Less scolding, less belittlement! Education is lighting a lamp, the words of a parent!

"I can't help but belittle and scold my child, what should I do?" This is a problem that many parents face, and as a parent who has had a similar experience, I can also give my own opinion.

In the past, my children used to do things that made me angry, such as being lazy and not doing homework, shouting loudly to disturb others, and so on. In the face of these behaviors, I can't help but scold the child, sarcastic and sarcastic language often appears. Over time, I noticed that the child became more and more timid and timid, and even hid in the corner and cried. I realized that my practice was harmful to the healthy development of my child, so I began to deliberately solve the problem.

With the help of many education experts, I have changed a lot in my mentality and method. I no longer jump to conclusions about what my children have done, nor do I arbitrarily belittle and scold them. Instead, try to understand them, understand the real reason, and guide them with kind, encouraging language. At the same time, I have also found some effective ways to prompt and motivate children.

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When children do something wrong, first of all, we must first calm our emotions, calm down, and remind children through appropriate eyes and tones, so that they understand their mistakes and know how to make changes. Second, we need to give children substantive advice on how they can solve problems. Finally, give them appropriate encouragement and praise in a timely manner to build their self-confidence.

Helping children in this way not only makes it easy to eliminate their bad behavior, but also allows us to become supporters of family affection as children grow up.

Finally, to quote a famous saying: "Education is not about filling a bucket, but lighting a lamp."

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