In life, children are mischievous and often cause headaches for adults. What do you think of your child's naughty behavior?
The navy believes that being naughty and active is a natural state in the normal growth of children, and parents do not have to go online. As parents, we can guide our children to develop good habits in a variety of ways, so as to gradually correct the problem of excessive naughtiness and activity in children.
How to educate and guide naughty children?
First of all, we need to understand the reasons why children are naughty.
Naughty children are children who show high energy, high activity, poor concentration, poor self-control, often aggressive and destructive behavior, poor habituality, like pranks, love tantrums and do not abide by class discipline in group life. Naughtiness is the nature of children, and in general, there are family reasons and own reasons for children to be naughty. On the one hand, this may be caused by improper family education, including arbitrary, indulgent or neglectful parenting styles; On the other hand, it may also be caused by the child's own personality, physical condition and other factors.
Secondly, in order to better discipline children's naughty behavior, parents can improve from the following aspects:
1. Exercise more.
Children are naughty, indicating that they are energetic, parents need to fully respect their children's play needs, provide children with sports adapted to their age, so that children can vent excess energy in sports, so as to improve children's naughty and active personality.
2. Explore your child's potential. Naughty children often represent more imagination and creativity, and all we need to do is guide them to find appropriate ways to use this creativity. They are encouraged to use their imagination and creativity, while focusing on individualized education so that children can find positive feedback in naughtiness and build healthy and good parent-child relationships.
3. Look at children with appreciation.
Naughty children are jade, parents carve their best tool is not to punish preaching, but to learn to listen to their voice, parents should look at naughty children with appreciative eyes, in order to discover their advantages and strengths, it is possible to guide and help them normally.
4. Care for children more.
Love is an important condition for the development of children's mental health. Children who are disliked by others often abandon themselves and form a psychology of inferiority or rebellion. Therefore, parents should not blindly rebuke and punish naughty children, but should understand children and express our love to them through many forms. Insist on looking at them in two and try to find out their brilliance. Encourage their progress, only in this way can the child go more and more smoothly on the road to happy growth.
No child is not naughty, but this cannot be regarded as a child's shortcomings, as parents, we must cultivate children's observation skills and correct cognition, and tell them the adverse consequences and effects of inappropriate behavior. It is necessary to establish the child's awareness of following the rules, formulate rules and inform the child of the consequences and punishments of not following the rules, so as to gradually develop the good habit of the child to follow the rules. When children make mistakes because they are naughty and active, we need to do a good job of psychological education, tell children the right thing to do, and let them maintain a positive attitude.