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Famous mezzo-soprano singer Sarengova: The reason why you can't be a mother for life, the tearful love camellia blooms after 18 years of pretending to be pregnant to deceive the dying mother-in-law We are the parents of 350 children

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Famous mezzo-soprano singer Sarengova: The reason why you can't be a mother for life, the tearful love camellia blooms after 18 years of pretending to be pregnant to deceive the dying mother-in-law We are the parents of 350 children

Sarengova

Sarengova is a well-known Mongolian mezzo-soprano singer who has participated in CCTV literary and art performances many times, and the album "I Don't Know How to Repay You" is popular among fans. Sarengova is an orphan who completed her university studies with financial support from the civil affairs department. In order to give back to the society, for more than a decade, she and her husband Hubu have provided free food and accommodation for 350 children, volunteered to teach vocal music, and cultivated them into talents one by one. Although Sarengova has lost her right to be a mother forever, 350 students are her and her husband's children. Her marriage to Hubu Ri'e is tragic, legendary, and full of intestines...

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In May 2007, Sarengova returned to her hometown of Wulanchabu, Inner Mongolia, to change her second-generation IDENTITY card, and accidentally met her former benefactor Hubu Ri'e at a friend's house. Time suddenly goes back 18 years: Sarengova, born in 1976, was an orphan who grew up with both her parents dead and raised by relatives. In 1989, Ulanqab suffered a snow disaster that had not been seen in a century, and relatives lost their financial resources, and the 13-year-old Sarengova was forced to drop out of school. 8-year-old Hubu Ri'e, who was eight years older, worked in the local livestock system, and when she went to the countryside to buy cows, she saw Sarengova carrying a basket in the snow to pick up cow dung and roast it on fire. Knowing her origins, Hubri took the initiative to pay tuition fees to allow Sarengova to return to school. Subsequently, under the run of HuBu Riye, the Wulanchabu Civil Affairs Bureau listed Sarengova as a target of support and sponsored her to complete her junior high school, high school and Inner Mongolia Art Academy. During her studies, Sarengova and Hubri exchanged occasional letters, but never met again.

In 2000, Sarengova was admitted to the Vocal Music Department of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts, and left her hometown for Beijing, and the two completely broke off contact. After graduating from the military arts, she entered the Central Conservatory of Music for graduate studies. Entering the music world, Sarengova has participated in CCTV literary and art performances many times, and launched a personal album "I Don't Know How to Repay You", from an orphan to a well-known mezzo-soprano singer...

Famous mezzo-soprano singer Sarengova: The reason why you can't be a mother for life, the tearful love camellia blooms after 18 years of pretending to be pregnant to deceive the dying mother-in-law We are the parents of 350 children

When they saw each other again after 18 years, the two were surprised and excited. Over the years, Sarengova has been single because she was busy with her studies and singing career. HuBu Ri'e just underwent a marriage change 1 year ago, and his daughter lived with his ex-wife. When studying at the Inner Mongolia Academy of Arts, Sarengova quietly fell in love with the sunny, kind, and handsome Hubu Riye. At that time, he had already started a family, and Sarengova had to freeze the seed of love in her heart. And now the benefactor is single again, and the love that has been sleeping for many years has bloomed overnight in Sarengova's heart like a camellia flower...

After three months of love, Sarengova and Hubri were married on August 26, 2007. On the third day of her marriage, she prepared to return to Beijing. HubuZhi'e wanted his wife to stay in Ulanqab. Sarengova told her husband a secret: 3 years ago, she shifted the focus of her career from singing to teaching, providing food and accommodation for 37 orphans and poor children for free, and volunteering to teach them vocal music. HuBuri asked his wife, "Aren't you artificially creating separation?" I am married and still live a single life, what is the meaning of this marriage? Dismiss the children. Sarengova explicitly refused: "Then how to do it?" I am responsible for the future of my children, and if you really love me, follow me to Beijing. ”

Hubu Ri'e has a stable job in Ulanqab, relatives and network resources are here, how can he bear to give up all this to go to a strange faraway place? The newlyweds collided and tangled, and Sarengova was forced to postpone her return to Beijing. On September 1, more than 20 children texted and called Sarengova, without exception showing deep concern: "Gaowa's mother, I heard that you found us a father, is it not going back to Beijing?" "We stand in the basement doorway every day and look out, hoping that you will come back and teach us a lesson..." Sarengova burst into tears.

Famous mezzo-soprano singer Sarengova: The reason why you can't be a mother for life, the tearful love camellia blooms after 18 years of pretending to be pregnant to deceive the dying mother-in-law We are the parents of 350 children

Sarengova with her husband

That night, Sarengova pulled out a stack of yellowed receipts from her suitcase, part of which was an invoice for her to pay her tuition from junior high school to college, and the other part was a receipt for Sarengova to be hospitalized with chronic nephritis in her junior year, and more than 100 teachers and students from the school donated to her. She put these in front of her husband and choked up and said, "I am an orphan, and I would not have been able to be where I am today without the financial support of well-wishers." I can't repay the kindness of so many people, and I can only give back to the society with my modest strength. In this life, people cannot only have small love and chai rice oil and salt, but also poetry and far away. Hu Bu Ri was originally a kind and loving man, who understood his wife's hot and urgent heart to give back to the society, and decided to "sing with her husband." Soon he went through the formalities of suspension without pay and came to Beijing with Sarengova.

The hardships of Sarengova and her 37 "sons and daughters" far exceeded The imagination of Hubu Ri'er: they were crammed into a basement of more than 80 square meters in Jiaomen, Fengtai District, Where Sarengova slept on a single iron bed, the children made bunks, and slept at night with one head next to the other. They are 13 years old, the eldest is 16 years old, from all over the country, some are orphans, some are single parents whose parents are divorced, and some are disabled children from poor families, all of them have a common dream of singing. Over the years, Sarengova relied on meager performance fees to pay rent and children's living expenses, and the average daily food expenses of 38 people did not exceed 100 yuan. Because of the long-term living in the basement and not seeing the sun, the children were pale one by one. HuBuri's heart was stung, and he hugged the children one by one and said emotionally: "Gaowa's mother loves you, and my father will love you as much as she does, children, and from now on we will be a family." Sarengova and the children had tears in their eyes. If before he came, Hubri had a slight resistance to his wife, now he completely understood Sarengova.

Hu Bu took out all the more than 30,000 yuan of savings around him, bought iron beds and futons for the children, and bought a second-hand piano. Sarengova was busy sneaking up on performances and earning living expenses for her children. The husband and wife have a clear division of labor: Sarengova is responsible for teaching and raising living expenses; Hubu Ri'e is willing to be a husband. In order to save money, Hu Bu made flatbread and steamed steamed buns, and often went to the market in the evening to buy cheap rotten potatoes. The children are growing their bodies, and every two days, Hubu uses potatoes and cabbage to stew two large pots of fragrant chicken racks for the children. Dozens of children were elated and ate with relish.

Famous mezzo-soprano singer Sarengova: The reason why you can't be a mother for life, the tearful love camellia blooms after 18 years of pretending to be pregnant to deceive the dying mother-in-law We are the parents of 350 children

Sarengova with children

In February 2008, the Jiaomen police station received several complaints from residents of the district, saying that Sarengova and her children were practicing to disturb the people. The police found the basement and ordered them to move within a week. Sarengova and her husband went to the police station many times to negotiate, but to no avail. She stood in the cold wind and wept; Huburi was dazed, not knowing where her next home was...

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The couple searched for a house overnight, and with the help of well-wishers, Sarengova and Hubu Ri'e set up a basement near Wukesong in Haidian District. In february, the cold wind in Beijing was sandwiched with snowflakes, and in order to save 600 yuan in moving costs, the couple used a tricycle to transfer luggage and furniture one after another. Hubri stepped on the tricycle in front, Sarengova held the large luggage in the back, and the snow fell all over their faces... For a year thereafter, either for the same reason, or the landlord temporarily increased the rent, or there was no heating in the house... The couple moved 3 more times.

The dormitory, together with the rehearsal hall, rents more than 60,000 yuan per year. For Sarengova and his wife, it is no less than a heavy mountain. When it comes to paying the rent, they are like "breaking through the barrier", often demolishing the east wall to make up for the west wall, borrowing relatives, classmates, and friends. In May 2009, the landlord came to ask for rent, and after Sarengova sold the ancestral bracelet left by her mother at a low price, there was a difference of 600 yuan, and the couple could not think of any other way. The hardships of life have eroded Hu Bu's determination to stay in Beijing. In Ulanqab he was a civil servant, living a good life and being respected; now he has fallen to the bottom of society, his living standards have dropped by N notches, he has often been blinded by hawkers when buying vegetables...

Hubu Ri'e told his wife: "I can't hold on any longer, let's go back to Inner Mongolia." Sarengova was embarrassed: "What about the children?" "Don't care so much, dismiss." Sarengova firmly disagreed, and the couple tangled. Hu Buri picked up his bag and prepared to return to Inner Mongolia, pulled open the door, only to see more than 30 children brushing and kneeling together at the door, and everyone's eyes were full of tears: "Father Hu, don't leave us alone, we can't do without you and Gaowa's mother." "Most of these children have a bad fate, and if they and their wives leave it alone, their lives are doomed to be crippled and difficult!" HuBuri's forehead softened, and he pulled the children up one by one, and with tears in his eyes, he said, "I'm sorry, forgive Dad's cowardice for a while, I'm not leaving, and Gaowa's mother is guarding you." After several runs, Hubu finally pressed down his ID card at the Lanzhou ramen restaurant next door, borrowing 600 yuan to make up enough for the next quarter's rent.

Famous mezzo-soprano singer Sarengova: The reason why you can't be a mother for life, the tearful love camellia blooms after 18 years of pretending to be pregnant to deceive the dying mother-in-law We are the parents of 350 children

Sarengova with children

In November of this year, the "Snow Mountain Langma" group of 37 children participated in the CCTV "Avenue of Stars" draft, passed the hurdles, and was amazingly awarded the second place in the popularity of the annual finals. Subsequently, a well-known cultural company in Beijing signed the "Snow Mountain Langma" group to the company, and the three children were about to leave this warm big family. The group's lead singers Tashi Dunzhu, Zejeon Nam and other 3 children come from the snowy tibet, and the family is extremely poor. In 2003, they sold Tibetan ornaments in underground passages near the Lama Temple, singing songs to make ends meet, often precarious.

After discovering their musical potential, Sarengova took the children around and asked Zhang Chao, the "father of modern Chinese folk songs", to tailor the famous work "I Came from the Snowy Mountains" for them. In 6 years, more than 2,000 days and nights, Sarengova and the children have formed a deep mother-child relationship. When they were sent to the company, Sarengova and Hubu Rie bought them new bedding as if they were their own children at work. And with tears in his eyes, he advised: "Don't forget your parents and brothers and sisters, remember to go home often." The three children bowed deeply: "This will always be our home." "Say goodbye with tears."

Since then, children have been admitted to the Central University for Nationalities, the Chinese Armed Police Cultural and Labor Troupe, the Beijing Film Academy... Leaving the Sarengova couple. After being raised by themselves, these suffering children changed their fate, and Sarengova and her husband felt that all the efforts were worth it. Although in the eyes of many people, they are very stupid, very humble, very poor, but the couple harvested a joy of dedication that is difficult for ordinary people to understand. Often, groups of children flew away like eagles, and soon another group of children came to visit. The number of children taken in by the Sarenkova couple has always been around 40.

In March 2010, at the age of 34, Sarengova became pregnant, and Hubri was particularly eager to have a common child with his wife. He entrusted his mother in Ulanqab early in the morning, bought bottles, children's hats, children's shoes and other baby and child supplies, and looked forward to the birth of the baby every day. However, when the fetus was more than 3 months old, a change occurred. Because Sarengova lived in the basement for many years, coupled with malnutrition and heavy teaching tasks, she did not have the mood and energy to raise a fetus, and decided to abandon the baby in her belly.

Famous mezzo-soprano singer Sarengova: The reason why you can't be a mother for life, the tearful love camellia blooms after 18 years of pretending to be pregnant to deceive the dying mother-in-law We are the parents of 350 children

One night, when Hubu was preparing to give prenatal education to the baby, Sarengova told her husband darkly: "Now is not the time to have children, or two years later." "Why?" I'm 42 years old this year. Sarengova told her reasons truthfully, and Hub Ri'er protested with silence. She patiently comforted her husband: "I understand your feelings, but our conditions are really immature." I promise you that before the age of 38, I will give you a healthy and cute baby. Hubu Ri, who loved his wife deeply, compromised again. Two days later, he accompanied Sarengova to the hospital for abortion surgery.

In mid-May, her mother-in-law was diagnosed with advanced lung cancer, and her only wish on her deathbed was to look at her pregnant daughter-in-law and touch the baby in her belly. After each drip, the old lady was in a slightly better mental state, so she asked her son on the phone: "In which month was the child born?" Can you let me see the baby before I go? Hub Ri was sadly perfunctory to his mother. How sad it would be if the mother-in-law knew that she had lost her child! Sarengova's heart became heavy, and she didn't know how to pass the mother-in-law's level. In desperation, Hubu Ri gave his wife an idea and asked Sarengova to pretend to be pregnant.

A week later, Sarengova returned to Ulanqab with her husband. Before entering, she tied a pillow to her stomach and dressed herself as a pregnant woman with a big belly. The mother-in-law on the hospital bed described it as withered, emaciated and haggard, and when she saw her son and daughter-in-law, the old man handed them the baby and child products they had purchased: "I don't know if you like these styles and colors?" I don't know if it is suitable for babies to wear? Sarengova tearfully put away her things and sat by the bedside to chat with her mother-in-law. Looking at her daughter-in-law's bulging abdomen, the old lady reached out to touch her belly, and Sarengova cleverly flashed her body.

Famous mezzo-soprano singer Sarengova: The reason why you can't be a mother for life, the tearful love camellia blooms after 18 years of pretending to be pregnant to deceive the dying mother-in-law We are the parents of 350 children

Sarengova does a tv show

Worried that they had spent a long time with their mother-in-law, sarengova and his wife returned to Beijing two days later. A week later, the mother-in-law passed away peacefully. Although he successfully "deceived" his mother-in-law and let the old lady die with thoughts, this became the knot in the hearts of Sarengova and his wife!

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In 2013, at the age of 37, Sarengova became pregnant again. In order to fulfill her promise to her husband, and also to resolve the knot that "deceived" her mother-in-law, she decided to give birth to the child. Listening to the fetal sound in his wife's abdomen, HuBuri's forehead was immersed in happiness. He described the future to his wife this way: "If the baby is a boy, we will send him back to the inner Mongolian steppe and let him grow into a tough Mongolian child on horseback." If it is a daughter, you train her to follow the path of singing and be a happy little lark. "The couple's hearts are full of happiness.

In November of that year, Sarengova took Zhang Zheng, a "little security guard" who had followed her "pocket singer" for many years and came out of the "Avenue of Stars", to inner Mongolia TELEVISION station to record the New Year's Day party. Due to the temporary invitation, Sarengova and her party did not buy a sleeper, and sat on a hard seat for more than ten hours all the way to Hohhot. Due to the rush to return to Beijing after recording the program, 3 people still squeezed the hard seat.

As soon as she got home and put down her suitcase, Sarengova suddenly had a headache, vomited, and fainted in front of her eyes. In a panic, Hubri sent his wife to the Air Force General Hospital. After diagnosis, Sarengova was diagnosed with cerebral hemorrhage caused by days of exertion. Fortunately, due to the timely treatment, she only had a small amount of bleeding in her skull, and through emergency rescue such as dilating blood vessels and dredging, Sarengova was out of danger of life. However, the fetus in her abdomen for more than 5 months was miscarried, and the couple's liver and intestines were cut off. More heart-wrenching things are yet to come. The next day, the doctor told them that Sarengova had lost her motherhood forever due to years of fatigue and malnutrition, which led to premature ovarian failure. Xiao House and Zhang Zheng were under great pressure: "Mother Gaowa, we are tired of you." Sarengova endured the heartache and comforted: "I don't blame you, it is the baby who has nothing to do with us." After the two children left, she tearfully confessed to her husband: "I'm sorry, but I blame me for not protecting the baby." Hubri wept darkly.

Famous mezzo-soprano singer Sarengova: The reason why you can't be a mother for life, the tearful love camellia blooms after 18 years of pretending to be pregnant to deceive the dying mother-in-law We are the parents of 350 children

Sarengova with students

Unable to accept this cruel fact, after Sarengova was discharged from the hospital, Hubri was obviously cold to his wife. He spent all day with a shady face, hardly communicating with Sarengova, lying on the bed after cooking for the children, and throwing his wife a cold back. To express her guilt, Sarengova apologized to her husband again, and Hubu Ri's forehead broke out: "Now what is the use of saying ten thousand words of sorry?" If you leave your first child, babies are now in kindergarten. If you listen to my advice and don't use yourself as a working machine, why would you have such a tragic ending? ”

A woman loses her right to be a mother, and the pain is piercing. Hubri's accusations sprinkled a layer of salt on Sarengova's blood-dripping heartbreak, and she silently bit her lip and swallowed the tears into her stomach. Pain, self-blame, guilt and other emotions are intertwined in her heart, and Sarengova has headaches, anorexia, insomnia, and can't even hold on to two classes. The children broke through the knot between Gao wa's mother and Hu's father and acted like their own children.

The 40 children living around them, in order not to let sarengova and his wife worry, behaved exceptionally well-behaved: they went to bed at 10 o'clock at night, did not have to shout in the morning, and waited in the classroom for Sarengova to go to class. When Gao Wa's mother and Hu's father were entangled, the boy pulled Hu's father to the kitchen and peeled the onions and potatoes with him. The girls surrounded Sarengova and each sang a song to give her advice. In this way, the escalation of the conflict between sarenkova and his wife was avoided. They also joined hands with their brothers and sisters who had left to quietly resolve the gap between Gao wa's mother and Hu's father.

Children working in other places sent warm text messages to Sarenkova and his wife: "Mother Gaowa and Father Hu, in my heart you are your biological parents, and I will always love you." In the future, when you are old, I will support you as my biological parents. "A Bai child in Kunming, Yunnan Province, collaged a painting with the feathers of a white peacock from his hometown, and couriered it to Mr. and Mrs. Sarengova. The picture shows a flock of lambs nursing around the ewe, accompanied by the text: "We will always be your children, father and mother warm our lives." Children working in Beijing also frequently "return to their mother's home" with gifts. Some of them got married and said to Hub Ri, "Papa Hu, I am also a woman, and I understand the feelings of Gaowa's mother, and there is nothing more painful than depriving a woman of being a mother." Your coming together with Gova's mom is a legend in itself, and I hope you make her happy. "HuBuri's forehead is full of tears: his wife is an orphan, who has lacked father's love and maternal love since childhood, and grew up in turmoil and displacement. She also has a daughter and siblings, and she has no relatives but herself. He doesn't hurt her and who else can hurt her? HuBuri sincerely apologized to his wife: "Forgive my selfishness and coldness, I figured it out, we have so many cute and sensible children, there is nothing to regret." Sarengova grabbed her husband's hand: "Thank you for all these years, you have tolerated and accommodated me again and again." The estrangement in the couple's hearts completely melted.

Famous mezzo-soprano singer Sarengova: The reason why you can't be a mother for life, the tearful love camellia blooms after 18 years of pretending to be pregnant to deceive the dying mother-in-law We are the parents of 350 children

Gradually, Sarengova's love spread, and many kind people extended a helping hand to them: the landlord reduced their rent; the neighbor used the medical insurance card to buy them medicine; Li Duo, a graduate of the Beijing Film Academy, volunteered to be sarengova's agent. In the summer of 2014, through the mediation of President Lan of the China National Trade Promotion Association, Crab Island Resort in Chaoyang District provided a courtyard for a large family of more than 40 people to Sarengova free of charge. The children had dormitories, bathrooms, kitchens, and practice rooms, and Mr. and Mrs. Sarengova finally had a house of their own. After more than ten years of wandering, Sarengova and their children finally moved out of the basement and lived a normal life.

And Sarengova and his wife poured out their father's and mother's love on the children: the couple lent money to the children to pay for the singing competition; bought fabrics, stepped on the sewing machine to make costumes for the children. They make beautiful profiles for each child and then recommend them to literary groups. By May 2016, Sarengova had volunteered to train 350 students, including the "Snow Mountain Langma" group, the "Voice of Harmony" group, and the "Little Security Guard" Zhang Zheng. More than 80 students have been admitted to professional literary and art groups, and every child who goes out can support himself. But Sarengova and her husband are still in debt of 320,000 yuan.

In an interview in mid-December, Sarengova said emotionally: "Although I do not have my own children, but 350 students are my children, we are a warm big family." In the process of working for the children, my husband and I harvested another kind of happiness in life! ”

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