In 2001, a young girl who had just graduated from Nortel and had recently entered the entertainment industry was invited to a party of insiders.
I thought it was just a simple meal to contact my peers, who knew that Director Zhang, who was eating a certain big belly, walked towards the girl.

Saying that it was a toast, a pair of fat hands inadvertently grasped her snow-white arm
"I'm getting ready to make a scene and I'm thinking about inviting you to star."
"But we still have to discuss the details of the script in private tonight, and how about coming to my room to discuss?"
Although the words are vague, the meaning is already very explicit, and it is clear that it is to "unspoken rules".
If according to common sense, the little girl who is just starting out is at most looking for an excuse to shirk not going to the appointment.
But the reaction of our heroine surprised everyone present.
Only to see the girl turn around and pick up the red wine on the table, without hesitation, throw it on the director's face,
And angrily shouted, "You bastard, you're not a thing!" ”
Then he threw the door away, and the action was completed in one go, leaving only a dashing back for the frightened people.
This girl who was almost "unspoken" was Haiqing.
Why did Haiqing at that time, a naïve undergraduate graduate dare to directly confront the big guys in the industry?
Was it because of her fiery personality, or did she have a more powerful backer at that time?
Today, I will talk to you about Haiqing, who is constantly causing trouble because she is too blunt, and the mysterious family behind her.
01 From the Ganjia Compound to Nortel, the highest art school
In the week before the 1977 Lapa Festival, the "Ganjia Compound" in Nanjing's Gulou District was brightly lit up with lights and a joyful atmosphere.
The Eighth Festival has not yet arrived, and the Spring Festival needs to wait for a month, how can the Gan family be as happy as the festival at this time?
It turned out that on January 12, they had just ushered in the little baby Haiqing who had fallen to the ground.
When he was a child, Haiqing had curly hair, fair skin, and eyes as black and shiny as grapes. Anyone who looks at it can't help but sigh, "This one looks so good!"!
Because of his outstanding appearance, Xiao Haiqing is also particularly favored.
The family attached great importance to the cultivation of Haiqing, and from an early age let her learn piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, so Haiqing showed extraordinary talent in art when she was young.
At the age of 7, he was starred in a TV series by the director, and at the age of 12, he successfully entered the Jiangsu Provincial Drama School to learn dance.
Haiqing graduated in 1994 and unsurprisingly passed the selection of the Provincial Song and Dance Theater.
Just two years later, Haiqing represented the theater in the top newcomer dance competition "Tao Li Cup" and won a trophy as desired.
Although he developed well in dance, Hehai Qing was content to stop there.
Looking at the excellent elders of the family, 17-year-old Haiqing sat by the pond in the Gan family compound and meditated:
"What else can I do to truly live myself and realize the value of my life?"
At that time, it was the golden age of Chinese cinema, and countless excellent film works such as "Big Red Lantern Hanging High", "Party A and Party B", "Spring Break" and so on emerged.
Haiqing was touched by the plot of the movie and was also deeply attracted by this art form, and she decided to learn acting and personally participate in this great acting career.
With the mentality of trying it out, Haiqing enrolled in the Central Academy of Drama and the Beijing Film Academy, two top film schools.
Dramatically, in 1997, both universities invariably issued qualified admission letters to Haiqing.
In the end, Haiqing chose the Beijing Film Academy as the beginning of his dream as an actor.
02 College students transform into "national daughters-in-law"
After entering Nortel, Haiqing met Huang Lei, who was also a teacher and friend.
Throughout her college career, she almost followed Huang Lei in drama performances.
The high-intensity real-time performance also laid a good foundation for Haiqing's solid performance skills in the future.
More importantly, Haiqing starred in the dramas "Thunderstorm" and "Camel Xiangzi" during his school years, and also met the famous TV series director Ding Hei.
In 2001, Haiqing graduated from the acting department of the Beijing Film Academy and starred in the debut film "Green Apple", but the response was mediocre.
A year later, at the invitation of Ding Hei, Haiqing starred in the role of Zhong Ning in "Jade Guanyin".
Although Haiqing is only a supporting role in the play, with the explosion of "Jade Guanyin" after the broadcast, Haiqing finally saw the hope of the road to acting.
But what is unexpected is that this little flame of hope has not yet had time to burn, and it is extinguished again.
In the following four years, Haiqing acted in a total of four TV series, an average of one a year, which can be called a model worker.
However, these works are like stones sinking into the sea, and they have not stirred up any waves.
In 2006, Haiqing took over the life emotional drama "Double Sided Tape", in which he played the Shanghai daughter-in-law Li Juan.
This time Haiqing ushered in his own era, the ratings of "Double Sided Glue" rose steadily, and Haiqing became the "national daughter-in-law" in the eyes of the people of the whole country.
After that, Haiqing participated in a number of urban family dramas of the same type, such as "Snail House", "The Belle Epoque of Daughter-in-Law", "Heart Technique" and so on.
Each one is well-known, among which "The Belle Epoque of the Daughter-in-Law" directly sent Haiqing to the podium of the Golden Eagle Award and the Feitian Award, allowing Haiqing to win many awards for best actress.
In addition to television, Haiqing also dared to try movies. She can be seen in blockbusters such as "The Orphan of Zhao", "Beijing Meets Seattle", "Red Sea Action", "My Father and Me" and other blockbusters.
In general, since Haiqing's debut, the road of acting cannot be said to be smooth, but it is also a steady progress.
However, in addition to the acting profession, Haiqing's style in the entertainment industry has been criticized and has been on the hot topic many times.
Many netizens have jokingly called Haiqing "the second Yuan Li" and "the typical troublemaker in the actress".
03 Kneeling on one knee "Confession of Love" frightens Ou Hao
First of all, in 2013, Haiqing was invited by Mango Station to participate in "Happy Male Voice" as a guest of honor.
At the scene of the competition, Ou Hao, a fast man who had not yet debuted at that time, had just finished singing his own repertoire.
Saying that it was late and fast, Haiqing rushed onto the stage with a healthy step, He Jiong and Wang Han had not yet returned from the afterglow of the song, and in the blink of an eye, they saw that Haiqing had already knelt down on one knee facing Ou Hao.
The two hosts were confused, and wondered psychologically: "Is haiqing going to stage a drama of her sister bravely chasing after small fresh meat?" ”
Sure enough, the kneeling haixian hand on the shoulder, the eyes obsessively looked at Ou Hao, and the mouth frantically expressed love:
"Ou Hao, you are my god!" , "Tonight, my short hair is for you".
It's like a loyal sister fan who chased after the scene to see OuHao's performance.
Such a bold move did not bring a trace of joy to Ou Hao, but made him cramped and uneasy.
In the face of Haiqing, a big senior in the showbiz industry, Ou Hao did not know how to answer her declaration of love for a while.
The helpless Ou Hao rubbed his hands nervously and looked at the host like a plea for help. In the end, it was only when the host came out of the round that this dramatic scene could be ended.
Since this sudden kneeling incident, Haiqing has changed the good image of the former national daughter-in-law and has continuously staged a farce in the entertainment circle.
04 Take off the high heels to award, so that Guo Jingming embarrassed and did not know it
After a few years, at a certain award ceremony, Haiqing began to take the usual path again.
At that time, Haiqing and Guo Jingming were arranged to present awards on the same stage.
As we all know, Guo Jingming's height is very short, which is also one of the pain points that he is most reluctant to be mentioned in front of everyone.
But Haiqing was going to open Guo Jingming's wound on such a grand occasion.
When the award was awarded, Haiqing suddenly bent down and took off his high heels on the stage, and also said that he "must take care of Guo Jingming's feelings".
The focus of the award ceremony itself should be on the winners, Hai Qingyi took off his shoes, and the attention of the audience went to Guo Jingming's height.
At the moment, Guo Jingming's face flashed a trace of embarrassment, fortunately, compared to Haiqing, Guo Jingming still judged the situation.
He just smiled in thanks, "Thank you Haiqingjie for understanding my feelings so much."
There is no doubt that Haiqing's seemingly considerate behavior not only embarrassed Guo Jingming, but also too noisy for the award-winning guests.
Netizens have a lot of discussion about Haiqing taking off his high heels, and most people disagree:
They believe that "Haiqing's good intentions are actually equivalent to emphasizing the fact that Guo Jingming is short, which is a kind of discrimination in the bones."
The real consideration for people should be to know that others have physical defects, but still treat each other as normal people.
Haiqing's deliberate care is actually a secondary injury to Guo Jingming.
Really can't help but wonder if Haiqing is too blunt?
Otherwise, why do you always do such embarrassing and unknowing things.
05 for the actress to go out but was wildly criticized for low emotional intelligence
In 2019, at the closing ceremony of the FIRST Youth Film Festival, Haiqing, who had only been suspended for a few years, was only eliminated, because a speech in the venue with the theme of "Speaking for Middle-Aged Actresses" ignited a hot discussion on the Internet.
Haiqing was the guest of honor on the same day, and after the award, according to the normal process, she should step down.
But Haiqing did not, she not only stayed on the stage herself, but also stopped Zhou Dongyu, who received the award.
At the same time, she also named Yao Chen, Liang Jing, and Xiao Song Jia on the stage.
A group of actresses are unknown, but it is not good to embarrass Haiqing in front of countless audiences, so everyone is very cooperative on stage.
When he arrived at the stage, Haiqing saw that everyone was together, cleared his throat and began to cry out in tears.
First of all, I complained about how difficult it was to survive in the entertainment industry as a middle-aged actress, and now how difficult it is to play a role that is not a mother.
It seems that just taking his own example is not weighty enough, and Haiqing has exposed the heartache of each little sister one by one.
Looking at her girlfriend Yao Chen, who was standing on the side, she said, "For example, Yao Chen, she had to be a film producer herself, and only then did she have the opportunity to participate in "Send Me to Qingyun".
As soon as these words came out, Yao Chen was not calm, and could only squeeze out a grudging smile at the camera.
After saying that Yao Chen was not finished, Haiqing hugged the little Song Jia beside him and said painfully: "Song Jia has not been married so far in order to shoot a scene." She also asked everyone to call her Little Flower.
Everything is just to be able to continue acting."
This sounds like it is indeed thinking about Song Jia, but when it is said so clearly, it seems that Song Jia has been pretending to be tender in order to shoot a scene.
After Song Jia listened, the smile at the corner of her mouth stopped, and her face became dark.
Then Haiqing said of Liang Jing: "Don't look at Liang Jing's usual scenery as an investor, but she is actually investing in private, while asking her husband if she has a good role to play." ”
In addition to the three middle-aged actresses on the stage, Ma Yili, who did not show up, was also mentioned by Haiqing.
I thought that this farce could end here, but in the end, Haiqing suddenly cue Hu Ge, and compared the middle-aged actress with Hu Ge.
"You directors, paper filmmakers, you can look at us middle-aged actresses, really cheap and easy to use. We act as well as Hu Ge, but the price is much cheaper than him."
Today's actors are also a kind of art industry, and art is naturally priceless.
Although Haiqing was telling the truth, he suddenly broke the mystery veil on the actors, causing them to fall from the fairies on the altar to items that could be priced at will.
No wonder that as soon as Haiqing's voice fell, Xiao Songjia eagerly took over the microphone: "This view only represents Haiqing personally." ”
Yao Chen also followed suit: "I just want to be a quiet actress, please give the directors a chance!" Thank you! Liang Jing was speechless.
Haiqing's sudden speech was really a senseless disaster for the three actresses who were inexplicably pulled onto the stage.
From their reactions, it can also be seen that Haiqing's words made the three actors feel very uncomfortable and embarrassed.
Is Haiqing speaking out for the actress's career too short? Indeed it is.
But why don't Yao Chen and the other three actresses appreciate it?
Or is it because Haiqing acts too recklessly, does not speak the art of language, and also takes out other people's private secrets to say, which is too lacking in proportion.
It is really like the evaluation of some netizens, "Haiqing's emotional intelligence is very much in arrears compared with her acting skills"!
06 The undertone of misbehaving is precisely because she is a descendant of the Gan family
Many people will ask Why Haiqing is still in the entertainment industry after such a repeated death?
The answer is simple, just because Haiqing is a descendant of the Gan family.
Haiqing's original name was "Huang Yi", and this "Yi" character was given by Haiqing's grandfather, which means "not pleasing to the world, not pleasing to the world, and those who are happy with themselves will certainly be pleasant." ”
A simple sentence reveals the extraordinary cultural heritage of the Haiqing mother family.
Who is Haiqing's grandfather?
He was the famous late Qing Dynasty scholar Gan Xi, and the second master of the "Gan Family Compound".
The Ganjia Compound, also known as the Ganxi Mansion, is now the largest private residence and famous cultural site in China, and is also one of the famous classics in Nanjing.
In addition to the grandfather, the grandfather Gan Fu was a famous bibliophile in the Qing Dynasty, and Haiqing's uncle Gan Tao was a generation of masters who were well-known at home and abroad in the field of national music.
Ancestors can also be traced back to the Qin state of Gan Mao, the famous general of the Three Kingdoms.
Haiqing's marriage was also introduced by Gan's family and married to an executive in the Hong Kong area of the Bank of China.
Therefore, just like the past written at the beginning of the article, Haiqing did not fear any predecessors and bigwigs when he first entered the entertainment industry.
Today's Haiqing, there are works, trophies to add, coupled with the Gan family behind her, she is naturally more fearless.
In fact, looking at these demonization incidents in Haiqing, whether it is to express love to Ou Hao, who is still a newcomer, or to understand Guo Jingming's height and shoes, or to speak out for middle-aged actresses and strive for opportunities.
It is not difficult for us to find that Haiqing's starting point is all well-intentioned, but her approach is very indecent.
So good intentions do bad things, embarrass people without knowing it.
If Haiqing can learn to express her emotions and demands more wisely in the days to come, I think she will be able to continue to ride the wind and waves even if she is middle-aged.