married.
After marriage, Thatcher hung all the way, resolutely not to be a full-time mother, she passed the lawyer's qualification certificate in 1953, and in August of the same year, she had a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses, and the birth of a child was not delayed, which was enough to show how tough she was.
The family did not interfere with her political life, and she joined the cabinet smoothly, leaping through the dragon gate step by step and becoming prime minister.
The reason why Thatcher can be so open, in addition to her strong ability, there is also an important reason is that her lover is really too good.
Her marriage was a completely unattainable marriage, and she once said in her biography, "In such a comfortable environment, to be a married woman is simply in heaven." ”
Compared with many women who were forced to give up their ideals for marriage, Dennis created a Garden of Eden for Thatcher, and they were the only Eve and Adam in the Garden of Eden, who were fused with each other and connected with each other.
When Thatcher is busy with her career, she does not have to worry about anything, at this time, Dennis is her "virtuous helper"; but at the same time, if she needs financial support and other necessary funds for the election, Dennis can provide her with unconditional supply and assistance, which is her eternal backing and fulfills her dream of being prime minister.
With such a solid shoulder to lean on, Thatcher kept his heart happy, spiritually and spiritually rich.
Of course, it is not easy to achieve such a state of marriage, Dennis really sacrificed a lot for his beloved wife, he had a period of time when the family and the company turned at both ends, he was dragged down, overdrafted all his energy, and even the doctors sounded the alarm bell for him.
After thinking about it again and again, Dennis traveled to South Africa once, on the empty prairie of South Africa, thought about the meaning of life, and when he came back, he made a decision to sell the company.
After making such a shocking decision, he told Thatcher affectionately, "Or you are the most important." And opened a ring box for her, and the ring inside the box symbolized eternity.
With such a lover who is willing to be green leaves and red flowers, Thatcher enjoyed incomparable happiness and honor in the most beautiful years.
But if you think she is really so lucky, life is like a fairy tale, calm and perfect, it is a big mistake.
Thatcher's son and daughter were not filial enough, bringing regrets to her later life and the biggest failure of her life.
When she was young, she was busy with work, there was no time to spend with her children, she was busy with various speeches and candidacy, so busy that she only said goodnight to her children at night.
At the same time, she doted doubly on her son Mark, thinking that this would make up for nothing, but in fact turned her child into a complete loser, lacking education because of her mother's lack of companionship, and on the other hand, because of her mother's doting and arrogant arrogance.
The daughter, in the eyes of the patriarchal Thatcher is completely transparent, was sent to boarding school early, grew up with little mother's love, and the feelings between mother and daughter are weak.
In 2004, Mark was arrested and imprisoned. Margaret Thatcher paid him £275,000 to regain his freedom, and she was seventy-nine years old at the time, and it was even more frightening that the old man with the wind and candles had to endure such pain.
Even Mark's wife saw the man's true face and threw down the sentence "You are a man who has achieved nothing without his mother." "It's divorced.
The most terrible thing about Ma Bao Men is that they are willful and arrogant, and they also have to let their mother clean up the mess and wipe his ass for him, and they have no responsibility.
Probably because of the excessive torture of her son, Alzheimer's disease approached Mrs. Thatcher and made her health deteriorate.
After she developed Alzheimer's disease, both of her children rarely came back to see her, on average only once every 6 months.
In her later years, she sat by the window every day and watched the crowd in a daze. Her bedside was lined with photographs, and every eye was a clear memory, but now only filthy.
Her husband died as early as 2003, and her closest lover and best comrade-in-arms of her life did not accompany her for the rest of her life.
In 2013, she finally completed her legendary life, and in the last ten years of her life, only the guards and caregivers accompanied her.
Thatcher's desolate old age and the first half of her happy life formed a sharp contrast, like her regret itself is difficult to avoid, can only say that life is sometimes like this, fate will give everything a good price, in their pursuit of their own ideals and ambitions at the same time, or do not ignore family affection.